ectopic
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Topic: ectopic
Posted By: Pook72
Subject: ectopic
Date Posted: 06 October 2010 at 11:37am
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Hi Everyone.
I have just gone through my 4th MC at 9w 1d but they have discovered an ectopic as (OMG twins this time) well on my right hand side. After a week in hospital with complications from a blotched D & C than a second op then readmitted with an infection they finally discovered this. They (Northshore Hospital) have decided to just monitor this with blood tests???!!! What my question is, has anyone else had this, and what happened, does it just reabsorb? Should it still be there after 13 weeks? Any advice would be great A xx -------------  June 99. June 09, Dec 09, Sept 10 March 12
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Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 06 October 2010 at 12:32pm
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Hmmmm that sounds weird that they just wanna monitor you after all the crap you have been through.
I had an ectopic which was picked up at 5w5d due to intense pain. I was basically given 3 options.. 1. bloods and monitor (though the doc advised against this) 2. take methotrixate which is a cancer drug. Basically it treats the ectopic like a cancer to expel it. There are lots of pros and cons to this though and not all people can have this 3. surgery to remove the pregnancy and possibly the tube if it can't be removed without damage. I ended up having the second option. Can you get another opinion?? |
Posted By: Pook72
Date Posted: 06 October 2010 at 12:46pm
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Thanks Kebaka
I'm waiting to go back to Greenlane (I was under their care to begine with, long story with the DHB systme in Auck) I'm not that happy to to "wait and see" with it. Had bloods this morning so will see what the results are. I thought it was odd that they are taking the wait and see approrach too. After the last 3 weeks treatment (or lack of) I'm not too confident in health system! ------------- June 99. June 09, Dec 09, Sept 10 March 12
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Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 06 October 2010 at 12:52pm
| I can only think the only reason for the wait and see approach is that if your hcg levels are dropping at the right rate |
Posted By: MerlinFluff
Date Posted: 06 October 2010 at 1:29pm
Oh dear Pook :( you have been through a rough time. I don't know anything much about ectopics but just wanted to give you all my love and hope you get all this sorted soon. I found one M/C hard enough, let alone 4 with complications heaped on top. You are in my thoughts.  ------------- ***Elly***  
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Posted By: Princess_Bubs
Date Posted: 11 October 2010 at 3:38pm
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Hi Pook,
I just wanted to send my love and thoughts to you, and second what Merlinfluff said. One M/C has completely broken my heart and never more than a few hours go by without me thinking of it, so I can only imagine the heart break of going through it multiple times. I really am sorry and I hope you never go through anything so hard again. Keep us posted and vent whenever you need too, Lots of Love xxx ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Two Precious Angel Babies 2010 / 2011
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Posted By: Pook72
Date Posted: 13 October 2010 at 9:31am
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Hi guys!
Went for another scan on Friday and what ever they had found a couple of weeks ago has now gone! Yay! HCG's still have not returned to below 5 though. It's nice to feel well again after three weeks of recovery! I have not lost hope and looking forward to the next appointment at Fertility plas in November! Onwards and upwards I say! Thanks for all your lovely messages xx ------------- June 99. June 09, Dec 09, Sept 10 March 12
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Posted By: Princess_Bubs
Date Posted: 13 October 2010 at 10:36am
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I'm so glad to hear that things are psysically back to normal! It sounds like you're doing so well with the healing process, You're obviously a very strong person.
All the best for your appointment next month and I hope that 2011 is the year you meet your first born xxx ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> Two Precious Angel Babies 2010 / 2011
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Posted By: MerlinFluff
Date Posted: 13 October 2010 at 11:53am
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Pook, you amaze me. Such a strong woman. I only wish I coped with my one m/c as well as you are coping with all the cr@p that's been thrown your way.
Good luck for november and your next appt, may all your dreams come true for you. ------------- ***Elly***
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