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k&jsmum
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Posted: 21 October 2005 at 4:33pm |
hey was just going to say about the hospitals having lactating consults (i was in palmy 2 so not sure about other hosp) but janine beat me to it lol the only thing i would look out for is they really push - i mean push you to bf and i spent 2 weeks trying to get one of my twins to bf - it was awful. i dont know how many times the nurses in neonats found me hiding behind the screens with keegan both of us bawling until i said after 2 weeks of pure stress that i would express and bottle feed him. i nearly throttled the nurse when she said "what a good idea - we have been waiting for you to come to that conclusion". so anyway after my moan what i was meaning to get at was there are other options for you as someyimes the hosp staff can be abit too much pro bf to the point where you almost feel guilty if you dont suceed at it.
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HelenElla
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Posted: 21 October 2005 at 9:08pm |
They pressured me to breastfeed it was horrible, I knew I really wanted to but it was just too stressful trying to do. It wasn't until I got home that I expressed and bottle fed Chloe which settled her enough for me to be able to relax and learn how to breastfeed. From her second feed at home onwards I had no problems breastfeeding. I'm so glad I didn't give up trying. It's just so easy not having to worry about heating the milk or cleaning the bottles not to mention the cost of formula these days.
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mum2paris
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Posted: 21 October 2005 at 11:19pm |
tell me about it.. i will probably have to have ayja on bottle by my next placement as it won't be as flexible as my maternity one was. that really sucks cos ayja is feeding well and i'm gonna have to put her on the bottle and loose my supply just cos of that - have thought about still feeding during the times that i am with her.. but last time, expressing was very stressful and took alot out of me so formula might be the go.
hey has anyone had to cut down their feeds for any reason... and has anyone had success with building them back up again... i mean after the placement it would be nice to be able to resume full feeding if possible for a few more weeks - that is... until my 6 week placement at the end of january. am just wondering how successful i would be to give bottles while on placment and feed all other times, then resume full feeds after each placement.... do you think it would be too much hard work or just a matter of getting her to feed often - as if she were having a growth spurt... to build my supply back up.
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HelenElla
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Posted: 22 October 2005 at 9:31am |
I've never tried to build up again with feeds after cutting down but when Chloe was getting older and on soilds I was down to only feeding her twice, once in the morning and once at night. Anyway she came down with a bad flu at able 13months and wasn't drinking very well with her cup so I started breastfeeding her as much as she would take. The next day I woke up it felt as if my milk had come in all over again and I was very full and leaking everywhere but it then took a while for my supply to ajust to only a few feeds a day again. So anyway after that experience I think the milk supply is pretty adaptable to change. So you should be fine but you may have to spend a day or two feeding or expressing a lot to stimulate milk production again.
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nadine05
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Posted: 25 October 2005 at 10:37am |
hi - just wanted to say YES you can build your supply up again - it should be easy. Just keep b/fing when u can while on placement (express if u want to, even if its just once per day) that will help to maintain current supply and make it quicker to get it back up again. when u r ready just increase b/fs up again slowly (1 less bottle a day). the only problem u could have is if bubs starts to prefer the bottle and wont take the breast - but its well worth it to try. Also night feeds build up milk supply faster (because related hormones are higher at night) good luck!
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Maya
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Posted: 25 October 2005 at 11:26am |
I had the same thing as Helen, Maya was 8 mths old and down to 4 small feeds a day, then she got sick and couldn't keep any food down so I had to feed her hourly and my milk came flooding back. So I think you should probably be able to build it up again, it will just take time and patience. Will Ayja be on solids by then? Coz when Maya started at daycare I used to have to go and b/f her there, but once she started having a decent amount of solids I could give her a huge feed when I dropped her off and another when I picked her up, so she didn't have to have a bottle (not that she would take one anyway  )
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Posted: 25 October 2005 at 11:35am |
Hey guys... Any sign of Roksana today???? Maybe she is having her baby too???
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Posted: 25 October 2005 at 3:10pm |
Me too! She mentioned she had a big weekend on this weekend, though, so maybe shes still away?
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mum2paris
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Posted: 25 October 2005 at 9:06pm |
kewl that's good to hear - i plan to feed still at nights and when i am with her. have been trying solids with her on and off but she is not too fussed about them so haven't really pushed too much. I will be working 8 hr shifts so she wil definately need a few feed while i am gone - dunno if it is morning or night shift - if night shift she might only nedd a couple and possibly i mite see if she can be brought up again for dinner time feeds. if daytime then probably not much chance of anything. thanks for your help ladies - will keep at it i think and just introduce the bottle over the next few weeks as need be - she is pretty variable in her feeding anyway - one day she might feed lots and lots all day, the next she might only want a feed 4 times and have a huge feed each time so with that in mind my supply is used to be chopped and changed i spose.
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Tastic
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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 5:01am |
Firstly I looked up so many sites and had a huge list of things I should take!
but I ended up with things I didnt even take out of my bag and other things I had to get brought up to me..
It didnt help that Id left packing my bag to the last minute and dh had to pack most of it the minute before we left!Heres What Id took and what I should of packed and had to get brought up to me!(What ever you do pack it early, dont keep putting it off otherwise you'll end up like me and not have it ready!)
For Me:
- Clothes - A couple of sizes, as I found even my early maternity clothes too big and had to 'roll' the top of my pants to keep them up!(Im talking about clothes to go home in!)
- Knickers - Dark Colors
- Toiletries! - Soap or Bodywash, Flannel, HairBrush, Hairties(I forgot mine, I was so annoyed!), Toothbrush and Toothpaste, A Razor!, Makeup - if you wear ir, Moisturiser - I found my skin wen quite dry from the hospital heat!
- Maternity Pads - Although some hospitals give you a packet
- Nursing Pads - these are a must I forgot them and had to get DH to bring them up!
- Socks or Slippers
- Pjs or Nighty - more then one incase you bleed through - horrible thought I know but better being safe then sorry!
- Nursing/Maternity Bras
- Magazines or a Book - I got board!
- Something Sweet! - I had to get DH to get me something sweet to eat
- LipBlam! My lips got very Dry and once again I had to get DH to bring it in
- Nipple Cream - I didnt think Id need it but I soooo did! I had to get mum to buy it for me!
- A Pen! - to fill in the baby registration and also to order your food!
- A Phone Calling Card or have money on your cell phone to ring people!
- A phone/Address book with the people you want to rings numbers!
- Something for your Partner to eat/Drink!
- A Jacket! incase it decides to rain on your way there or home
- This isnt a biggy and can get brought up to you before your about to leave... a bucket or some plactic bags to put your flowers in to stop them from dripping in the car!
- Shoes! this migtht seem obvious but I didnt take any! I went in socks and had to get DH to bring them up!!!!
- Cellphone Charger! my cellphone started beeping at us because of the amount of phonecalls we made!
- Camera - and if its a digital the charger!
For Bubs:
- A few Nappies - Although some Hospitals provide them
- Clothes - Mainly to bring them home in as the hospital may provide you clothes for them while they are there
- Car Seat
- Head Support! - This is a biggy so there head can be supported - we forgot ours and they had to wrapp the blanket up around him!
- Bottle and Formula if Your not going to be Breastfeeding
- A hat! to keep there head warm - you can take it off when they get home.. back in the warmth! - this might be different now its going into summer, but Id take one just in cse as new zealand weather in unpredictable!
I think thats about it.. Ill add more if I think of them
Sorry if Ive rambled on but This is what ive needed/taken with me
Trish
(any more questions just pm me if you like
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HelenElla
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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 8:55am |
Thanks for the list I didn't think about putting shoes in my bag. Last time I went in with no shoes on and ended up going home with no shoes on, it wasn't a good look!
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Xander&Harmony
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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 3:32pm |
lol,i went home 430pm in my pink silp on slipperscos i thought idstay the night as went to hosp at 630am in my pjs.neverthought bout shoes tho
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aimeejoy
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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 3:51pm |
I was wondering the same about Roksana, but I think she finished work last week so maybe she hasnt got her computer at home yet? Or maybe bubs did come early!
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HelenElla
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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 8:10pm |
Roksana put a post on somewhere else, she hasn't had bubs yet but doesn't have access to the internet.
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Roksana
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Posted: 28 October 2005 at 1:17pm |
Hey Trish....good list.....Very helpful...forgot the going home cloths for me...he he ha ha
And shoes...funny that!
I am still here and still pregnant!!! And oh did I mention bored??
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HelenElla
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Posted: 28 October 2005 at 3:54pm |
I have just been having a look to see if I can find some spare shoes to pack but it turns out my feet are too swollen to fit any of them  If I don't remembered to wear my only fitting pair of shoes to the hospital I mite just have to wear my slippers home!
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