We are in the very early stages of toilet training (as in started yesterday!!) Ashleigh seems to have clicked that she is meant to wee on the toilet - except she hasn't yet. She had a small accident this morning but after that kept slightly wetting her knickers and stopping once she felt it, saying wees and running to the toilet but wouldn't finish on there. I put a nappy on her after lunch as she was going to bed and I checked her literally a minute later and she had done a huge wee in her nappy so she was obviously holding a lot in. So after that long story, is it ok for her to be holding on like this? I don't want her to get an infection or anything. I really feel that once she does that first wee on the toilet, it should all click into place but it must be scary or something for her