OHbaby! Forums : Absolutely furious https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 17:13:26 +0000 Tue, 22 May 2007 21:35:19 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=7698 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : I would have told him that he...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=149315&title=absolutely-furious#149315 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 7698
Posted: 22 May 2007 at 9:35pm

I would have told him that he should come apologise to me once his GF or future wife gets pregnant...and that you will be looking forward to it...

he does sound like the typical male...I had one in my office on short staff over summer and pre xmas they joked that he might have to birth bubs if i went in to labour over the break while working...poor kid didnt come near me much and i puffed one day and my sec (aged 20!) ran - seriously she RAN!!!! Every one handles it differntly....just realise that and have something ready for next time!]]> Tue, 22 May 2007 21:35:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=149315&title=absolutely-furious#149315 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : LMAO Mikaela - wait till you go...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=149308&title=absolutely-furious#149308 Author: Maya
Subject: 7698
Posted: 22 May 2007 at 9:27pm

LMAO Mikaela - wait till you go back after bubs is born to show him off to all your workmates and start telling your very loud birth story in the lunchroom. Revenge is sweet ]]> Tue, 22 May 2007 21:27:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=149308&title=absolutely-furious#149308 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : Gosh we are a voilent lot arent...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=149285&title=absolutely-furious#149285 Author: Phat_Cat
Subject: 7698
Posted: 22 May 2007 at 8:47pm

Gosh we are a voilent lot arent we?  That was pretty rude of him & i would have turned round & said "am I talking to you?, do you know where babies come out from? the va jay jay" hehehe you should so bring up some of the stuff mentioned but i would bring up the fact that you can bleed up to 2 weeks after & see how fast he leaves the room LMAO!!!

as for the chick OMG 4 abortions maybe she should be a bit more careful......... and the other chicks just need to grow up!!

]]> Tue, 22 May 2007 20:47:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=149285&title=absolutely-furious#149285 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : Mikaela - That is diabolical (sp?)...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=149203&title=absolutely-furious#149203 Author: MissCandice
Subject: 7698
Posted: 22 May 2007 at 6:34pm

Mikaela - That is diabolical (sp?) what he siad, i would have got up and threw my food at him!! Geez that made me so mad i wanted to cry!

Geeez i dont think iv eva met such a rude selfless prick!

Sorry you had to hear that! ]]> Tue, 22 May 2007 18:34:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=149203&title=absolutely-furious#149203 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : ugh guys like that annoy me mikaela,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=149200&title=absolutely-furious#149200 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 7698
Posted: 22 May 2007 at 6:18pm

ugh guys like that annoy me mikaela, and i hate how if you talk about your labour experience some of them are like " okay okay " as if they cant bear to hear anymore, why? wimps...its not like they will ever have to go through with it.

I think some men cant differentiate (sp) between a baby growing in your tummy and a cute little baby wearing stretch and grows and sleeping, they still think the stork bought them.

chonni your ex ( i hope ) work mate sounds like an idiot and similar to a girl i worked with, she asked me why did i keep caitlyn and i said id had a termination before and i wasnt doing that to this baby (and id already fallen in love with my baby but thats beside the point) and she goes "oh, ive already had FOUR abortions, id just have another one if i got pregnant again" ...not sure if she was telling the truth but STILL ! ]]> Tue, 22 May 2007 18:18:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=149200&title=absolutely-furious#149200 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : Its amazing how thoughtless people...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=149184&title=absolutely-furious#149184 Author: lil_miss
Subject: 7698
Posted: 22 May 2007 at 5:36pm

Its amazing how thoughtless people can be :(]]> Tue, 22 May 2007 17:36:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=149184&title=absolutely-furious#149184 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : Oh Mikaela, what a jerk! Still...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148972&title=absolutely-furious#148972 Author: Lulu
Subject: 7698
Posted: 22 May 2007 at 11:20am

Oh Mikaela, what a jerk! Still you have to feel sorry for him that he doesn't understand the joy and wonder of an unborn child!]]> Tue, 22 May 2007 11:20:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148972&title=absolutely-furious#148972 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : oh she sounds like a real treasure...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148757&title=absolutely-furious#148757 Author: miss
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 7:20pm

oh she sounds like a real treasure - good for you to be out of that environment!]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 19:20:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148757&title=absolutely-furious#148757 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : hahah i wanted to sooo bad but...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148751&title=absolutely-furious#148751 Author: chonni
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 7:00pm

hahah i wanted to sooo bad but i couldint shes sleeping with the boss lol. and evry weekend after she workd at her other job the strip club she would come bak to work and tell me that she saw my ex with other girls just to piss me off and tell me how pritty they are thank god i dont work that much anymre i dnt have to see her]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 19:00:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148751&title=absolutely-furious#148751 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : Oh Chonni - how did you not hit...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148739&title=absolutely-furious#148739 Author: miss
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 6:47pm

Oh Chonni - how did you not hit her?

You want to see preggy hormones? i would give her a close up with my fist!]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 18:47:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148739&title=absolutely-furious#148739 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : yeah some people are really rude...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148686&title=absolutely-furious#148686 Author: chonni
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 5:20pm

yeah some people are really rude aye some girl at my work when she found ot that my partner left me becususe i was pregnant, she told me that i should get rid of it because my baby is unwanted. then later on when she saw me crying she goes up to me and says WAT I TOLD YOU THAT U COULDINT HANDDLE IT DID YOUR BABY DIE OR SOMETHING. i fould that to be very very rude ]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 17:20:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148686&title=absolutely-furious#148686 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : He he he talk about the ring of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148673&title=absolutely-furious#148673 Author: sunnyhoney
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 4:56pm

He he he talk about the ring of fire!!

What a jerk. As if saying what you did could be considered "offensive".

It only says more about him than it does about you Mikaela.]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 16:56:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148673&title=absolutely-furious#148673 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : ooo I would have been livid and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148651&title=absolutely-furious#148651 Author: Kels
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 4:24pm

ooo I would have been livid and prob attacked him then blamed the outburst on his offensive comment  and preggie hormones lol.

Oooo next time hit with the vaginas, cracked boobs, haemorroids etc...hehe he wont know whats hit him 

]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 16:24:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148651&title=absolutely-furious#148651 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : What do you mean your rip and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148630&title=absolutely-furious#148630 Author: emz
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 3:47pm

What do you mean your rip and poo during labour?!

I thought you went to sleep and out popped the baby, and you went straight back to your pre-preggy weight?! Your telling me that's not true?

Hehe, I have a friend that hates 'placenta', so I try to chuck that in just to wind her up every once in a while.

I can understand how you felt so peed off - I would have socked him one (and then you just blame it on the hormones - gotta be good for something!)]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 15:47:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148630&title=absolutely-furious#148630 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : What a creep!! I hope that some...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148623&title=absolutely-furious#148623 Author: kabe
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 3:28pm

What a creep!! I hope that some of the other woman in the room gave him an earful once you left. I'm sure they were as shocked as you. Not sure how he can interpret that as 'disgusting talk'. He's obviously led quite a sheltered life!!]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 15:28:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148623&title=absolutely-furious#148623 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : meow wrote:He could have said...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148615&title=absolutely-furious#148615 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 3:15pm

Originally posted by meow meow wrote:

He could have said it a bit nicer than he did.. but my DP is more squemish than a girl and I can imagine him saying something like that.. although he'd make a joke out of it.


haha That's suprising considering the amount of conversations I have had with him about poos! hehehe]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 15:15:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148615&title=absolutely-furious#148615 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : he sounds like a real loser Mikaela!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148614&title=absolutely-furious#148614 Author: justme
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 3:15pm

he sounds like a real loser Mikaela! What you said sounded quite normal - not sure how he could have found it off putting - maybe he shouldn't have been listening to "your conversation" - he obviously wasn't part of it - idiot!!]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 15:15:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148614&title=absolutely-furious#148614 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : He could have said it a bit nicer...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148593&title=absolutely-furious#148593 Author: meow
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 3:01pm

He could have said it a bit nicer than he did.. but my DP is more squemish than a girl and I can imagine him saying something like that.. although he'd make a joke out of it.]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 15:01:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148593&title=absolutely-furious#148593 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : gez! i bet hes single with no...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148585&title=absolutely-furious#148585 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 2:55pm

gez! i bet hes single with no plans for kids!!! if hes not single then his partner should run a mile!! cos what an arse!!!!! definately wait till hes eating something like a yoghurt!! maybe chocolate or strawberry flavoured and then mention all the graphic vagina details and poohing and bleeding!!! LMAO!!]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 14:55:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148585&title=absolutely-furious#148585 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : SimSam wrote:Actually if this...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148567&title=absolutely-furious#148567 Author: Mikaela
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 2:41pm

Originally posted by SimSam SimSam wrote:

Actually if this occured in the workplace - you are entitled to make a complaint. I would seriously speak to your manager or your HR manager about it. Its not good enough to just let someone get away with comments like that - even if the guys is a prick!



He is a prick, but unless he does it again I'll let it lie.

Also, I'm not sure how I would word a complaint about this. He said something I found offensive, but apparently it was caused by me saying something he found offensive. Wouldn't I just look like a hormonal pregnant twit if I made a complaint? ]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 14:41:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148567&title=absolutely-furious#148567 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : Actually if this occured in the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148550&title=absolutely-furious#148550 Author: MummyFreckle
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 2:28pm

Actually if this occured in the workplace - you are entitled to make a complaint. I would seriously speak to your manager or your HR manager about it. Its not good enough to just let someone get away with comments like that - even if the guys is a prick!

]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 14:28:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148550&title=absolutely-furious#148550 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : I think you should piss him off...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148543&title=absolutely-furious#148543 Author: bookwyrm
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 2:20pm

I think you should piss him off even more with it. If he doesnt like it, he can move to the corner of the room.]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 14:20:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148543&title=absolutely-furious#148543 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : that was kinda rude really. but...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148540&title=absolutely-furious#148540 Author: MyMinis
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 2:19pm

that was kinda rude really.
but i guess some people are liek that and dont find the miracle of pregnancy etc very fascinating.
lol at tlaking about tearing etc i bet he'd be really put off by his lunch then ]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 14:19:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148540&title=absolutely-furious#148540 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : hehe thats the spirit!!i cant...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148524&title=absolutely-furious#148524 Author: tashzmum
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 2:02pm

hehe thats the spirit!!i cant believe what comes out of the mouths of some males!!!]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 14:02:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148524&title=absolutely-furious#148524 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : Oh, like boys conversations are...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148523&title=absolutely-furious#148523 Author: miss
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 2:02pm

Oh, like boys conversations are appropriate for lunchtimes! You have every right to be mad, I would so have given him the tough word over that stupid statement!]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 14:02:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148523&title=absolutely-furious#148523 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : Anna wrote:I&#039;m with Paws,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148521&title=absolutely-furious#148521 Author: Mikaela
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 1:59pm

Originally posted by Anna Anna wrote:

I'm with Paws, next time you see him try and throw vaginas into the conversation!


I thought I might mention something about pooing during delivery? Or tearing right around to your bottom? I'll wait until he has a mouthful as well ]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 13:59:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148521&title=absolutely-furious#148521 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : That is disgusting! It amazes...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148514&title=absolutely-furious#148514 Author: Anna
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 1:54pm

That is disgusting! It amazes me how some people can be so wrapped up in their own little world!

I'm with Paws, next time you see him try and throw vaginas into the conversation!]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 13:54:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148514&title=absolutely-furious#148514 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : ellabellame wrote:my ex&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148508&title=absolutely-furious#148508 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 1:49pm

Originally posted by ellabellame ellabellame wrote:

my ex's best friend who made me feel absolutely awful for breastfeeding, saying it made him sick and that breasts are for guys to touch and to have a baby sucking on them was obsene(sp?) and disgusting.


He freaking what?!?! Bet he's just bloody glad he didn't meet me. I'd have nailed him to the wall.

I went absolutely ballistic at a guy who lived with a whole lot of my friends when I was giving Hannah some no-nappy time and he suggested I put a nappy back on her as it was making him feel uncomfortable. He may have been entitled to feeling uncomfortable, but I felt utter disgust that he was even considering my child's nakedness something to be uncomfortable about.

Oops... sorry for threadjack.

Edited by nikkiwhyte]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 13:49:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148508&title=absolutely-furious#148508 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : omg thats shocking!!!i too would...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148503&title=absolutely-furious#148503 Author: tashzmum
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 1:46pm

omg thats shocking!!!i too would start throwing birthing terms around too....
how could he say something like that. what a prick.

and the breast thing...i though the main reason why woman had breasts were to feed their children?!?!!??!!!

males aye*shakes head*]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 13:46:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148503&title=absolutely-furious#148503 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : what an insensitive prick! how...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148495&title=absolutely-furious#148495 Author: ellabellame
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 1:41pm

what an insensitive prick! how dare he say that to you! reading that made me start fuming because it reminded me of my ex's best friend who made me feel absolutely awful for breastfeeding, saying it made him sick and that breasts are for guys to touch and to have a baby sucking on them was obsene(sp?) and disgusting.
some guys just have no clue and need to grow up!

personally i think an unborn child is a wonderful mystery, certainly nothing that should offend anyone!]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 13:41:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148495&title=absolutely-furious#148495 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : What an absolute w*nker!! You...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148493&title=absolutely-furious#148493 Author: Paws
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 1:41pm

What an absolute w*nker!!

You next time you end up with him sitting near you i'd be tempted to throw around a few terms like "episotomy" and "birth canal". (yes I do know I have an evil streak) ]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 13:41:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148493&title=absolutely-furious#148493 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : What a dick. Very obvious that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148490&title=absolutely-furious#148490 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 1:38pm

What a dick. Very obvious that he doesn't have children!

Don't take it to heart tho... his prob, not yours. And sit with females next time - they get it ]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 13:38:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148490&title=absolutely-furious#148490 <![CDATA[Absolutely furious : Ohhhh I am SO angry!!! I was...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148483&title=absolutely-furious#148483 Author: Mikaela
Subject: 7698
Posted: 21 May 2007 at 1:35pm

Ohhhh I am SO angry!!! I was just sitting at the lunch table with a few others from work, and one of the girls asked me how the baby is today, and I said he's fine and that there was a little knee sticking out earlier but I think he's asleep now.

And one of the guys there said, 'Would you stop that?' to us. And I looked at him in genuine puzzlement and said, 'Stop what?' And he said, 'Talking about that while I'm eating my lunch'. And I just looked at him in bafflement and asked if he found me talking about my unborn child offensive and he said, 'Well obviously'. And I said, 'How is it different from talking about any other child?' and he refused to answer me even though I asked a couple of times and just went back to eating his lunch. So I pretty much stormed off.



F*cking wanker, how dare he try to suggest that my child is something he wouldn't want to hear discussed while eating! I'm so angry I'm actually close to tears! ]]> Mon, 21 May 2007 13:35:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7698&PID=148483&title=absolutely-furious#148483