so after saying that he doesnt rip them, I find him in his room tearing a book apart

I was so angry with him. He must have realised this as he went straight to sleep after that. It was only a second hand book we got from the local school fair (fill a bag for $5) but that is not the point. It saddens me so much when kids wreck books. I dont mind books getting worn out....but this....
Another good one we have...but is strictly "with mum and dad" is called Look and Find Thomas and Friends and it is a picture book where you look around to find certain objects. He loves it....we have a similar one called "eye spy" and that is what he wants to look at when sitting on the potty or toilet