I am up to baby number three, and have had terrible tearing and needed epesiotomys
both times, I'm hoping to avoid it this time, but not confident, I have very quick births and dialate internally,
but have to time for my body to externally prepare,
I remember reading about some creams and stuff designed to help prepare the perenium for birth,
think they kind of softened and conditioned the skin,
I mentally filed this info, but can't find it in my brain..
If any one has any ideas or info on products that may help it would be much appreciated