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FionaS
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Topic: The war of the nappy change Posted: 09 November 2007 at 12:59pm |
Now that my 14mth old has finally learned how to roll and stand up nappy changes are a nightmare. For a few days she laughed and though it was a joke but now she screams blue murder when I lie her down. I try giving her snacks / my jewellery / my cell phone...anything exciting but it's not working. Today it took 20mins to get her changed and I ended up dropping a very red-eyed toddler off at her Nana's before arriving to our work AGM late. Far too much stress for both of us.
Tips :) Ta. Let me guess..."it will pass"!!
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 1:14pm |
do it standing up....her not you that is and no it doesnt pass!
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 1:16pm |
Argh...cloth nappies are hard to put on standing up, especially when that means standing up and moving!
Humph.
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 1:21pm |
Thankfully we can still get the nappy changed but she still will yell blue murder when she doens't feel like having her nappy changed! Toddlers!!
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 1:23pm |
Ideas from the treasure mag
Stick a loop of sticky tape or a couple of stickers on her hands. Her trying to pick them off will keep her busy why you change her.
Let you baby hold something normally forbidden..mobile phone etc
Hand her something that makes a surprising noise
Play peekaboo with a cloth
Clip a spring loaded clothes peg to her shirt, it'll take her ages to get it off
Hide a little toy under her top
If theres someone to help get them to blow bubbles
Hang a balloon over the change table
be silly, moo like a cow, sing in a squeaky voice, blow rasperberries, make crazy faces.
Say you will need to keep trying new stuff as they will get bored if you try the same tactic all the time.
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 1:25pm |
hehe sticky tape on the hands...that sounds a little naughty but oh so funny!!
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 1:34pm |
I used to be able to get away with making silly faces, or getting her to copy animal noises etc, but now nothing works - roll on TT!!
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 1:35pm |
Yeah the faces and noises have worn off for us too. Hmmm...sticky tape here I come.. :)
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 1:42pm |
I like the peg idea too.
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 1:49pm |
I know this sounds mean but... sit sideways to her, and put your leg gently across her chest literally pinning her to the floor while talking to her about what's going on: "Lie still for Mummy... I'm just going to change your nappy quickly... Wow, what a good girl lying down for Mummy!... Nearly finished" stuff like that. It doesn't matter that the only reason she's lying down is because you've trapped her, the point is she's contained and you can change her as quickly as possible. Once she gets the idea and lies still under your leg, lift it up a little so that it's still there but not pinning her and see how she behaves.
Eventually it will stop  but this is what I did with each of my children to get through that stage.
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 1:52pm |
 I did that yesterday and was just imagining the cat calling CYFS LOL!
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 1:56pm |
Just imagine the next stage... they lie nice and still, but try to put their hands into everything that's going on!
I had already stopped pinning Josiah when he started this, since he was lying nice and still, so instead I put my feet on his shoulders and pinned his arms down!
NOTE: I do not recommend using either position (leg across chest or feet on shoulders) in a skirt or dress!
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 6:53pm |
yep thats what i use to do with james and hemi becca great minds
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Posted: 09 November 2007 at 8:36pm |
Yup I do much the same as Becca - and still occasionally need to do it for Briona (sorry that gives you little hope, doesn't it!) except that I spread my legs straight in front of me so that I pin down the child's arms at the shoulder. Works a treat.
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Posted: 10 November 2007 at 7:12pm |
I know Toni holds Caitlin in one spot with her knees while she changes her (on the floor) but I've tried that with the wriggly gremlins with no luck.
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Posted: 10 November 2007 at 7:31pm |
Crikey it gets worse??  Kaleb already tries to wriggle away from us when we change his nappy or clothes. He will roll over on his change table if he is given half a chance but the thing that gets me is the "hump" movement he does lifting his pelvis up and down in a repetitive motion  Don't know where he learnt that one!
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Posted: 10 November 2007 at 9:51pm |
I SO SO understand your problem. Oliver is a nightmare.
I was looking at these last night on the internet...
http://www.babyb.co.nz/Rabb.html
Don't know anything about them but the idea is good.
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Posted: 11 November 2007 at 9:49am |
Maya wrote:
I know Toni holds Caitlin in one spot with her knees while she changes her (on the floor) but I've tried that with the wriggly gremlins with no luck. |
This sounds really awful but it works for us.
I lock her head between my knees and change her upside down. She hasn't gotten away from me yet.
If the head lock doesn't work, try going further down and locking the shoulders as well. Not the most dignified position, but whatever makes life easier
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Posted: 11 November 2007 at 9:58am |
I ended up doing the standing up nappy change... I found it pretty easy - just do up the nappy first and slide it on like underwear. Bit of a mission to wriggle the insert into place but a whoooole lot easier than the lying down screaming fit! hehe
Lou posted a pattern for a trainer pant thing on her blog, which was basically a pocket nappy but with stretch lycra on the side. If you have someone who could sew then you could make up a couple of those for the most horrible changes...?
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Posted: 12 November 2007 at 1:00pm |
Stickers on the hands is a good one.
Another position is sit with them in between your legs and put your legs under theirs and over their arms.
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