Was.....due today
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Topic: Was.....due today
Posted By: Nefertiti
Subject: Was.....due today
Date Posted: 22 January 2009 at 10:19am
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While I feel sad, its not something that I have thought too much about over the past few months.
Infact, it was my miss nearly 9 that reminded me that today was my due date. She'd written a short story about me being pregnant in her journal at school and we were looking through it several weeks ago....and she'd put the due date in there. I had mentioned it to a couple people but didn't get into it much after the comments that included things like 'there was a baby anyway, so why be sad' etc....because I had a blighted ovum. But having a blighted ovum doesn't make it any less of a pregnancy. You don't know this is the case when you get a bfp! And I was 'technically' 9 weeks along before a d&c was performed after my body showed no signs of letting go. Anyway....just a little remberence for me today that pregnancy shouldn't be taken for granted, and a little sad at our loss. But also knowing that it won't be long now til I am holding our new bubba... Thanks for listening :) ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 22 January 2009 at 10:40am
just wanted to give you some hugs on this day, and to let you know that i know where you are coming from ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Mum_mum
Date Posted: 22 January 2009 at 11:13am
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Big Hugs!
Its hard regardless of what sort of M/C you had! ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
 Angel baby - May 2008
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Posted By: Nefertiti
Date Posted: 22 January 2009 at 11:29am
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Thankyou ladies.....it good to know that I can come here and talk and know there are others who know how I feel.
Kazzle you were one who took the time to phone me, and I want you to know that that was appreciated and know that it helped me get through what was happening. Thankyou :) I'm also stoked to see your ticker! Thats awesome :) ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 22 January 2009 at 2:06pm
hey chicky your welcome  ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: WestiesGirl
Date Posted: 22 January 2009 at 11:07pm
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Thinking of you and I also had a Blighted ovum, so know exactly where your coming from ------------- Our Angel July 08 Gone but not forgotten
And to complete our family, our princess has arrived 
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Posted By: Jakinty
Date Posted: 24 January 2009 at 10:38am
| No matter what stage you lose your baby at it was still your child. From the moment we fall pregnant we become mums. As they say, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.. |
Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 24 January 2009 at 3:49pm
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I am so sorry I missed this hun. Big hugs, sorry its late. -------------   
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Posted By: BusyMum2three
Date Posted: 26 January 2009 at 4:35pm
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Sorry im late too, but biggest of hugs to you chicky
My 'wouldve been' due date is approaching too, its hard to believe its coming up already. and hey just because we are expecting again doesnt mean the pain isnt still there... xxoo |
Posted By: Lanata
Date Posted: 26 January 2009 at 7:13pm
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We all know how you feel and we will always remember our little ones that left us..
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Posted By: Newbie26
Date Posted: 10 February 2009 at 4:10pm
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Hugs to you on your sad day. Mine is approaching rapidly too, and I am reassured that lots of you are pregnant again.
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