help! nearly 4yr old getting into my bed
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Topic: help! nearly 4yr old getting into my bed
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Subject: help! nearly 4yr old getting into my bed
Date Posted: 27 July 2009 at 11:43am
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hey there,my nearly 4yr old girl is starting to get into a habit off jumping into my bed at nite,when i tell her to get into her own bed she screams and crys saying she doesnt want to,i put her back into her bed only to wake in the morning to find her in my bed anyway,this is not a good thing and any suggestions would be much appeaciated.thank you ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 27 July 2009 at 11:44am
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Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 27 July 2009 at 11:55am
I'd put a lock on the door lol.. either her door to lock her in her own room or on the master bedroom door to keep her out. But I'm a big meanie 
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Posted By: Snappy
Date Posted: 27 July 2009 at 1:14pm
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Janaya used to do this, and the only way I got her to stop was forcing myself to wake fully every time she came into our bed, and placing her back in her bed.
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 27 July 2009 at 4:23pm
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toby used to do this all the time and he would get in between me and my husband... and i would take him back to bed...now however he gets in next to my husband only and i dont know hes there at all. ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker"> 
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Posted By: LeahandJoel
Date Posted: 27 July 2009 at 7:59pm
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Leah is doing this and has been since last december. Back then she was having nightmares/terrors and would come running screaming into our room and the only way she would setle was to hop in with us (and still it was taking up to a couple of hours some nights to calm her down) but if I tried to take her back to her own bed, even if she was asleep she would wake screaming again. At that stage we had a 4 month old who was alreday sleeping through and didn't need both of them up crying for hours! Now the nightmare have stopped but she still comes in....now its a habit and its very hard to break it, also we are really soft and can't cope with locking her in her room. (we tried it and lasted about 30 mins and by that stage she was so upset it took a couple of hours to settle her). Some nights she goes straight to sleep and wakes after us in the morning, other nights she has dreams and keeps waking. Sorry....no help to you, but your not the only one going through this at the moment. -------------  
 
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