OHbaby! Forums : dont know what to do https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 00:44:24 +0000 Mon, 06 Aug 2007 13:43:55 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=9655 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[dont know what to do : i snapped all the time when i...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=192298&title=dont-know-what-to-do#192298 Author: MyMinis
Subject: 9655
Posted: 06 August 2007 at 1:43pm

i snapped all the time when i was preg with james, I think Nathan & Boo had had enough of my moods.

well im sticking to my guess of it being a wee brother for Rhi
hope things get better from now.]]> Mon, 06 Aug 2007 13:43:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=192298&title=dont-know-what-to-do#192298 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : I was also a mean bitch, yelling...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191971&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191971 Author: Lisha
Subject: 9655
Posted: 05 August 2007 at 6:52pm

I was also a mean bitch, yelling at poor DH and little Lucy! Don't beat yourself up over it, it will pass ]]> Sun, 05 Aug 2007 18:52:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191971&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191971 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : well today its been great, went...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191956&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191956 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 9655
Posted: 05 August 2007 at 6:03pm

well today its been great, went back to bed at 7.30am slept till 9.30am, did some housework, hubby took Rhiannon to the park, he cooked lunch, and dinner tonight and he bathed rhiannon so ive had a relaxing day...its been good.]]> Sun, 05 Aug 2007 18:03:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191956&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191956 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : yup im exactly the same with my...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191948&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191948 Author: Candkids
Subject: 9655
Posted: 05 August 2007 at 5:24pm

yup im exactly the same with my seccond!!

one second im fine and the next im either yelling or screaming or crying or all of them at once!]]> Sun, 05 Aug 2007 17:24:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191948&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191948 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : I was totally like this but didn&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191937&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191937 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 9655
Posted: 05 August 2007 at 4:45pm

I was totally like this but didn't have a partner so my poor flatmate took the brunt of it. Actually, I was like that with my second pregnancy too, right from the start. I was sooooo close to kicking the crap out of Zeke every time he opened his mouth. Ohhh I'm so sweet.

Hate to think what'll happen next time... Maybe I'll just put in a disclaimer.

Hope it passes soon babe]]> Sun, 05 Aug 2007 16:45:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191937&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191937 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : thanks guys, it really helps to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191765&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191765 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 9655
Posted: 05 August 2007 at 7:20am

thanks guys, it really helps to know im not the only one that feels/felt like this...i am so hoping that that it passes soon as i really hate feeling like this.

for the first time in about 4 wks we actually went to bed at the same time and snuggled and giggled and laughed and then went to sleep...lol]]> Sun, 05 Aug 2007 07:20:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191765&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191765 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : Hi Kazzle I don&#039;t have any...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191740&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191740 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 9655
Posted: 04 August 2007 at 9:17pm

Hi Kazzle I don't have any words of wisdom sorry but if it helps I was also very moody first trimester (mainly weepy but I did throw things too ) and then a week ago I got a bad bout of hormones and was very depressed and weepy and couldn't cope with anything. From what I understand it's very normal.

For what it's worth I think starting this thread is a good thing. Being able to share with others helps heaps.

]]> Sat, 04 Aug 2007 21:17:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191740&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191740 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : I totally understand what you&#039;re...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191712&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191712 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 9655
Posted: 04 August 2007 at 7:46pm

I totally understand what you're saying kazzle, I was exactly the same in the first trimester. MS & pg hormones made me not want to be touched by anyone! Dh would try & cuddle me & I couldn't wait to get away!! And I was pretty grumpy too, but was pretty darn sick!

You'll get through this phase & I'm sure your Dh will forget all about it. Just let him know how you're feeling, even if he doesn't seem to understand, its better than not telling him at all.

Men can go a bit silly themselves when they're not getting any.]]> Sat, 04 Aug 2007 19:46:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191712&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191712 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : I was just about to suggest you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191694&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191694 Author: newmum
Subject: 9655
Posted: 04 August 2007 at 7:29pm

I was just about to suggest you talk to annie (fattartsrock) about it but I see she got in there first Hugs Kazzle, hope you feel better soon. Oh yeah tell Dh to go suck eggs, pressuring isn't going to suddently make you feel like "doing it" Typical man, mine is no different ]]> Sat, 04 Aug 2007 19:29:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191694&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191694 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : Big hugs, chic, sorry to say I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191673&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191673 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 9655
Posted: 04 August 2007 at 6:03pm

Big hugs, chic, sorry to say I was like this my whole pregnancy with char, and am still off "special cuddles". My OB/GYN said my "psychosis" was because was becasue I was probably pregnant with a girl (and I was, but hadn't told her, and it wasn't in my file as the sex scan was a shifty one organised by the hospice) and the extra oestrogen was making me nuts, kinda like how I get on the pill but WORSE!! Things seem more pronounced with each pregnancy I am told, so big big hugs and if it continues, I'm betting GIRL!! ]]> Sat, 04 Aug 2007 18:03:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191673&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191673 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : kawwww wrote:rachandjack why...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191634&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191634 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 9655
Posted: 04 August 2007 at 4:05pm

Originally posted by kawwww kawwww wrote:

rachandjack why would moods mean you are having a boy?

Just cos Kaz said it wasn't like this when she was preggy with Rhinanion.

I think it is a phase, I went through it but once it passed and I was the one wanting it all the time I remembered what I did to him and got over it. I did do the little nagging thing for a bit but it soon all passed.

]]> Sat, 04 Aug 2007 16:05:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191634&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191634 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : rachandjack why would moods mean...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191626&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191626 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 9655
Posted: 04 August 2007 at 3:54pm

rachandjack why would moods mean you are having a boy?]]> Sat, 04 Aug 2007 15:54:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191626&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191626 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : hi...i was exacly the same......]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191625&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191625 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 9655
Posted: 04 August 2007 at 3:53pm

hi...i was exacly the same... till about 8/9 weeks i was a cow...I don't know how he put up with me...he started off going on about not getting any but when we talked about why and stuff since then he has been really good.. which is great even though he used to make stupid jokes that I don't find funny!

Nothing I did made me any better mood wise except eating and sleeping I can only imagine how hard it is with another child too..rest assured you are not alone:) I am 13 weeks now and am in a much better mood most of the time provided I get enough sleep... once I spoke to DH about how what he said made me feel he did stop it..so that was great...and only occassionaly let me have it when i was being a total cow...! ]]> Sat, 04 Aug 2007 15:53:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191625&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191625 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : i was a horrid bicth when i was...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191624&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191624 Author: james
Subject: 9655
Posted: 04 August 2007 at 3:52pm

i was a horrid bicth when i was preggers with james big hugs hun and i relly hope it settles soon ]]> Sat, 04 Aug 2007 15:52:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191624&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191624 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : I was the same and turned back...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191621&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191621 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 9655
Posted: 04 August 2007 at 3:50pm

I was the same and turned back that way at the end too. Maybe just try and explain you are feeling like crap so he doesn't expect too much from you. Or seeing if he could take rhiannon out on the weekend so you can have time by yourself.

Ooo maybe your having a boy?]]> Sat, 04 Aug 2007 15:50:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191621&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191621 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : I think i remember being like...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191608&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191608 Author: MelanieAndBree
Subject: 9655
Posted: 04 August 2007 at 3:23pm

I think i remember being like that too in the first stages lol.
Of course i didnt actually know i was pregnant at the time.

My ex was always asking me why i was in such a foul mood. I treated him pretty badly sometimes too. Felt bad afterwards of course but now i think he deserved it hehe.
He just put up with me somehow.. also, i was the opposite and was the one wanting him to put out all the time lmao. Course he never said no seeing as he is a bloody male after all. Heheh.

Sorry im not much help at all. Im crap with this sort of thing seeing as im not married or even in a relationship. Plus all my relationships turned out sh*t in the end lol.
]]> Sat, 04 Aug 2007 15:23:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191608&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191608 <![CDATA[dont know what to do : Oh my god, ive turned into the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191606&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191606 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 9655
Posted: 04 August 2007 at 3:10pm

Oh my god, ive turned into the phycio bitch from hell, you only have to look at me and it sets me off...

I was never like this with my first pregnancy and i dont know how to handle it...i have even got to the point were i almost packed my bags and went to stay with mum and dad for the night...but would much rather Kent and Rhiannon left so i could have the house to myself.

I feel so horrid, yet i dont know how to tell Kent how im feeling, its hard enough with him constantly going on and on and bloody on about not getting any special cuddles...and i think thats my main problem is he is making me feel like im being a useless wife cos im not putting out at the moment, but i dont know how to tell him i dont want him touching me without hurting him...arrggghhh]]> Sat, 04 Aug 2007 15:10:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=9655&PID=191606&title=dont-know-what-to-do#191606