Devastated
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Forum Name: Life After Miscarriage
Forum Description: Up to one in five pregnancies ends in miscarriage, yet for many the loss of a pregnancy is isolating and lonely. Share your thoughts and feelings here with others who have experienced loss.
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Topic: Devastated
Posted By: Luckymama23
Subject: Devastated
Date Posted: 04 August 2011 at 4:28pm
Back here again for the fourth time... completely devastated, dont know what to do next... ------------- 2 superstars too many miscarriages 2009-2014 |
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Posted By: AzzaNZ
Date Posted: 04 August 2011 at 4:36pm
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Oh no
I am so sorry Kazza! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Princess_Bubs
Date Posted: 04 August 2011 at 5:34pm
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I'm so sorry Kazza, life can be so cruel some times.
Thinking of you and hoping to hear some good news from you in the not too distant future xxxx ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Two Precious Angel Babies 2010 / 2011 
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Posted By: Orca1
Date Posted: 04 August 2011 at 8:11pm
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I am really sorry for your loss. I know every m/c is devastating and can totally relate to how you are feeling. Take care of yourself. ------------- DD born 2008 Oct 2009, April 2010, Dec 2010, June 20117 x IVF/ICSI/PGD = BFN |
Posted By: didi99
Date Posted: 05 August 2011 at 9:19am
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I am so sorry Kazza, look after yourself and know we are all here for you if you need us. ------------- Angel Babies Nov 09, May 10, Dec 10
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Posted By: Pook72
Date Posted: 06 August 2011 at 9:40pm
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Oh Kazza, I am so sorry that you have gone through another loss. Not fair x ------------- June 99. June 09, Dec 09, Sept 10 March 12
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Posted By: catie
Date Posted: 29 August 2011 at 1:29pm
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Hi Kazza
Just wanted to tell you I'm so sorry for your loss and send you a big hug 
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Posted By: pikelets
Date Posted: 20 September 2011 at 6:27pm
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Aaaw hun, sorry to hear about your loss
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Posted By: Luckymama23
Date Posted: 09 February 2012 at 3:07pm
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Cant really believe it.. but here we go again...
Scan today showed perfect 8 1/2 week bub but no heartbeat
Not really surprised, as the other 4 m/c's have all been between 8-9 weeks, but still completely gutted
Also really angry, its just so unfair ------------- 2 superstars too many miscarriages 2009-2014 |
Posted By: monkeys
Date Posted: 09 February 2012 at 9:12pm
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Kazza, I am sorry sorry hun, really don't know what to say but am thinking of you hun, and we are here if you need usxxxx ------------- 3 little Angels July 10, May 11, Apr 13
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Posted By: Pepi-bebe
Date Posted: 10 February 2012 at 7:46am
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Oh luckymama I'm so very sorry I hear your news. It's so cruel when it's completely inexplicable like that.
My thoughts are with you. -------------  Oct 11 & Mar 12
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Posted By: tigger,roo
Date Posted: 10 February 2012 at 11:22am
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to you both Kazza and luckymama. Thoughts are with u and your family. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Angels - March'11, Nov '10, May '10 |
Posted By: Orca1
Date Posted: 10 February 2012 at 1:39pm
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Its very cruel and unfair, so sorry for your loss. ------------- DD born 2008 Oct 2009, April 2010, Dec 2010, June 20117 x IVF/ICSI/PGD = BFN |
Posted By: pikelets
Date Posted: 11 February 2012 at 11:17am
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Im so sorry to hear that. It really isn't fair!
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Posted By: Roses are Red
Date Posted: 16 February 2012 at 10:57pm
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So sorry to hear about your losses, have you been tested to find out why you are miscarrying?
Hope you get that sticky bean soon ------------- 
Angel March 2011
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Posted By: Mintyfresh
Date Posted: 03 March 2012 at 2:29pm
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:( I am so sorry to hear that - I haven't posted on ohbaby for over a month so didn't know you were utd.
You've had four losses - have you been referred to a specialist? ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: Luckymama23
Date Posted: 05 March 2012 at 7:27pm
Thank you for your kind words ladies
Yup for the last two miscarriages we have been under the care of the RPL clinic in Auckland, but all they have come up with is unexplained secondary infertility, which is so frustrating.
Have a follow up appointment with them at the end of the month, so really hoping they can think of soemthing else to try... ------------- 2 superstars too many miscarriages 2009-2014 |
Posted By: catie
Date Posted: 06 March 2012 at 1:32pm
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I'm so sorry
You might find this website helpful: http://www.miscarriagesupport.org.nz/index.html good luck for your follow-up appt. |
Posted By: pikelets
Date Posted: 10 March 2012 at 6:53pm
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I hope your appointment goes well at the end of the month. Will be thinking of you.
I have my first appointment (non-preg scan) at the beginning of April with RPL. We had unexplained infertility with DS and know how fustrating it can be when you want answers. I am mixed this time whether I want unexplained or not! Is it better that something is wrong or nothing wrong??! Grrr! Life can be cruel sometimes!! (sorry - rant over). Anyway, I really wanted to say all the best to you ------------- http://lilypie.com">
3 Angels - Dec10 / Mar11 / Dec11
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Posted By: Luckymama23
Date Posted: 10 March 2012 at 8:40pm
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Thankyou Pikelets
Hope your appointment goes well with them.. (most of!) the staff there are lovely! Yup I agree.. on one hand if something was wrong at least there would be a reason.. and something to fix! But then on the other hand I guess its good nothings wrong?? Grrr, def understand your rant! looks like your DS is a similar age to mine too! ------------- 2 superstars too many miscarriages 2009-2014 |