Pregnancy issue
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Topic: Pregnancy issue
Posted By: confused89
Subject: Pregnancy issue
Date Posted: 30 November 2011 at 11:24pm
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Hi
well i am ment to be 7 weeks 1 day today, I found out i was pregnant three weeks ago and went and seen a midwife i have already had a miscarry at 7 weeks one year ago.. so i was really nerverous we did blood works and came back pregnant and everything okay HCG levels going up so i went for my first scan and they couldnt see a baby just an empty sac they said i was 5 weeks they also found a cypt but arnt concerned yet.. and asked me to come back in two weeks my midwife did blood work over the two weeks to check my HCG levels which were rising for the stage of pregnancy so we went for the second scan today which would make me 7 weeks and the same thing they couldnt see a baby or anything only the sac which has grown to the ammount of weeks i would be really concerned as i have had no bleeding morning sickness tender breats the o/s did not rule out miscarry and ruled out tubal pregnancy but are concered not seeing the baby they said it may be a pregnancy that hasnt formed and not come away i went striaght in to have hcg blood work and get results tomoro am so scared as i have already had one miscarry was horrible and really want this baby has anyone got any advice i had light bleeding leading up to my last miscarry and nothing this time everything has been going fine apart from slight cramping have been doing reshearch and there has been cases where they cant see your baby and your hcg levels are rising and you cant see untill later on i dont know what to tink not really getting the answers i need so confused |
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Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 30 November 2011 at 11:30pm
| My midwife has said if hcg levels are lowered that i will need a d n c which i didnt have last time... am so scared and dont know what to do if my levels are rising my midwife said ill have to have another u/s in a week if my levels are rising have had nothing but bad news and bad luck.. the reading i have done has given me hope but only if my levels are rising am so nervous took over a year to get pregnant again and three year before that.. its so hard not to stress and get your hopes up when you really want something so bad... This really is stressful and my partners finding it hard to understand he is there for me but he couldnt understand completely as i know its happening to us but its happening to me more.. |
Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 30 November 2011 at 11:33pm
| we will be seeing the fertility clinic after we get answers if we have to have a d n c... i just hope we dont have to and my levels are rising and they see something if have a scan in one week i just dont know what to do if this happens and we still not see anything again in a weeks AHHH i just wanna hide away but am trying to think happy thoughts |
Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 30 November 2011 at 11:42pm
| have got some hope have read a case very similar to mine and has work out fine .. as long as my hgl rise im not giving up hope |
Posted By: AzzaNZ
Date Posted: 01 December 2011 at 9:24am
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Good luck - fingers crossed your HCG levels rise and all is fine! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 01 December 2011 at 2:35pm
| Hcg levels have rised and are at the expected ammount for 7 weeks pregnant my midwife is seeking advice from the hospital and i find out later in week as what to do next but my hope are happier |
Posted By: AzzaNZ
Date Posted: 01 December 2011 at 2:50pm
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Thats good news! Fingers crossed all goes well :) ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 01 December 2011 at 8:19pm
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Im guessing that ill have to have another scan in two weeks and then go from there
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Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 01 December 2011 at 10:02pm
| My midwife has refered me to the epac unit at the hospital am not sure what this means DOSE anyone know what this means... its the early pregnancy assiociation unit.. |
Posted By: monkeys
Date Posted: 02 December 2011 at 9:05am
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What were your last 2 levels and how far in between are they?
BasICALLY epac will monitor you to determine what is going on, it's just a specialist team really. I have repleid on your other post. xx -------------  3 little Angels July 10, May 11, Apr 13
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Posted By: Candkids
Date Posted: 02 December 2011 at 10:08pm
| fingers crossed x hope it all works out for you |
Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 04 December 2011 at 7:58am
| they were 10,00 then two days later 14,00 last week i think.. then the following week up even higher not sure how high but midwife said normal level for the amount of weeks i am.. yea i heard from hospital i have the appointment on wednesday they wanna do bloods and another scan |
Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 04 December 2011 at 8:02am
| they wanna see if theres any change and if they can find the baby ... so scared i really want this baby |
Posted By: tigger,roo
Date Posted: 04 December 2011 at 2:36pm
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good luck confused, fingers crossed 4 u ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: monkeys
Date Posted: 04 December 2011 at 4:06pm
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fingers crossed for you hun I know how horrible it is.
The hard thing with the levels is that 'normal' for the amount of weeks is a huge range. The rise there between 10,000 and 14,000 seems slow should double every 48 hours, but there are plenty of stories of slow rising levels that work out ok. ------------- 3 little Angels July 10, May 11, Apr 13
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Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 05 December 2011 at 9:34am
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no thats normal that was 48 hours and that did double there triple that now
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Posted By: Cinderella
Date Posted: 05 December 2011 at 9:43am
| Just so you know, it can take up to 4 days in some cases for the amounts to double. I am one of those. My early numbers rise quite slowly. Also it is posible not to see anything on a scan for a while. Did they do an internal scan? They get better details with an internal. |
Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 05 December 2011 at 12:33pm
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yup we have only done one internal Prob another when have our hospital appointment
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Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 05 December 2011 at 12:36pm
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they are just jumping to theres no baby this is the scanners not midwife im not giving up till i hear what the hospital have to say and im alil further on .. i will only be 8 weeks with this scan on wednesday
i understand if they still cant see anything from 10 weeks on but this early i dont wanna give up just yet.. |
Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 05 December 2011 at 12:37pm
| they feel it maybe a blighted ovum think thats what its called .. and if its the case my body should miscarry naturally before 13 weeks but have to see what the hospital says |
Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 12 December 2011 at 11:17pm
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had my scan still nothing am 9 weeks this week levels still going up nurse reakons that i keep getting a blood test every three days and that i should naturally miscarry soon if not within a 2 week period another scan then a d and c most likey there be no change as im cramping alot but no bleeding at the stage where my hopes have gone and wish was over so can move on and try.. to have a healthy pregnancy...
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Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 12 December 2011 at 11:19pm
| it sounds mean/sad but when you have wanted something so bad and to have nothing but bad news and thats three scans now where they all say the same thing aPART from my hcg levels kinda just hoping its all over and can start again... |
Posted By: AzzaNZ
Date Posted: 13 December 2011 at 8:18am
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Posted By: tigger,roo
Date Posted: 13 December 2011 at 9:47am
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Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 13 December 2011 at 9:42pm
| Thanks ive been coming to terms was keeping hope but like the nurse said theres 90% chance its not there i havent showen any signs of miscarry and most likely wont which stinks the most as it would feel more normal if i did am booking my d n c tomoro i wasnt going to but to be on the safe side me and my husband have desided to go down that road as the time gose by and still no good new or anything happening the nurse said i would have to have one before 13 weeks they dont like you to go that far with a blighted ovum and your body dosnt always miscary with one.. i would have liked to naturally but i really wont to just move on and focus on getting fit and trying again... |
Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 13 December 2011 at 9:46pm
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i just wonted it so bad and with the weeks going by and all the bad news i feel i am more focused on moving on and forward i feel maybe now i wont be so baby baby and will happen sooner as it took us so long i feel maybe this is gods way of saying i need to slow down and focus on other things in life and ill have a lil bundle of joy when the times right i feel maybe once we have had our d and c i might not be so focused on having a baby and will happen unexpected instead of me 100% focused and getting up set when it dosent happen will let everyone know when i am having it and the results after as it will get sent of and examed
Thanks all xoxo fairy dust to everyone lost angel 1/10/10 
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Posted By: tigger,roo
Date Posted: 14 December 2011 at 9:32am
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hugs confused, good luck with everything and the future. ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 19 December 2011 at 9:50pm
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Hi guys just an update we had a d n c on friday very sad was so scary they completely put you under it hasnt really hit me to it had finished the nurse woke me up and said wake up its all over i just burst into tears.. was sent home later that evening not much bleeding but alot of cramping nurse said my levels will be below 0 within two weeks and my bleeding shouldnt last any longer than 14 days which i think will stop soon as not really bleeding feeling it today though stoped and really thought wow im not pregnant anymore so sad i will try again but will take it easy this time try and let it happen when it happen have doc visit tomoro to explain to my doctor and see if i can get some meds so i dont come crashing down trying to deal with it but its so hard.. :( GOOD LUCK evryone wishing eveyone a merry xmas and the best of luck with the future
xoxo 1/10/10
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Posted By: tigger,roo
Date Posted: 21 December 2011 at 10:00am
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massive hugs confused,the 1st time i had dnc was weird when i woke up too. fingers crossed you recover mentally and physically. Good luck with the future. Remember there are support groups out there if you need to talk to anyone. Sands is really good and inspired by jack and william website forum.
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