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Topic: Midwifes - West Auckland Posted: 21 February 2010 at 3:33am |
It is very early days for me but I was wondering how to go about finding a midwife. We live in West Auckland and this is our first pregnancy.
I just did a google search and to be honest am surprised how few came up! There is a website called "midwives out west" which lists only three!
As I understand there is a shortage of midwifes but I really feel like I want to have say in who I choose - is this an option or do you just take who is available?
I am all new to this so am wondering what other options I have? Is a LMC there for the birth as well? How do I go about finding them?
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Posted: 21 February 2010 at 8:14am |
Hi Susyl
I asked on here for midwife recommendations, but also did some hunting on the internet and that's how I found mine.
I also contacted Mama Maternity and they sent out a pack with a huge list of midwives in Auckland, you could try that. They also have a great Q&A section for LMC care, your options etc. Here is the link: Mama Maternity
You definitely should have a say in who you choose, you just need to be very quick about contacting the midwives to see who's available and visit them asap. I started looking when I was 7 weeks and found it difficult to find someone who was available.
Your LMC will definitely be there for the birth (unless they are at another birth, or on leave etc. and you will have their back up who you should be introduced to at some stage throughout your pregnancy).
All the very best!
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Posted: 21 February 2010 at 9:29am |
Your LMC (Lead Maternity Carer) can be a midwife, GP or Ostetritian (sp??), although I believe that all obs and GPs work with a mw as well. As MrsEmma mentioned your LMC will generally be with you from the time you first meet them through to about 6wks after birth as well as the birth itself.
I would highly recommend The Midwives in Godley Rd, Green Bay ph 825 0333. I would ring them now, especially if you want to do a little looking around. Glenda Southey was my mw for Ben and I would see her again if we have #3, I cannot say enough how ansolutely brilliant she was. Friends and family have also been there and have been very happy with Terri, Kirsten, Carly and Abby
Congrats and good luck
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Posted: 21 February 2010 at 9:50am |
Thanks for this.
We are in the Swanson area - would Greenbay be to far away? Do they mind traveling a bit?
Also, seeing this is our first time pregnant I have no idea of what direction I want to take, ie natural or drugs or CS. So will find it hard to choose a midwife at this stage I think.
What was important to you when choosing a MW?
Off to the bookshops to do some reading today...
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Posted: 21 February 2010 at 10:25am |
We live in Swanson and I travelled to Green Bay for my appointments. Some of them live this way and they all birth at Waitakere. You could also look at Helensville Birthing Centre for either the birth ("The Midwives" can't deliever there though) or for your post natal care which is what I did with Ben.
I don't think any mw's do elective cs unless it becomes necessary closer to you DD, altho someone correct me if I am wrong. Just explain that you aren't sure and they should let you know how they tend to work. I think you will get a gut feel as to whether you click with them or not.
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Posted: 21 February 2010 at 10:31am |
It will depend where you want to birth as well.. if you want to use birthcare then you will need to find out if they can deliver there as well as at Waitakere Hospital...
I think you will find some shore mw also look after waitakere (same health board) so that may be something to look at too
You need to go them for your antenatal check ups and they come to you for your post natal care.
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Posted: 21 February 2010 at 10:52am |
I love my midwife whose name is Gail Kiss - I have a lot of faith in her having had 7 babies herself. Her clinics are run from James Laurie Street in Glendene. If you want her details let me know.
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Posted: 21 February 2010 at 12:12pm |
I've heard good things about the MWs at West Auckland Midwives (google it).
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Posted: 21 February 2010 at 1:48pm |
My MW is Kerry Martin at The Midwives on godley Road in green bay, shes awesome, could not recommend her enough :) they birth at waitak and birthcare.
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Posted: 21 February 2010 at 8:55pm |
I used Angela Scott for my two, she is amazing. PM if you want her number
She is in Norval Road just by Waitak Hospital
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Posted: 22 February 2010 at 11:02am |
I would also recommend The Midwives in Greenbay. They are fabulous.
Abbe is my midwife.  her. She missed out on Harper's birth so we had Kerry Martin who was her backup at the time and Glenda Southey. They were fantastic. We had a surprise homebirth which I was thrilled about but DH has a tendancy to freak out. Kerry had it all under control and made DH feel really at ease. Glenda is absolutely lovely, one of the nicest, warm and caring ladies I have ever met. A few of the girls from our group had her and they absolutely adore her. Kirsten is also really really lovely.
They run their own antenatal classes if you want to go which are superb. They are funny and cover a lot of things, normal natural births, what if scenarios, breast feeding, coping afterwards. They also take the men seperately and teach them how to bath and change a nappy. Made the men feel a bit special that they had something that they could give us women 'tips' on. They are also really good because everyone came from the same area so our 'wine group' has become a very good group of friends.
They can deliver at Waitakere, Auckland and Birthcare and Abbe booked us in to all 3 just in case. They go with the flow when it comes to birth plans which I really liked coz it suited me well.
There, have I rambled on enough?? I think so.
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Posted: 22 February 2010 at 7:38pm |
Thanks for all your suggestions and tips!
After reading and searching a little bit online I think I have figured out a few things which I think are important to me:
I want somebody to give me all possible options and gives me guidance in which direction I want to go
I don't nescessary want an "all natural, beautiful experience and/or homebirth"
I want somebody who will look after me and gives me the nesecary drugs if I want/need them
I don't want my husband to be expected to be "hands on" during the birth or to be pressured to be there
I don't want to be "forced" into BF and made to feel guilty if I choose to bottle or formula feed
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Posted: 22 February 2010 at 8:37pm |
That website you are talking about is just one practice, rather than a website that lists the midwives in West Auckland. They used to be Maternity Matters but 3 out if 4 of them left to form a new practice. We used Linda Norman from there and she would fit in with the things you're after. She let me have all the drugs I wanted (which was all of them) and DH would go off when I got injections etc and she didn't expect him to be there. I didn't go through the pushing part but I assume she'd have been fine with him staying away from the business end which was what he wanted - in the end he sat in the waiting room while I had the c-section instead
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Posted: 23 February 2010 at 8:26am |
Anyone know why MM split?? I went there for #1 but wouldn't go back.
And yeah, I'm amazed how few have websites esp these days when websites are most people's first method of research.
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Posted: 23 February 2010 at 8:35am |
Flissty - can I ask why you would not go back to MM (Maternity Matters I assume)?
Which midwife did you see and what was your experience?
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Posted: 23 February 2010 at 9:12am |
PMed rather than posted. Would rather not go into the specifics publicly.
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Posted: 23 February 2010 at 10:29am |
And all the midwives at West Auckland Midwives are lovely as I work along side them in the same premises. I did ask Debbie Ross to be my midwife, but she was going to be away around the time I was due.
Why don't you arrange to meet with a couple before you decide?
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Posted: 23 February 2010 at 5:20pm |
Have contacted Linda Norman last night and got a call from Helen this morning as Linda is on holiday. She has given me an appointment to meet Linda in about 3 weeks but has already told me they'd be ok with taking me on.
She mentioned there are 3 MW's who work as a team and if my MF would have her day off when I'm in labour I'd be having on of the others.
Is this how all MW's work, ie having a back up MW just in case?
Each of the MW at this practice take on 6-7 cases per month - is this the norm?
Will def be trying to arrange to meet a couple of others to decide what I want to do.
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Posted: 23 February 2010 at 5:44pm |
Thats about right Susyl, they work as a pair or team incase your mw is having her day off when you go into labour. You will meet the back up along the way (particularily if your mw is on leave or at a birth LOL when your appt is).
Most dont like to take on too many per month so they dont get too busy to give good care... incidently my mw had all her april and 4 of her may give birth by the time Jake was born.. April 6  Thats why they dont take on too many.... in case alot go into labour at the same time (5 in 48 hours for my mw and her partner the weekend Jake was born).
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Posted: 23 February 2010 at 5:50pm |
So do you think 6-7 sounds about right or is this to many?
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