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    Posted: 10 May 2008 at 10:05am
I feel like I am being yelled at 24/7 Constant headaches... when he's angry/frustrated because something isn't going his way, he screeches. When he's happy, he squeals (loudly, and very high pitched) My nerves are worn so thin from all this, that I end up yelling back at the slightest thing I've tried giving him lots of attention, it doesn't work... giving him time out, he just screams louder, I don't know what to do! The only person we have to babysit ever is my MIL, and she's busy with work... hasn't looked after him in at least 2 months, and DF is at weltec most of the day. The only breaks I get are if Mike takes him for a walk to the supermarket or something, and he's usually "busy" playing with things on the computer when he's home.

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my boy is the same he is a squealer...............my hubby got an ear fill last night as 2s a week he has rugby practice then on saturday he plays and when he is home he does sweet s'it all. Doesnt help either when baby is still waking threw the night and not sleeping at the day............im luck though i have my parents unfortantly no ILs........i heard someone mentioning some parent place you can go too...........it has beds so you go there and either sleep or put your bub down and then duck out for a hair cut or coffee.......just to realese the stress. Sorry i dont know what its called but citizen advice may be able to help or plunket. Good luck
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I should add - we have no money to spare atm on our current budget, the weather is crap, and no transport! I miss summer already

And Seb is getting closer and closer to 2, but still not really talking, which is really hard, and I'm sure frustrating for him because he can't communicate. He doesn't listen to us either. I'm sure he can hear us, and can understand some things, like last night we asked him where his socks were because he'd pulled them off, and he went looking around the lounge and made us a pile of every shoe/sock/sandle he found.

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:) that did sound cute.........kids seem to pick up on parents emotions too .....as for the money ...hello...im so with you on that sista :) i wake up eachmorning take a deep breath and tell myself it will only get better we just need to hang in there.......and try my hardest not to think of the bank account. give the advice centre a ring its free and people can come out to you...........i live a bit far away........but im waving to you there are other ways for him to communicate too..........get him to do hand movements...thats what me and ty do its easier then what you think and he just luves doing it he thinks its a game...........he has cards that he points too if you wants something........
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I might take a look at baby sign... I guess it can't hurt!

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