Devastated
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Forum Name: Life After Miscarriage
Forum Description: Up to one in five pregnancies ends in miscarriage, yet for many the loss of a pregnancy is isolating and lonely. Share your thoughts and feelings here with others who have experienced loss.
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Topic: Devastated
Posted By: Princess_Bubs
Subject: Devastated
Date Posted: 21 February 2011 at 8:49pm
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They say lightening doesn't strike twice, but I have just lost my second baby. I am sad, angry, frustrated, and just lost.
I saw a perfect and strong heartbeat at 7.2 weeks and today I saw a 9.1 week baby with a little head, a little nose, and little ears but no heartbeat. It's just not fair and I can't believe my body has failed me again. I'm booked in for a D and C tomorrow which terrifies me but at least it's over physically quickly. I'm so sorry for everyone in here, it's so awful that anyone has to go through this once, let alone multiple times  ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Two Precious Angel Babies 2010 / 2011 
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Posted By: Lexidore
Date Posted: 21 February 2011 at 8:53pm
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Didn't want to read and run, Hugs hun, one m/c is hard enough let alone more, big hugs hun ------------- 
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Posted By: Bobchannz
Date Posted: 21 February 2011 at 8:55pm
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I'm so sorry for your loss ------------- www.makedomum.blogspot.co.nz |
Posted By: AzzaNZ
Date Posted: 21 February 2011 at 8:55pm
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Oh no, no, no!! I'm so very sorry
(((HUGS))) Will be thinking of you tomorrow ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 21 February 2011 at 9:02pm
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I'm sorry ------------- |
Posted By: whitewave
Date Posted: 21 February 2011 at 9:23pm
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Oh no, that's awful news, Princess_Bubs! Its horrible enough to experience once, that's so not fair that's happened again.
Big big hugs, hope the D & C goes smoothly and the physical and emotional recovery doesn't take too long. I hope you have great family and friends that can be there to help and support you. |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 21 February 2011 at 10:05pm
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Oh Princess Bubs, I am so very, very sorry.
That's just so unfair. Sending you lots of love and hugs, I'll be thinking of you hun xx ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: AandCsmum
Date Posted: 21 February 2011 at 11:21pm
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Oh Princess bubs, huge hugs, if it helps to talk about it, do, there are listening ears out there. ------------- Kel http://lilypie.com"> 
A = 01.02.04 & C = 16.01.09 & G = 30.03.12 |
Posted By: WestiesGirl
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 12:12am
PB Im so sorry for you loss hun 
My thoughts will be with you tomorrow ------------- Our Angel July 08  Gone but not forgotten
And to complete our family, our princess has arrived 
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Posted By: queenbean
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 5:16am
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I'm so, so sorry hun. Life can be so cruel. Big hugs -------------   
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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 8:06am
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:( Massive hugs to you chick..
I've had a missed mc and a natural mc too..and *hugs* it's just so heartbreaking.. ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
Posted By: T_Rex
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 8:44am
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Oh PB! I'm so heartbroken for you
I'm so sorry you have to go through this again ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: babygiraffe
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 9:41am
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Take care PB, you are a gorgeous girl and you will get your little bundle of joy one day soon. I guess for some of us the journey to motherhood is not as straight forward as for others. I have no doubts in my heart that all the pain and sadness some of us have to go through will be worth it in the end.
Take care and let us know how you are. I wish I was closer, I'd come and have a coffee with you 
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Posted By: heaf3
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 9:51am
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Oh no! I am sooo sorry to hear that PB Hugest of huge hugs coming your way. Thinking of you today sweets xxx ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: shadowfeet
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 9:52am
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I'm so sorry Princess Bubs ------------- 
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Posted By: Orca1
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 1:20pm
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PB its so sad, I am so sorry to hear your news. ------------- DD born 2008 Oct 2009, April 2010, Dec 2010, June 20117 x IVF/ICSI/PGD = BFN |
Posted By: dneyn
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 7:42pm
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PB I'm so sorry for your loss hun! I can't even begin to understand what you are going through. ------------- http://alterna-tickers.com"> 
Master 11 Master 9 Master 1 |
Posted By: Lulu27
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 8:54pm
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i am so completely gutted to read this PB :( ------------- me 41 DH 40 Mc sept 2009, DS Sept 2010 TTC #2 since jan 2013 |
Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 8:56pm
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My love I am so very sorry! I am so very, very, very sorry!!!!! -------------   
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Posted By: lostAmber
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 9:03pm
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Aww honey it breaks my heart to read that, I am so sorry for your loss, I know words don't offer much in the way of consolation but I really do feel for you. I lost two bubbies before Olivia and was so angry with my body for failing me. Seek help and support, allow yourself to grieve, but don't give up. Big hugs beautiful, we're all here for you *kiss* ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Kellyfer
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 9:06pm
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Oh PB I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It's just not fair.
My thoughts are with you ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: SophieD
Date Posted: 22 February 2011 at 9:10pm
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Huge huge hugs Princessbubs
absolutely devastated that you have to go through that again love ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Princess_Bubs
Date Posted: 23 February 2011 at 9:51am
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Thank you everyone for your beautiful words of support, it means more than words can say.
Yesterday was a very hard day, Not just for me but also for everyone in Christchurch which has been so so sad to watch - my heart goes out to everyone there. Yesterday went as well as possible, I was recommended to go private this time, and I was so well looked after. I was in hospital for 10 hours so it was a long day, but I can't say enough about how lovely all the staff were. I am so sad to be back in this thread and I can't quite believe it, but if last year taught me anything, it's the time is a great healer. I'm going to stay off work til next week and be very kind to myself. Df and my loved ones have been amazing, and so have all you ladies - I really appreciate all the lovely messages. Thank you ever so much. All I can do is hope and pray that for me it's third time lucky xx ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> Two Precious Angel Babies 2010 / 2011
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Posted By: Jacobsmumma
Date Posted: 23 February 2011 at 12:47pm
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Oh no Princess Bubs, I just popped in and saw this message from you! It's so so so so sad that this has happened to you again, I've got tears in my eyes for you, it's just not fair!!!!!! Even tho we are strangers in real life, you were there for me when I had my 1st mc a few weeks ago, so I want to return the kindness you showed me. If there's anything at all I can do for you, even to pop over for coffee and cake, please please please let me know. I'll drop everything at a minutes notice. Big hugs and love to you xoxoxoxoxox ------------- 
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Posted By: pikelets
Date Posted: 23 February 2011 at 10:01pm
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so sorry hun ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
3 Angels - Dec10 / Mar11 / Dec11
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Posted By: SnuggleBear
Date Posted: 24 February 2011 at 3:33pm
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So sorry hun... Huge hugs and lots of love.... ------------- Ds1 - 20 months old Ds2 - 4 months old |