Hey thanks Fairy for your recommendation and help!

I should rephrase uncomfortable to petrified and to the point of having a full on panic attack - which is what happened last time at just the thought of having to be checked out by a male doctor in December last year.
I've only been seen by a male doctor in my lady parts once, many years ago. He did nothing wrong and I'm sure he was a lovely person - but I had nightmares for so long afterwards I don't think I could go through that again.
I'm not judging the person by any means, it's me with the issue!
My appointment isn't until the 22nd of Jan, they were pretty busy as there was a 5 week wait