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apparently a lot of 2nd (or more) labours start (and generally finish) when the kids are in bed asleep. Guess you would/could wake them if you made a lot of noise though...
I would like to have a homebirth next time, my (new) MW said she would support me in having a HBAC, but will need to convince DH


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My DH was fully supportive of home birth, so no problems there. We used a pool that our midwife lent us, so didn't have to pay for anything (we were given a spare unused liner).

My labour kicked off at night when my boy was asleep so we didn't need anyone to look after him. I'd planned for my mum to be around to look after him/take him away if needed as he was quite likely to get upset seeing me in labour, but didn't end up calling her until the next morning to tell her about the new baby. My boy woke up once - during the pushing stage - and DH went to him. He had no idea anything was going on and easily went back to sleep. DH was only away from me for a few minutes and one of the midwives took his place while he was gone.

If I were you I'd look for a midwife with leanings towards homebirth, even if you decide to birth elsewhere. They should support your decision either way and have a wealth of experience to support you at home. Also, an advantage was that all of my midwife visits took place at my home, with my son fully included in the whole process.

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Both times my labours have kicked off at midday ! which would work if I went into labour on a school day and Ty was conveniently having a nap or something (thats if I wanted a homebirth )





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Originally posted by Emmi_ Emmi_ wrote:

apparently a lot of 2nd (or more) labours start (and generally finish) when the kids are in bed asleep. Guess you would/could wake them if you made a lot of noise though...
I would like to have a homebirth next time, my (new) MW said she would support me in having a HBAC, but will need to convince DH

 

My kids both kept "gentleman's hours".  Pre-labour with DD started at 10am, active labour at 4pm and she was born at 8pm.  Labour with DS started at 4:30am and he was born at 8:45am.  Bit OT.

Why doesn't your DH want a home/waterbirth?  It may be worth considering his feelings in this too and maybe compromise or at the very least discuss and provide him with articles to alleviate his concerns.

I don't have the option to have a home both because i have a bleeding disorder but I have thought about having a water birth however when i discussed it with DH he wasn't keen.  For him seeing his baby crown is a very special moment and something he'd miss if i was in a pool.  I didn't care enough about a water birth to take that away from him iykwim.  I still had 2 natural, aneasthesia-free vbs and got 2 beautiful babies out of it and I spent a decent part of my labour in the bath both times so I got the pain relieving benefits during labour.

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Wow, first of all CONGRATS on your impending new arrival and to all the other mums who are expecting ...second of all congrats on even considering a HB cos it really is the most wonderful experience ever Having gone through 2 emergency c-sections I just knew in my heart that I did not want to go back to hospital if I could help it. I'd made up my mind that my next baby would be a VBA2C AND an HB as well...I basically told hubby and my girls plus my parents that I would plan a HB. They were all quite dismissive and never imagined that I'd really go through with it..lol..but I had a birth team (my mum, my sister, my 2 SILs and my best friend) as well as hubby, our girls (15 and 9) and our MW (the best ever!)...Hubby knew how determined I was when he had to load up the birthpool (loaned to us for free from the MW) into the car and then set it up at home..lol..I went 10 days overdue, lost my plug at 5.30pm Xmas eve last year...then bubs was born at 4:54am Xmas morning. The best Xmas ever ...no pain relief and I actually put this down to having a supportive birth team, mw and atmosphere...I was at home where I felt most comfortable, no stress, no bright lights, no noise....my girls both fell asleep until about 20 mins before their baby brother was born..as it turned out I stood up in the pool to stretch my legs which were starting to cramp up and then ended up squishing bubs out!!...Hubby was so proud (he was in the pool with me) to catch his son with one hand and hold me up with the other, then we had skin to skin contact waiting for bubs cord to stop pulsating before Hubby cut the cord- his first time. It was truly awesome so now that we are due on Boxing day ( ) I'm so excited to do it all over again lol...but this time I won't forget the bubbly

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I think home birth is a fantastic and safe option for most women. Your LMC will let you know if there is any reason why it may be safer for you personally at hospital. I have used a birth pool in both my births and would not go without one. You could hire one to use for your time in labour at home, even if you do decide to go into hospital later on. If you are looking for a birth pool in Auckland, New Zealand you can find it at www.wondermum.co.nz or on facebook www.facebook.com/birthpoolhirenz
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