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Hey ladies, thanks for all the resources! My daughter is 6 and we are only getting around to having our second, then then planning on a thrid.

I hit the library and found nothing that helps me help her in understanding what it will be like when there is a new bubs and prehaps some steps on helping her prepare for life with a sibling. Im thinking after 6 years as the only child and then a sibling and new cousin in the same year will make her feel a little left out?

Maybe ill check out whitcolls and see what they have.

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My daughter was 6 when her brother was concieved, its a whole different ball game to when they are toddlers and getting a sibling, my biggest advice would be to involve her as much as you can, talk to her often about the baby, and how you are feeling, and about your pregnancy and birth with her so she knows that was also very special for her.
She is also old enough to look at more informative books with you,talk casually to her about feeding, how they can't do much for themselves at first and how they will be reliant on you,and that she was too....kids love to hear about themselves as babies

My daughter is AMAZING with her brother, not only does she do an awesome job at helping out (she can even change nappies, I don't make her, but the point is,she can ) she understands that he is little and sometimes I need to give him a bit more attention,yet she completely adores him ...

PM me if you have any   questions

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