Night Time Sleep Troubles

Not sure what is going on but we are starting to get fed up with Amelia's night time sleep routine. Lately she has been going to bed earlier only because she is having her day nap earlier and that is fine. The problem arises later in the night. Her sleep during the night has been very disturbed since we moved here. I can count the amount of times she has slept the whole night downstairs in her bed on 1 hand. Most nights she will wake either at 10pm or 3am screaming (usually accompanied by NO NO NO) and the only way to settle her to bring her upstairs and into our bed. She acts like she is scared of something down there, she stops crying as soon as we get to the top of the stairs.

We have made sure it is warm as possible down there so she isn't waking because she is cold.

I leave her for as long as possible before coming down to see what the problem is, I usually find her sitting up on top of her covers with her back to the door crying and saying no no.

Having the (any) light on only makes the problem worse because then she just keeps pointing to her door and wanting to come up stairs.

We just aren't sure what to do. As much as I love co-sleeping each night, my sleep is now poor and we are meant to be TTC #2 but with a toddler lying between you, it kinda kills the mood. Every time I roll over or try to take my arm out from under her she starts to cry no no.

Yeah someone else mentioned getting the house blessed - I have a couple cleansing spells I could try before getting someone in!

She is nearly 20 months and we have been in this house since start Feb 08. She sleeps in the there happily during the day.

we have a white net so we could try that too. I am going to try the sleeping in her room but yes she will come to expect that every night.