https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 05 Apr 2026 07:18:08 +0000 Sat, 30 Jun 2007 10:38:57 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=8619 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169686&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169686 Author: YvetteandElla
Subject: 8619
Posted: 30 June 2007 at 10:38am

Emz smack your man - 2x a week he should feel lucky - DH and I have tried to stay away from "special Cuddles" as I get very bad bladder infections - it is good as he is very supportive and would hate anything happening to his lil girl

Mind you I have a low sex drive (thanks to Antidepressants) so he never got it much before except when we were tryinga and he thought all his xmas's had come at once]]> Sat, 30 Jun 2007 10:38:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169686&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169686 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169663&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169663 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 8619
Posted: 30 June 2007 at 10:17am

Emz it sounds like thrush to me, that happened to me when DF would "do his thing" in me aswell, a real uncomfortable sting, you might have internal thrush if you havent got any itching externally. I got the external itch not long after the stingy sex.
If it is thrush be careful with sex cos I passed it onto my DF and it wanst pretty! lol he wasnt happy at all... ]]> Sat, 30 Jun 2007 10:17:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169663&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169663 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169486&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169486 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 9:28pm

emz wrote: Got an appt with the m/w in a week so I'll talk to her about it then. No biggie though, just wondering if it was 'normal'!

I am starting to realise that anything that seems really weird is "normal" in pregnancy. Any symptom you could imagine seems to be "normal" ]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 21:28:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169486&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169486 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169479&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169479 Author: emz
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 9:14pm

Got an appt with the m/w in a week so I'll talk to her about it then. No biggie though, just wondering if it was 'normal'!]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 21:14:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169479&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169479 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169365&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169365 Author: Candkids
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 7:44pm

lol

i had this too it was awfull, but yes it was thrush , and didnt seem to get any better until about a week after the thrush treatment had finished.

lol topsy - i had the ilergic to the sperm thort too as ive heard that can actually happen.]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 19:44:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169365&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169365 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169251&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169251 Author: AnnC
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 4:22pm

Yes your midwife can sort it out for u and it should be free. Best to get onto it sooner rather than later. She can test for a uti as well (although I don't think its that)]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 16:22:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169251&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169251 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169221&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169221 Author: busymum
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 3:46pm

Emz ask your mw about it. If it's thrush she might be able to refer you in the right direction?]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 15:46:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169221&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169221 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169149&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169149 Author: emz
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 2:28pm

Will have to wait for a couple of weeks to go to the doctors - have no money (as in I have about $5 for the next two weeks ) so will just wait it out for a while.

I can understand how it could be thrush, but surely I'd get it whenever we have sex, not just when DH does his thing?

Deb - my DH thinks he's hard done by because he's only getting it 2 times a week now! 'Poor' man - not! ]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 14:28:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169149&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169149 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169139&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169139 Author: Glow
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 2:21pm

I have the same problem. Dont know for sure(should of asked my doctor ages ago) but I think its something to do with thrush & increased fanny sensitivity. I have tried condoms which dont really work(but not as painful as no condom) so i dont think its not the sperm itself. Its within a few minutes after sex i have this stinging sensation just within my vulva- like friction burn(& i use jelly) So its kinda off putting to for me & i try to avoid intercourse as such. I find the flannel good & also squatting in the bath & giving myself a little bi-det works wonders
I havent got long now & hopefully it will go away- otherwise i'll be off to the doctor to get answers.
Hope you sort yourself out soon to emz COz its not nice at all]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 14:21:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169139&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169139 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169111&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169111 Author: MyBelly
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 1:49pm

I get that all the time now too emz!! i would NOT recommend play lube! we tried it and it just burned even more! too much info, but when it first started hurting, it was deffinately not friction burn or being too dry (sorry if TMI!!) i have no other symptoms of thrush, but will be getting some cream for it, just incase it is, and hopefully that can clear it up, but yea, i would not reccomend the lube, that honestly had me in the shower so fast and i couldnt get a goodnights sleep because of the burning!

good luck and lol, please let me know if u find a way to stop it!]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 13:49:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169111&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169111 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169108&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169108 Author: AnnC
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 1:43pm

perhaps you are getting too dry down there during sex. Have you tried KY? Like peachy said the sperm maybe irritating it after it starts coming out again (erwee the things we talk about on here LOL )]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 13:43:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169108&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169108 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169092&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169092 Author: BellaBoo
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 12:59pm

Sounds like thrush to me. I had something similar when we first started trying for a baby. I had no other symptoms and was convinced that I was alergic to partners sperm (coincided with the stopping protection). It turned out to be thrush and was treated easily. So, in other words go to the docs and dont try and self diagnose using the internet like I did and cause yourself unecessary stress thinking it is something more serious! Good luck ]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 12:59:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169092&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169092 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169059&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169059 Author: mamanee
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 12:05pm

I had the same as you Deb, thrush that wasn't particularly itchy or smelly. Sometimes thrush can be just on the inside rather than all over. It's a common occurence during pregnancy, I know I had it about three times and it really sucked. If it turns out to be thrush, there is a six day canestan pack at the pharmacy that is low dosage and safe for pregnancy.

Hopefully it's not thrush though cause it's not nice! It could be what Peachy has said and just be your body being 'different' and more sensitive during pregnancy.]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 12:05:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169059&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169059 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169057&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169057 Author: 11111
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 12:01pm

good point Peachy that is waht we first thought.]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 12:01:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169057&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169057 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169054&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169054 Author: peachy
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 11:59am

I don't get stinging, but I have to admit sex is ALOT different to before I was pregnant. Its not better or worse, I can just feel it in my tummy more and yeah basically its just a really really different feeling for me!!

Maybe your getting like a friction burn inside you and then his eerrmm "stuff" is reacting to it, just a thought.......you know when water is put on a grazed knee it kinda stings??? I guess everything down there is alot more tender and sensitive during pregnancy aswell!

Not much help am I ]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 11:59:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169054&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169054 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169053&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169053 Author: 11111
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 11:54am

I had this with Mikey tuened out i has thrush for 3 month's and did not know it cause  Iwas not really all that itchy. or smell.   I use to (before I knew what the prob was ) I use to jsut try to live with it  it was gone by the mornign and i did the cool flannel thing to. have a chat to your m/w she might be able to help.  I know waht you mean it can really affect your sex drive poor DH suffered for teh 3 month's.]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 11:54:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169053&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169053 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169046&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169046 Author: kebakat
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 11:50am

That sounds really annoying!! But my DH didn't get sex from me from about 8 weeks lol so he would think ya DH is lucky to be even getting it from ya haha..

Sorry not too helpful.. hopefully someone else has some ideas on what it might be!!]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 11:50:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169046&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169046 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169043&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169043 Author: emz
Subject: 8619
Posted: 29 June 2007 at 11:47am

OK this is kind of embarrassing, but ever since I got pregnant when we have sex and DH well you know does his thing at the end I get stinging about 5 mins later. We've tried everything like getting it out straight away (hehe ew), leaving it there for a while, but I end up having to have a shower and cleaning myself out fully to stop the stinging then keep a cool flannel on there for the rest of the night.

It's really affected my sex drive and the only way I'll let DH near me is if he promises to pull out lol

Anyone had similar experiences or know what it could be? This is so embarrassing but I'm hoping someone can help! TIA!

Oh, and this never happened before I got pregnant so it's very strange that it would be a pregnancy symptom.]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2007 11:47:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=8619&PID=169043&title=stinging-sex-sorry-tmi#169043