So just got back from gyn appointment, sitting at work totally distracted and just want to cry
We've been ttc for just over a year now. Last year I had a raft of blood tests, two ultrasounds and have been referred to have an MRI. Just had second appointment with hospital gyn and we did get some answers, which I guess is good.
So, DH swimmers are sub-fertile – not awesome (fertile), but not really terrible either (infertile) – apparently they could still get me utd, but just might take longer. DH has to give another sample as gyn thought maybe he didn’t follow the instructions, perhaps not waiting long enough, which is why his results weren’t great. I’m thinking of getting some menevit for him, which might help his swimmers go faster in the right direction (unfortunately he couldn’t make the appointment today – kinda glad he didn’t otherwise I would have bawled my eyes out after the appointment and I couldn’t have come back to work like that).
For me, blood test showed I didn’t ovulate and gyn brought up dreaded PCOS – prior ultrasound showed not very many cysts which would be unusual if I have it, but lots of follicles, which could be a sign (along with the not ovulating). Soooo…..more tests, and more waiting and if I don’t get MRI within six weeks (am on waiting list – just can’t afford private), then they might do some laparoscopic thing with a camera to check out my uterus (apparently go from the top through your belly button and from the bottom well, through where you could guess,

) – could have a deviated uterus (I think that’s what he said) or I could have PCOS – they just don’t really know, which sucks, I was really hoping to get more answers and a really good plan of attack.
On plus side, gyn is really lovely, he is really pushing to find out what is happening (well, as much as he can in the public system) and I only have to wait 6 weeks until next appointment (my last appointment was six months ago – although I think the gyn thought back then, that I would be utd by now).
I guess I just want to know what other people’s experiences were and if there’s anyone in the same boat as me - playing the waiting game to find out why it’s not happening right now.
(Gosh, that turned into a bit of a novel, and sorry if it’s tmi for some)