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Two_Puddle_Ducks
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Topic: Homebirth ? Posted: 08 June 2011 at 10:54am |
Hi All. I know there are a number of ladies who have had homebirth on this site so I am just wondering what I need to get ready? I have hired a birthing pool but what else needs to be ready to go?
I plan on birthing in the pool but if that doesn't happen I assume I should have a birthing area ready too. What would that require?
Any other tips?
Thanks in advance.
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T_Rex
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Posted: 08 June 2011 at 11:07am |
My MW gave me a bag of linen from the hospital that had everything I needed in it, although seeing as we had brand new carpet, i also laid down a big tarpaulin under the towels etc. Has she given you advice as to what you need?
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Two_Puddle_Ducks
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Posted: 08 June 2011 at 11:53am |
No advice so far as she said we'll talk about it when she gets back form holiday but that isn't for another week or so and I don't want to leave everything to the last minute as I have already been in hospital for preterm labour. Baby could come any day now and I just don't really feel that organised in terms of the birth.
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rorylex
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Posted: 08 June 2011 at 12:25pm |
I havent had a homebirth yet, though im planning on it next time.
I too didnt feel like my homebirth was organised which is why I pulled out 3 times. I like to have everything on hand well before I have baby.
from the advice iv been given besides the pool.
I was told to have an urn to have boiling water on hand at all times a jug is fine just an urn holds more water and keeps the water constantly boiled.
another one is to go to an opp shop and get some cheap old sheets that you can just gather up and throw away.
the $2 shop plastic table clothes are great as you can lay it down where you want birth area and put sheets on top and then just pick up the whole plastic sheet and throw it all away leaving no mess to clean up.
the warehouse has cheap red stamp mattress protectors incase you end up on the bed that can be again thrown away after use. or if you have bean bags and pillows set up you can just throw it over them.
those big absorbent pads that the mw's use can be bought from the nappy stores. but the mw's ones are much better quality.
pack your bag for the hospital anyway both incase you do go to hospital and if not your stuff you are wanting during and after is all in one place.
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Posted: 08 June 2011 at 1:11pm |
Hi, I had a homebirth last month, and to be honest we didn't need too much. I chose not to birth in a pool so just had a shower curtain and old sheet for the floor. I ended up giving birth on my knees, leaning over a swissball, so had a pillow underneath the shower curtain (so it didn't get dirty!) for me to kneel on.
Also we bought 4 old towels from SaveMart and washed them ready to use for the birth. I forget how many we needed at the time but didn't need to use any of our "nice" towels hehe. Also had an ice cream container to put the placenta in.
You will also need quite a few packets of maternity pads, and a couple of rubbish bags. My mw and her student put on a load of washing for us before they left, and made our bed while I was getting cleaned up which was nice
Oh also, after the birth when I transferred to the couch my mw had some disposable waterproof mats to put down to protect the couch, and one of the old towels under me too.
All up there was not much mess leftover, just a wee bit of blood on the floor when I'd walked over to the couch, oops, but that scrubbed out with soap and water. It was all very tidy
Good luck for your home birth!
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Kupukupu
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Posted: 08 June 2011 at 11:56pm |
Hi :) I have had 2 previous HB's and will have another in a few months all going well till the magic 37 week mark :)
You really don't need much for a HB and it really isn't a messy affair like some people imagine!
My MW got me to make a "birthing mat" which was a waterproof plastic about 1.2mx1.2m, sew some fabric to the top of it (I used an old sheet and an old sarong and overlocked it)... leave a bit of a gap so you can stuff inbetween with sheets of newspaper to make it a little absorbent. The whole lot gets thrown out after the birth. This is optional but you will want to replace it with some kind of waterproof sheeting otherwise.
You will also need some towels (dark colour is better), a couple of face clothes. A bowl for popping warm water in for the MW to use at the business end. A bucket for you to use up the other end should you need a puke. Some straws to drink with. A container to pop the placenta in- an icecream container works well. A mirror (in case you want to have a look at baby making its entrance). A torch for the Mw to use in case you want the lights off or in our case, you have a power cut!. Some form of heating- this is important- you need the room warm for when baby is born and is good to heat the towels up in front of too.
Also- lay out items for baby to get dressed into and for you.... easy to forget when you are at home but saves you calling out instructions!
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Posted: 11 June 2011 at 10:23pm |
Hi newbie here... just joined the site!
So great to read all the info here - I have just decided I would like to have a home birth (due sept 26th).
It never even occurred to me as a possibility until my midwife mentioned it, but I made the mistake of mentioning to ladies at my work that my midwife was obviously keen on homebirths and they all freaked me out with their negative comments! Then one day a light bulb came on and I just knew it was what I wanted. I'll just be very selective about who I tell, thats for sure!
Kupukupu - I'm in Gissy too. Are you involved with the homebirth support group at all? I'm just waiting for them to get back to me.
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Posted: 12 June 2011 at 2:26am |
Hi Jo
Didn't know there was one? Will ask MW about it next time I'm in there. My previous HB's were 9 & 6.5yrs ago so the Support group wasn't around then... always thought it would be a fantastic idea to have one though- as you say, the amount of negative flack you get some times from uninformed people drives you batty so would be nice to meet other like minded mums and be able to talk openly about what a wonderful experience it is or just ask straight forward questions without having other ladies fears forced onto you. I'm lucky enough that 2 of my friends had HB's after me (1 of them I ended up delivering her baby!! YAH) so I have a positive bunch of HB friends but it did feel a little out on the limb with my first birth and no-one to chat about it all accept the MW & hubby.
Is your MW KW? She is an awesome HB MW.... but then we do have a really great bunch of MW's in Gizzy to choose from (lucky us), I have CC this time. hehehe You are due a couple of days after me
If you haven't already, try and get hold of the latest Tummytalk magazine too- fantastic reading (MW should be able to give you a copy). Feel free to private message me if you have any ?? or want to chat to another gizzy HBer
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Posted: 12 June 2011 at 7:56pm |
Im in Gisborne too and attend the monthly homebirth group meetings! The next meeting is next Wed 22nd June at 10am. I also go to Le Lache Legue breastfeeding group, which has like minded Mums too- next meeting wed 29th June at my house. PM if u want details of either group.
I had Andie Bruce and Kerri W attend my homebirth- 17 months ago.
I defintaly second having a bag packed. I had it in the wardrobe of baby's room, and it was great to have everything ready in one place when I wanted my birthing stuff- especially as it was early morning and DD was asleep and I didnt have to rustle around trying to find everything I wanted and risk disturbing her!
I did end up having to be transfered to hospital when I was 10cm dilated and pushing, cos of muconium in the waters- the trasnfer was a rush and unexpected and we forgot the camera
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Posted: 13 June 2011 at 2:36pm |
Hi, I'm based in Queenstown and would really like to have a homebirth too.... the only thing is the hospital here is not equipped to cope if anything went wrong during labour (No forceps or obstetrician etc) I'd have to travel 2.5 hours to the closest main hospital in Invercargill.....
Would love to hear from anyone else around the area or the same boat .....are the risks too great??
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Posted: 13 June 2011 at 4:59pm |
I think in that situation I would be a little too concerned about the hospital thing to have a homebirth but that is just me. Best of luck with deciding what works for you though as it is a very personal decision.
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Posted: 13 June 2011 at 9:54pm |
Thanks so much Kupukupu and Kellz
Can't wait to meet you and others at the meeting next week.
My mum is supportive in whatever I do, mother in law a bit more of stress monkey, so might have to bring them to a later meeting so they can feel a bit more comfortable too.
Yep definitely anticipating negative flack from some people... I didnt even tell a particular friend and they saw the pamphlet on my shelf and were like "you're not gonna have a home birth are you!!!!????" (in that disapproving tone!) Haha and that was a GUY! (Father of 3)
I dont think I'd go to the bother of a pool in my tiny house (LOL it would literally have to be in the kitchen! can you even hire them in Gissy?) cos with DD (8 1/2now) I couldnt even sit down during my labour, just paced the room and delivered her standing up too.
Andie B is my MW, came highly recommended by 2 friends who had her last year, one which resulted in emergency C-section, and apparently she was awesome. She does seem very nice and easy to talk to.
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Posted: 14 June 2011 at 11:58am |
Andie's my MW too - we tried for a homebirth last time, but had to transfer and I'm not confident about doing it at home this time because of the complications I had (but she reckons we'll make it just like a homebirth, but in the hospital  ). If it had all gone to plan first time round I'd do it again for sure though! Andie is incredible - you'll love her.
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Posted: 14 June 2011 at 11:59am |
Oooh, and yip definitely pack a bag just in case! (hopefully Murphy's law means you won't need it!) - we hadn't, and hubby had to do a lot of running around trying to find stuff in a big hurry!
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Posted: 14 June 2011 at 12:39pm |
Hi Sarah,
I'm in Hawea, by Wanaka and am planning a home VBAC. Loads of women around here have homebirthed and we're about 3+ hours to hospital. The midwives in the homebirth collective are well used to operating in this area and generally most problems arise well before the day, nothing is guaranteed though. Sage Femme are part of the collective, I'm not sure who else, have a google. There are helicopters if the worst came to the worst, but I haven't heard of anyone I know having to get that drastic! Of course it depends on what you'll be comfortable with, there's no point staying home if it will worry you and hinder your labour. The birthing centre in QT (where most QT ladies with uncomplicated preganacies labour and birth)is operated the same way anyway - it would only be you and your birth partner(s) and midwife in there, there is no Obstetricians or anything, as you know. There's a Doctor who has had 4 homebirths herself, called Sarah Buckley, her book is very good and all backed up by reliable studies - there is some material online - see if you can find the bit about Nature's Blueprint for birth, it explains very well how the delicate balance of hormones are orchestrated in a natural birth and how disturbing this balance can wreak havoc with the process. Have a read and then think about where you will be most comfortable and where you will be least disturbed to allow nature to take it's course, then that may lead you to the answer that's right for you. All the best! Happy and Healthy pregnancy to you. xxx
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Posted: 15 June 2011 at 2:03am |
sara- it is such a personal decision... you really need to discuss it in-depth with a competent Midwife- ask around for pro-home birth Mw's and also maybe see another MW? Probably the biggest question I would have would be is this your first birth and what risk factors you might have or may develop in the course of your pregnancy and the experience level of your MW?
Anyway- good luck with your journey :)
fellow Gisbornites (LOL)... I have heard awesome things about Andy- she seems really lovely :)
I think they have a pool you can borrow but Carol told me to have a look at the http://www.h2ohbaby.co.nz/ pools... they look decent if not a bit pricey (when I'm unlikely to use ALL the bits again) but a friend (who is with Andy) said Andy was able to order just the pool in and then we could just borrow the other bits off the MW's? Dunno- makes it more affordable and I am 100% keen on a water birth this time.
I had Kerry's lent pool set up for my first birth but never got round to filling it plus we had a power cut in the middle of labour so just didn't happen LOL
ETA bugger- won't be around in Gizzy for the HB meeting date but will try for a later meeting
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Posted: 15 June 2011 at 7:25am |
Yep Anide told me to order the pool trough her and borrow the tubing etc- but u still need some way to heat the water,...and keep heating it. I decided I didnt want DH to be spending all is time sorting the pool-so decided against it. Ended up being in the bath quite a bit, and birting kneeling on the floor leaning on the bed - until I went to hospital- I did te same there tho. Still only had the 2 homebirth midwives and Mum and DH in the room- still no drugs or interventions
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Posted: 15 June 2011 at 7:23pm |
Thanks Gizzy ladies for your feedback - will def talk to Andie more in depth next appointment. I had DD in hospital, no drugs or interventions either, hopeful that I can have a repeat performance, just at home!
LOL we dont even have a bath... so if I dont end up getting a pool and want some hot water relief... the shower it will be!
Will definiteley have a "just in case" bag packed, as wonderful as DH is he would just get it all wrong if left to organise anything without specific direction! Haha the only thing he has against HB is that he wants to be able to have a turn on the GAS in the hospital!
Kellz... where is the meeting on 22nd at 10am?
Thanks for all the great info here on what is needed ro HB, I found some good websites with a quick google too.
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