Jessiesmum - I got that book out of library yesterday and is a good read so far :) Thanks for the recommendation. I realised I really do love may family. They have given my lots of support. My Aunty by marriage has been over here this week for her fathers illness and subsequent funeral and called today and said how sorry she was. She said my angels are in heaven with her father who is probably teaching them economics (he was an economist) :) It was very sweet and I truly believe that. I think I've grown through these last few months and I knew how to respond to her fathers passing than what I would have before. She was great too:)
Sh_az - Wow that must have been hard for you. I'm sorry for your losses. It really helps to hear of positive stories though and I'm so happy you are pregnant with your little darling :)
Thanks for your thoughts everyone :) The surgery went well and I'm surprised by how good I'm feeling :) Still a wee while to go to recover emotionally but I'll get there :)
On reading that book, I realised we have things are so much better in our day in age. My Nana had a stillborn son in 1956? but it was never acknowledged and just taken away from her. It was never named or spoken about either. She passed away nearly 4 years ago now and suffered from dementia and I think one time she was trying to talk to me about her son. She couldn't really string sentences together that well at the end but I'm pretty sure she wanted to talk about it. It just wasn't spoken about in those days but I am so thankful for the support I have received in the last few months :) It really does help you to grieve, to know that people are thinking of you and are there for you :)
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