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Emmi_
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Topic: accidental homebirth Posted: 08 September 2011 at 9:06am |
I was just wondering if anyone had had an accidental homebirth.. like you were planning on giving birth at the hospital but didnt make it in time?
Did it make you want to birth at home next time? or go to the hospital earlier?
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 10:20am |
you planning an accident Emmi  ... sorry I had many hours in hospital with my first 2 and an induction with my 3rd so not even close here...
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 10:30am |
Hahaha my official plan is to stay at home for as long as I feel comfortable and confident, only want to go to hospital for a reason (which giving birth doesnt count  )
But I know a girl who got to the hospital 20 mins before her son was born, so pretty close to being an accidental HB (I think?) so wondered if there were many on here that hadnt planned a HB but got one anyway
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 10:52am |
Ty I left for the birth unit at 3:30 and he was out by 4:44 so if id stayed I think he would have been one,same with Mila
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 11:06am |
Oh and Caitlyn...well,I was wanting to push in the car
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 12:09pm |
I got to the point where I wanted to go to Hospital and was wanting to push, I went to hospital and was told I couldn't push (as I wasn't properly dialated) once my cervix got itself sorted Catherine arrived a few hours later.
If you are planning a home birth then wouldn't going to hospital only be if there are complications?
Next time I want to birth at the Birthing Centre rather than hospital and would probably go earlier if I could.
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 12:24pm |
Yes, but the original question was has anyone had an unplanned homebirth... It didnt have anything to do with what Im planning to do (was just curious as to the answers)
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 1:05pm |
A friend of minedid. It was her second baby and she'd had a week of false labour. By the time she realised it was time to push it was too late to go to hospital. They called an ambulance though and tbey arrived to supervise Dad catching the baby. They transferred to hospital afterwards as she had problems with the placenta. If she ever had another I think she would've planned a homebirth.
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 1:07pm |
Great story!
I have heard that weeks of false labour makes for a very short/effective real labour! Thanks for sharing!
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 1:28pm |
A friend of mine had a planned home birth - BUT the midwife didnt make it in time, bubs was born before she could get there - she said something about 7mins and it was all over, lucky for them it was #5 so her DH kinda knew what had to happen
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 1:42pm |
Jacob was born quarter of an hour after we got to the birthing centre, so nearly was! I'm glad he wasn't, though, I wasn't in any way prepared and would have made a big mess somewhere based on the blood and gunk in the birthing centre!
ETA that RiverRidge is only 5 mins drive away from us, and DH drove like the clappers - glad we didn't have a 20min car trip!
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 3:54pm |
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 4:36pm |
I go in the almost but not quite, got to the hospital and had her 1/2 an hour later. If I'd not been so insistent on going she could've been born at home.
I'd like a homebirth for next time (if there is a next time) but we need our own home first!
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 4:52pm |
My mum got to the hospital with a few minutes to spare before I arrived. She honestly had no idea she was in labour at all so that was a concern for me but never happened. She reproduced dinner around midnight and at about 4am my father noticed she wasn't herself (and having had 4 kids previously to another woman bundled her into the car) and I arrived at 4.30am almost in the hospital door way haha!
We want a homebirth next time but like Kali said about own home etc although I wonder if I could persuade MIL or my mum to let me do it at one of their homes haha! Doubt it!
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 4:53pm |
Also we had a woman in our antenatal class who did, or she might have been in the class before ours but we were told about how she locked herself in the bathroom trying to sort out the pain and then called her husband in when she realised the head was out
ETA: We were told more so for our partners that some women do strange things in labour. I know that I went into my own lil bubble/world when in labour to deal with the pain.
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 6:18pm |
One of the mums who was in my Jan 09 thread had an accidental home birth, we had another who had a car birth in the Victoria tunnel in Wgtn as well lol
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 6:19pm |
my daughter's dad and stepmum have had 3 homebirths and all in rented properties
If I was to have anymore I don't mind the idea of a homebirth,I tend to have pretty uncomplicated births and I've had no pain relief for any of them,but its DH that id need to talk round
oh and my friend' cousin was walking down the steps when she was in labour with number 5,stopped halfway,few pushes and baby was out,so that was an accidental one ...but they had no more after that so I cant help with the second question
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 9:13pm |
Hey Emmi, I know a couple of people that's happened to, but they were both recently so don't know if they're planning anymore kids or not.
As you know, I had a planned homebirth, but I reckon even if we were planning to go to the hospital I would have ended up having him at home anyway seeing as my mum arrived to look after Chelsea just after I'd started pushing. She wouldn't have arrived any earlier had we been planning on going to the hospital lol
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Posted: 09 September 2011 at 7:55am |
wow, quite a few 'just in time' stories!
Love the birthing in the tunnel! well actually it would be pretty uncomfy I imagine!
The stairs is pretty cool too! great 21st story!
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Posted: 09 September 2011 at 10:24am |
Had no intention of birthing at home with my son, in saying that I couldn't. The only birthing unit is around 45-50 minutes away. Lets just say my son entered the world extremely fast, went from having a crap to sudden contractions that were 2 minutes apart and lasting 20 seconds each. By the time my midwife actually listened to us that I was in fact in labour and mum managed to bundle me into the car we made it 5 minutes into our 45-50minute trip. Mum made the decision to turn around and take me to the local clinic. He was delivered by my mum and a nurse in the local clinic/old folks home within 5 mins of arriving. Because I laboured so quickly I think if I ever have another baby that I will just opt for home birth (plus the car ride when in labour is terrible!!!!)
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