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Topic: Solids a no-no! Posted: 04 September 2011 at 7:48pm |
My 7 month old daughter is uninterested in solids. She'll chew on the odd bit of finger food but clamps her mouth shut at the sight of a spoon. The best eating so far has been when she was with a slightly older baby and she ate some banana when she saw her little friend eating.
I don't want to start force feeding her, but am running out of ideas for finger foods that I can try. I'm giving her roast veg sticks, apples, pears, rusks, bread, toast and, today, a bit of cheese. She's not really eating any of it! Plunket have suggested more variety but I'm not sure what else I can try that's age appropriate.
Any suggestions please???
I'm keen to get her eating something as her weight gains have always been pretty low, so I don't want her wasting away
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Posted: 04 September 2011 at 8:17pm |
Dont worry!
Breastmilk/formula is the most important food source until one. Keep offering finger food, you can give her whatever you are eating, just make it so she can hold it and leave her to it. My DD didnt start 'eating' until about 9 months, up until then she just tasted stuff and ate a bit here and there. I find DD eats better when I ignore her, she all of a sudden realises there is food and away she goes.
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Posted: 04 September 2011 at 8:23pm |
At that age milk is still the most important thing and is until they're 1yr. Milk is also the most calorific and nutritious thing they can get - much more so than any solids.
Don't worry too much, just give her plenty of opportunity to try things and try not to analyse how much is actually going in. She won't allow herself to starve.
DS eats like a pig one day and a bird the next and I just try to go with the flow. We've always made mealtimes fun and stress-free and totally led by him. Every month he seems to be more and more interested.
There is heaps going on when they start eating solids, so even if she isn't eating heaps, she's learning the skills she needs down the track when she will be eating more - chewing, swallowing etc.
Oh, and you don't need to spoon feed her - have you tried giving her a preloaded spoon and she feed herself? It's messy but DS loves it and was already able to scoop the spoon and feed himself at 10mths. Porridge is good for this as it kinda sticks to the spoon. We have porridge most mornings with some pureed fruit...
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Posted: 04 September 2011 at 9:34pm |
my dd1 never had any solids until she was 10months, bit hippy you might say but she never got her first tooth till 9months and 2nd at 10months which is when we started to see signs she was ready for food and BM wasnt enuf.
I never started her on finger food, I could never imagine giving finger food to a baby unless she had a good 8-10 teeth or more.
I started bubs on farex pear & banana flavour as it was higher in fibre and iron mixed with EBM for a couple weeks then moved onto vegs then fruit
GP and PLUNKET both said that their children never had anything other than BM before 1year old and they just said some need it sooner as the mum you will know
proberly very contraversial advice but anyway its my story
does your 7month old hav any or manny teeth?
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Posted: 04 September 2011 at 9:37pm |
oh just thought I would clarify that I could never imagine trying to chew thru solid/finger food with no or little teeth, hence my resoning for not giving it to my DD
and I always made the veges very runny, boiled up in pot with mince or chicken breast cut up then use the water you drain off the pot to add to the blender to make it very whipped up almost soupy but not hard lumpy mash to begin with.
hope that this makes sense
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Posted: 04 September 2011 at 9:44pm |
Thanks ladies, glad to know I'm not the only one! My eldest ate like a trooper from 6 months on so this is a new experience for us. I'll plan our meals a bit better so there's always something suitable for her on the plate.
GirlsRock - the finger food is stuff she can suck on, not hard. Eg the one roasted parsnip she tried she just sucked out the mushy middle, no different from spoon feeding in that sense. The rusks I give her are Farley's rusks from the UK [thank God for pak n save international aisle!!] as they disintegrate into mush as DD sucks on them.
My eldest didn't get teeth til almost 1 year and she was chewing happily with the best of them on various textures so I figure if they're happy to munch, they can try it.
A bit off topic, having teeth later meant that we had no real problems with teething pain/sleepless nights etc. My theory is tough gums! Was this the same for your DD when her teeth came through?
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Posted: 04 September 2011 at 9:45pm |
Jaune wrote:
She won't allow herself to starve. |
This will be my new mantra when I start worrying about her weight gain!
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Posted: 04 September 2011 at 10:05pm |
Definitely! I still have to tell myself to stop watching, analysing and worrying about him eating enough...he knows what he needs better than I do - he's been demand feeding since birth!
And definitely tough gums! Having teeth doesn't necessarily equate with being able to eat well... The molars for proper chewing don't come in till later anyway, until then it's all gums.
DS really liked noodles/pasta at that age - they're easy to hold, messy (especially with some spoonfuls of flavoured tinned tomatoes) and fun...if any went in it was a bonus!
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Posted: 04 September 2011 at 10:17pm |
DD doesn't have any teeth and she munches on food with the best of them. I found DD ate better when we sat down together as a family.
At that age it was just her and I and I'd make up weetbix for me and baby muesli for her and we'd eat together.
Lunch was much the same, I ate a lot of soup - left it thick for DD and slightly more stock to my portion.
She still has moments where she's not interested in food she's getting nutrition from breast milk - solids are a supplement to it at that age not a replacement.
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Posted: 05 September 2011 at 2:51pm |
no issues with teething, odd red check or bit of bonjela on the gums now and then but no sleepless nights.
I was a bit different as Im coeliac (gluten free) dietician/gp both said to keep DD off gluten until over 1year old , so no weetbix/rusks/biscuits/toast etc for her which is properly why I just stuck more with the farex/vege/fruit before then.
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Posted: 05 September 2011 at 3:27pm |
I always remember mrsmojo saying "Food is for fun, until they are 1"
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Posted: 05 September 2011 at 7:29pm |
I need to get some post-its with these saying on and stick them on the fridge!
I sat her in the high chair at Playcentre today when the other kids were having morning tea and she gave her bit of banana a good chew, so I almost had a party to celebrate.
I never imagined being this obsessed about food intake!
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Posted: 05 September 2011 at 7:36pm |
Like the others said just keep offering her finger foods and let her try a bit of what you're eating. Tom was exactly the same- wasn't at all interested in eating and when I tried feeing him with a spoon he would just push it away and it was like he didn't know what to do with it. It wasn't until he was 12mths that he started to become interested in food and now at 17 mths is a pretty good eater and will actually beg food off strangers
I don't think the number of teeth has much to do with it- Tom's only got 8 teeth and I have seen lots of babies with not very many teeth nibble/suck away on finger foods and consume a decent amount.
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Posted: 05 September 2011 at 7:50pm |
I started my son on finger foods with no teeth and he has never had a problem. In fact he's had very little puree'd food in 3 months of eating. He has 6 teeth now but they have little - nothing to do with their ability to eat. Just thought i'd put that out there. Other then that nothing to add to the rest of the advice :)
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Posted: 05 September 2011 at 8:25pm |
As long as she is still having milk I wouldn't worry. Ds eating has only just taken off in the last mo th ( he's 20 mnths). Until then he had mostly bm and he is just fine. I'd take wht Plunket say about food with a grain of salt too. Not all babies can be squished into their box
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Posted: 06 September 2011 at 1:51pm |
If it's any consolation I had the opposite. My two took to solids like the proverbial duck to water at 6 months. Ate anything and everything I gave them with one exception - potato.
Then they hit 13 months and refused EVERYTHING including bottles. They now have a very limited few foods they will eat along with a smidgen of milk each day.
And so the fun continues
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 2:16pm |
My mum says that dinner times are one of the few times that kids can exercise control and WIN!!
Doesn't take them long to work it out
We had some success with a carrot puree soaked Cruskitt. Will plod on...
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