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mylilmosaic
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Topic: Again :-( Posted: 01 June 2010 at 1:47pm |
I have just copied and pasted this from my due in thread as I wanted to let all you lovely girls over here know what has happened. Hope you all don't mind me copying and pasting.
Hi girls
Well unfortunately I have not such good news, my hcg levels were doubling great for the first three bloods taken but the fourth one last Friday showed they were no longer doubling. FAH called us in for a scan to see whats happening and unfortunately no heartbeat only an eggsack and fetal pole measuring 6 weeks. It should measure 7.5 weeks and there should be a heartbeat.
So as some of you who know me can imagine we are quiet guttered, this journey just seems neverending
We will take time to recollect ourselves and let nature take its course, hopefully. And then we still have one frozen embie and hopefully that one will be more successful.
Goodluck with your pregnancies and I hope and pray that I am the last in this thread to post of a m/c.
Thanks to everyone for their support and excitement for us in this pregnancy xxx
We have to wait one cycle before we can have our frozen embie put back in the following cycle, so dh and I are going to focus on weight loss and getting fit to try and give the frozen embie the best possible chance.
Man getting older sucks, I keep wondering whether it is the age of my eggs that is the problem, but dh said maybe its the age of his sperm too, arghhh, who knows
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Alison
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 1:57pm |
Appy2 am so sorry to hear your news, all the best with your frozen embie, and take care for yourselves XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 2:33pm |
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 2:40pm |
Oh my gosh Appy, that is terrible news  I am so upset for you  As you and I know, there is nothing I can say to help but please know that I am thinking of you and if this is the way it's meant to be then hopefully it isn't a long drawn out process for you  Take care hun xx
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 2:47pm |
oh Appy I am so sorry. Take care and I hope you and your DH are coping okay (as much as you can). So sorry :(
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 3:41pm |
Appy  I'm so so sorry to hear of your loss  I'm not really sure what I can say to help take some of your pain away because I know that it wouldnt take it away anyway! Take care hun, and my thoughts are with you and your DH
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 3:53pm |
Awwww Appy, I'm so sorry to hear this. Love and hugs to you and your dh  My thoughts are with you both!
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mylilmosaic
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 4:59pm |
Thanks girls for your support, reading your posts does make me  but they also make me  Its nice to know there is such a caring community at oh baby, and I know one day soon we will get our bubba. Whilst that doesn't make me feel any better today, I know in a few days I will feel better and start thinking about our next move. xxx
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 5:20pm |
Appy, I am so very, very sorry to hear this.
I hope you & DH are looking after each other.
Things just aren't fair sometimes.
Super strength, super huge hugs to you lady!
xxx
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 5:46pm |
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 6:04pm |
Oh Appy I have just heard the news. I am so gutted for you!!!!! To say things are unfair just doesn't cut it really. Huge hugs to you and your DH. Never give up hun, it's such a hard journey but you will get your bubba.
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 6:19pm |
Appy just posted in the other thread to you as just heard your sad news and Im just so gutted for you.. After all you had been through.. Please know we are all thinking of you and hope you will get through this xx
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 7:10pm |
ohhhh Appy!
So sorry to hear the news..... Nothing I can say can take your pain away, but please know my thoughts are with you
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 8:30pm |
Really sorry to hear that as I know you've had a few miscarriages as I have.
Hope you feel better to give it all another go at some stage.
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Posted: 01 June 2010 at 8:35pm |
Thanks again for all your kind words  you are all the best xx
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