Have you tried a sling/mei tai or similar?
She might hate it at first but she could get used to it.
This is coming from a mum with a VERY strong willed child (ask Nikki or anyone else who knows us

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She loved being in it - I made a big deal of how she was able to snuggle with mum etc etc - and I only made my ring sling when she was 2, so was able to carry her for a year or so. She's too heavy now.