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My folks, DH's folks, my two best mates and my small team at work got told as soon as I found out, as they were all super supportive through my three miscarriages (hard to hide miscarriages at work when you start bleeding badly and need to go home!) Also, as I found out that I was pregnant after being admitted to hospital with self-diagnosed appendicitis. (My appendix was fine!)


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So far have told 2 friends, as they knew we were dealing with infertility issues, haven't told any other friends or family yet. Want to get a blood test next week to confirm and then will tell other friends. We will DF's sons in a couple of weeks - it's a bit tricky seeing as I teach at the school they attend so it'll be out in the open very quickly once they start sharing with friends, but I'd rather they know early rather than make them wait and possibly hear rumours through the school community (shockingly gossipy school).
It's nice to see I'm not the only person who struggles to keep it on the downlow till 12 weeks, don't know how people do it!
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I told my sisters and my Mum straight away, and my husband told one friend. We'll probably tell a couple of other friends at 10 weeks (cos we're going to Wellington and will see them there), and everyone else can wait til 12 or later. I sort of wish we hadn't told, as I'm so nervous, but I absolutely wanted my mum and sisters to know either way.

Fingers crossed I get to tell everyone else in a few weeks!
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Last time we told most people after my scan at 6 weeks, this time we haven't told many people (family and a few close friends) and won't do til next scan, I've had a bit of bleeding and cramping so just want to make sure all ok. It's hard not telling people, i can't believe some people tell no one til 12 weeks that must be sooo hard!!


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Ask yourself, if you had a mc who would do you want to know and who do you want as support....tell only those and do it whenever you want.
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