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CJsays
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Topic: Body after pregnancy - caution, TMI ahead Posted: 17 November 2010 at 2:47pm |
Hi all
At our last Antenatal class, the teacher said that after the whole birth we have the flow of blood for 6 odd weeks, which I knew about. What I did not realise, she said it is sooooo heavy you can just move and a gush will come out, or stand up and gush again, in that first week. Sometime necessary for 2 pads. How did this compare in real life to those of you who have given birth? Must admit I am abit paniced - esp if I get say 4 hours sleep and wake up to blood everywhere cuz no pad change every 2 hours. Imagine I will need to wqear old undies and nighties etc.
And did any of you use like a plastic sheet for your bed when you got home to protect it?
There are parts about pregnancy that are so undigified eh??!!
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 2:53pm |
Personally, my experience was NOTHING like what you describe.
The first day or two was heavy, having to change pads regularly, but never overflowed and made a mess or anything. Then for about a week it was med - heavy flow then after that it was pretty light flow for about 3 weeks, then it stopped.
Sometimes when breastfeeding the flow would increase as it causes the uterus to contract.
I didn't need any plastic sheeting, or anything special other than pads. It wasn't a big deal at all.
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 2:56pm |
Ah dignity, where art thou?!
Everyone is different so your AN educator has probably given you the worst case but it's not that unrealistic. Some people are heavy bleeders; others not.
For me, for the first 5 days at least, I was wearing 2 maternity pads at a time and changing them every 3 hours or so. I bled through them once (that was the first night) and it's why they put a waterproof "Kylie" (which absorbs liquid) under you when you go to sleep. But it gradually settled! And you're often up lots at night with feeding or insomnia that you do change them fairly regularly.
I wore a hospital gown for the first night and day b/c of the bleeding and then went to my own clothes during the day (all black!) and hospital nightie at night. Nana knickers are the best - you can get packs of them at the Warehouse and if you bleed through and CBAed washing them, just chuck them out.
Hospital MW said it helps to drink lots as well - make sure you keep peeing and that helps keep the blood flow in check.
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 3:07pm |
I hardly had any bleeding following both my birth - like less than my normal af... so doesn't happen for everyone
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 3:15pm |
Yeah, mine was just like a relatively heavy AF for a week or so, and then virtually nothing. Definitely no double pads or plastic sheets required! 
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 3:15pm |
I found the bleeding slowed overnight (much like during AF, it 'pools' while lying down) so first thing in the morning I'd have to go to the toilet first as it would gush out. The first night I was commando with a large absorbent sheet/pad underneath as I'd had c-sections anyways, and they'd be in a bit of a mess as I would be sitting up/lying down/sitting up all day.... after the first few days it settled down to no more than a normal but slightly heavy AF, and maternity pads being thicker than normal ones meant that I was changing them about as often (i.e 2-4 hourly depending on time of day) as normal pads during AF.
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 3:17pm |
I don't know how true it is, but someone suggested it might link to your normal AF - if you're a heavy bleeder, your postnatal bleeding is more. Dunno about that.
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 3:21pm |
The first little while after birth for me - bleeding was very heavy. Much heavier than a normal period for me (at the hospital I wore one of the waterproof mats that you sleep on, folded up in my underwear plus two maternity pads!). Then after a few days it really settled down and wasn't so bad and was just like a normal period. I left the hospital before 48hours and I didn't need to use two pads or have a waterproof mat on the bed when I got home.
I bought disposable mesh underwear to wear for the first little while after birth and they actually turned out to be very good at holding all that padding in place.
It wasn't so much the bleeding that I was surprised about though - it was the size of the blood clots! I knew there would be clots but I hadn't envisioned some would be almost the size of my fist!
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 3:22pm |
For the first 2 days I had the gushing part. I'd have a shower and think yay I'm clean and then the next minute have a load of blood going down my legs  I use 2 pads in the first few days anyway cause its cushioning for stitches making it easier to sit without being ouchie.
I started exercising again at 2w and noticed that I could feel dry one minute and then really wet the next. But I didn't leak.
And for Flissty's mention of comparing it to AF. I get really light AF but my PP bleeding is gross
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 3:33pm |
It is pretty gross but you get use to it pretty fast. I had heavy bleeding for quite a while, i think its because i hemorrhaged during birth that can make it heavier. I normally have quite light af. Well did before pregnancy anyway.
Like others said it does slow at night.
I had no issues with leaking
 Oh the things to look forward too lol
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 4:06pm |
yep I had the gushing for maybe the 2 days afterwards, and then for 1 week was using 2 pads and the second week after bubs was switching over to just 1 pad, but I never woke up with blood everywhere, it was mainly just when I stood up it was pretty gross
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 4:18pm |
Oh darn I'd forgotten about the bleeding! Hmm mine lasted for 8wks, but was only heavy weeks 1-2 and week 6-7, the rest of the time was like a medium AF (I usually only get 3day light AFs so definitely wasn't used to this prolonged bleeding!) I did wear double pads for the first couple of days but that was just for comfort as it was a bit sore sitting down
I only leaked onto my knickers a couple of times at night with lying down, never got onto the sheets though.
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 4:30pm |
Ah yes....whenever I had been sitting for a while, blood would start gushing out when I got up(or just changed positions), through 2 pads and start running down my legs..always had to run straight to the toilet. That was only for about a week though.
Also had to change the sheets every morning...
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 4:36pm |
giving birth is so glamorous lol
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 4:52pm |
When we had our son my midwife did this thing with the blue hospital plastic things (they put under you when bubs comes out), not sure what they call them, she folded one into three (lengthwise) and then lay two pads down slightly overlapping and she had me wear them for the first few days as I did bleed quite heavily, (I did this again when we had our daughter in June this year) admittedly I did change them just about every time I peed but that's because I don't like that ick feeling with bleeding, depending on your bleeding I reckon just change them every couple of hours, and yes I did wear the great granny bloomers, they made me feel a bit more secure, coz you go from your beautiful tight baby bump to still a bump but not so tight and it just helped me feel better and kept the blue plastic thing in my pants lol. I hope this message gives you a few laughs because thats what I was intending not to freak you out as there are those out there that just love to do that, the best thing I will say is just do what makes YOU feel comfy. All the best
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 5:10pm |
I used 2pads just because it meant less of a worry of leaking. I did leak once when in birthcare but only the once kinda embarrasing.
We got told at AN class to change your pad everytime you bf as bfing contracts your uterus and obviously that makes you bleed. Do it if you can not always possible.
Mine was heavy for about 5days then lightened right off and was gone by 2 weeks
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 5:25pm |
I remeber those plastic thingys being on the beds while i was in hospatil after giving birth, i just used maternty pads and they worked fine didnt leak outta them.
with 2nd preg(isabella) i used martanty pads for a week but it wasnt that heavy it dispeared at 6 days which shocked me as i bleed for like 8wks with jacob and i had 2 c-sections, but i think with isabella i lost a lot of blood b4 she was born (had placenta apurbtion) so i think thats why i didnt bleed for long after her birth. by about 4-6wks with jacob i was just using linners, sorry for the tmi info.
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 6:31pm |
CJsays wrote:
Must admit I am abit paniced - esp if I get say 4 hours sleep and wake up to blood everywhere cuz no pad change every 2 hours. |
LOL - Did she forget to mention you would be lucky to get four hours sleep in total, let alone in a row.
Oh and for the record, I didnt gush when I moved, but it was quite heavy.
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 6:38pm |
I am SO SO pleased this thread is here. I've been worrying in secret fear for a few weeks now. Just doesnt seem the sort of thing i can discuss with friends, my mother...anyone.
I have a ridiculously light AF, always have, i'm a two tampon a day for two days girl so i have no idea how to cope with a gushing torrent of blood. TMI, sorry, but the the whole thread is a bit that way
Thanks for the honest stories ladies
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Posted: 17 November 2010 at 6:58pm |
Everyone is so different! I was heaviest for 2 days post birth but luckily I was still in hospital so any leaks or anything didn't really matter. At night I wore 2 mat pads and changed them each time I got up to feed baby which was pretty much 2 hourly. (MW recommended we feed 2 hourly) so it's unlikely you'll be having a full night's sleep!
It is usually heavy for about a week and then gets lighter and lighter. Sometimes it even disappears and comes back with exercise!
I didn't leak in bed, but did wear old nighties (because it was summer and too hot to wear much else).
Also be prepared for big blood clots. They freaked me out but does pay to check with your mw jic.
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