https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 01 May 2026 15:31:58 +0000 Sun, 06 May 2007 09:10:03 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=7269 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140922&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140922 Author: emmaohara
Subject: 7269
Posted: 06 May 2007 at 9:10am

Feeling a little more "with it" today, no crazy non stop crying, had bleeding and cramping all night so I'm 100% positive but its starting to be bearable , if you get me, think I can handle this. It helps when I have an active one year old wanting cuddles.

Just scared about the next step now, as I haven't passed any "clots" just blood. Kind of want it all finished pysically which will help me "move on", what can I expect, I don't really feel up to ringing midwife back today would be good to hear what she might say so I can be prepared and not started blubbing on her again ]]> Sun, 06 May 2007 09:10:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140922&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140922 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140920&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140920 Author: my2angels
Subject: 7269
Posted: 06 May 2007 at 9:02am

big hugs
I remember being told i had to wait a week for another scan but i rang and go the hcg blood results the next day and it had started going down and I wish I hadnt of found that out because i still had almost a week till my next scan but I still held on to the possibility that one baby might have survived.
Its such a horrible waiting game isnt it. Will be thinking of you!]]> Sun, 06 May 2007 09:02:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140920&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140920 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140786&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140786 Author: Maya
Subject: 7269
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 7:47pm

More hugs I was exactly the same. I started cramping and bleeding really heavily so I *knew* it was over, but at the same time....
Thinking of you and your wee one.]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 19:47:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140786&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140786 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140767&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140767 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 7269
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 6:44pm

big hugs last year when i had a MC i was ever so hopeful the whole way through until i got the very last bloods saying that they were back to 0, i guess i hoped that they would maraculously have risen up and the heavy bleeding meant nothing. It totally sucks!!! and i hope you start to feel a little better as time goes on.]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 18:44:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140767&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140767 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140737&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140737 Author: emmaohara
Subject: 7269
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 4:55pm

Thanks ladies, today has been the longest day ever can't believe I have tomorrow to go through too.

Its been slowly sinking in today trying to prepare myself, the bleeding has got heavier and heavier so I know I just don't want to know.

Still hoping though I must be crazy just my way of coping I think until I get the news in black and white ]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 16:55:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140737&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140737 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140616&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140616 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 7269
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 12:14pm

I was the same, but we had no bleeding beforehand to tell us things were wrong, just went to see our baby on the scan to find no heartbeat... and waited a week hoping it was just a fluke cos our baby was the right size, and well formed and all that. however, in that week i just really lost all hope. Sometimes i think you just know and the first thing you do with this sort of thing is think .. "maybe, hopefully, what if?", feel sad, cry and grieve if you want to - holding out all hope sometimes isn't the best idea. If everything looks up on monday then what a great great surprise that will be for you.

are you certain of your dates? completely and utterly? cos there's always room for error with that sort of thing.

will be thinking of you over the weekend.
hugs to you]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 12:14:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140616&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140616 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140599&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140599 Author: Maya
Subject: 7269
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 11:40am

Sending you the biggest hugs Emma I'm sorry that things are not looking good. I can still remember the agony of waiting and hoping, and I'm sorry that you have to go thru that too. I will be keeping you and your wee bub in my prayers over the weekend, and hoping that things look up for you on Monday, but you know whatever the results are we are all here for you.]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 11:40:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140599&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140599 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140593&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140593 Author: caraMel
Subject: 7269
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 11:19am

Sending you lots of positive thoughts and prayers.]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 11:19:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140593&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140593 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140570&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140570 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 7269
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 9:36am

theres nothing wrong with holding on to the hope ... so long as you prepare yourself for both possible outcomes as much as you can thats all you can do. ]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 09:36:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140570&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140570 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140568&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140568 Author: SMoody
Subject: 7269
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 9:24am

I am so sorry honey. I say dont give up hope until you hear otherwise. Prepare youself that it might not be positive news but dont give up hope at all. (if you pray then pray if you chant then chant.)

I have several friends that this same thing happened too and it came down too the ovulated a bit late and actually concieved later than they thought. (sperm can stay in the body for quite a long time so even if you didnt have sex for a few days conception can take place.)

I really hope you get some postive news back on Monday. ]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 09:24:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140568&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140568 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140544&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140544 Author: arohanui
Subject: 7269
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 8:12am

I don't have any experience with this, but I just wanted to say I'm really so sorry you're having to go through this. I can only imagine how hard it is ]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 08:12:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140544&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140544 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140534&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140534 Author: emmaohara
Subject: 7269
Posted: 05 May 2007 at 6:28am

I started bleeding yesterday ended up at the hospital, the scan shows a tiny 5 week old not a 8 week old as I am, the blood tests showed the same.

My midwife same we can not be concluive until we have more blood on Monday to see if the hormone level has fallen although she can see the hormone and scan results are not positive.

It hurts so much I can hardly breathe at the moment , I went to bed crying and woke up at 5 crying, Its seems so unreal, I know baby is dead but theres this slither of hope that maybe the bloods will come back differently on Monday and its all been a big mistake.

I know i'm stupid for doing this to myself and should just face it know but I can't. I rang my mum and she was in tears and I thought I need you to be strong for me but she couldn't.

Should I face it now or hold onto the fact that Monday could change things for the better? ]]> Sat, 05 May 2007 06:28:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7269&PID=140534&title=to-hope-or-not-to-hope#140534