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CrazyCass
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Posted: 03 December 2011 at 10:47pm |
Hehe Kelz! My cousins wife loves her belly being touched to!
I HATED it - I'd find ways to drop it into conversation most people got the hint, and the others i was usually too shocked to say anything. Though I must have had a funny look on my face when it did happen as a few people apologised afterwards and acknowledged that they should have asked first.
Though I did snap at the site manager one day  Lucky he's known the family for ages so I could get away with being rather rude!
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enelra
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Posted: 04 December 2011 at 6:43pm |
I've been dropping it into conversations too, cos people keep touching my belly.
Yesterday a friend asked me to lift up my top so she could see my belly! I was like "no way!" She couldn't understand why I wouldn't.
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JuliaC
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Posted: 06 December 2011 at 9:16pm |
Wouldn't it be awkward if someone rubbed your belly and you weren't actually pregnant anymore just postpartum?
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sbeach
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Posted: 10 December 2011 at 3:19pm |
I hated my tummy being touched by anyone but DH... I was a bit mean with a random lady though... I am a big person and didnt really show until after 25 weeks, at about 28ish weeks it could still be debatable and a random annoying lady patted my belling and said 'cant be long now!' - this is in a queue at a bookshop - and I replied 'what? do you usually go around touching random fat people on their stomachs?' and then walked off.
I was grumpy to begin with and she just rubbed me the wrong way...felt mean afterwards but it did feel good at the time!
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Kelz
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Posted: 11 December 2011 at 7:46pm |
Here's an article for you ladies to read about "Bump invasion"
Enjoy!
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MrsEmma
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Posted: 11 December 2011 at 9:00pm |
A very appropriate article!
Jeepers I can't even imagine measuring 52 weeks, impressive!!
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newme
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Posted: 12 December 2011 at 12:49pm |
JuliaC wrote:
Wouldn't it be awkward if someone rubbed your belly and you weren't actually pregnant anymore just postpartum?  |
Yeah, I did this to a woman at a wedding I went to....It was so uncomfortable. I never ever touch anyones belly anymore!
And if you think belly touching is bad, my MIL felt my breasts to see if they had much milk!!!
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JuliaC
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Posted: 12 December 2011 at 2:40pm |
newme wrote:
Yeah, I did this to a woman at a wedding I went to....It was so uncomfortable. I never ever touch anyones belly anymore!
And if you think belly touching is bad, my MIL felt my breasts to see if they had much milk!!! |
hahahaha, how awkward is that??? better everyone just keep their hands to themselves :)
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AandCsmum
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Posted: 12 December 2011 at 2:48pm |
Funnily I saw my brother on the weekend and was shocked to see the size of his belly so I poked it & commented on it's size! Woops probably annoyed him!
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JuliaC
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Posted: 12 December 2011 at 3:44pm |
I sometimes rub DP's belly and start talking to it as if a baby was in there, lol...his sympathy belly is not far off from mine
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islandgirl
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Posted: 13 December 2011 at 9:00pm |
I had a lot of people touch my belly. Death stare worked well... but for a few people (even random ones I didn't know) I reached out and touched their belly's. They freaked out - point taken I think.
To be fair - I didn't mind friends touching it late in pregnancy.. but couldn't stand it when it was tiny - not even I could feel it!!!!
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