Confused

Bubs heart stop beating on the 19th feb but I saw my lifeless bub 5th march and had a D&C 9th march, I have one son already and never had the want for another as i enjoyed having one child he is my world!! anyway falling pregnant to my new current partner was a huge suprise and a real test at first i was scared then confused but once that life was taken i was sad... I realised that after all i do want one more but been a new realtionship and my partner and i wanting to do a few things as well its tricky as i want one now but partner is thinking of the bigger picture and i understand why it will work out better his way but cant get over wanting another so soon after im now on the depo and really wish i wasnt :(

Edited by MS_JDM

Hi MS_JDM,
I think you need to talk to your partner and both of you come to an agreement. You both need to be comfortable with your plans for the future. There is no point in going along with what your partner wants to do now if it isnt what you want to do, it would be awful if you ended up resenting him, or yourself for not saying what you wanted.
You may find that come around to his way of thinking, or him to yours. (or somewhere in the middle, you nevcer know!) What ever you do make sure you keep talking to him so he knows what your thinking.
I MC last sat, and luckily my DH has said he wants to try again straight away, I thought he would want to wait a while and started to prepare myself for that but talked to him and he didnt!
I hope everything turns out ok, If you need to talk Im here, feel free to PM me.
Good luck!!