OHbaby! Forums : no baby for me https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 10:27:47 +0000 Mon, 30 Apr 2007 22:17:38 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=7024 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[no baby for me : That&#039;s good to hear Em ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=138240&title=no-baby-for-me#138240 Author: busymum
Subject: 7024
Posted: 30 April 2007 at 10:17pm

That's good to hear Em ]]> Mon, 30 Apr 2007 22:17:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=138240&title=no-baby-for-me#138240 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Hey everyone, I had my D&C/ERPOC...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=138234&title=no-baby-for-me#138234 Author: emachan
Subject: 7024
Posted: 30 April 2007 at 10:08pm

Hey everyone,
I had my D&C/ERPOC on Friday - felt ok after it and had a very cruisey weekend, DH and my younger brother who is living with us made me put my feet up for the whole weekend - very hard for me as I am used to going 100% all the time!
Had some really sore stomach pains *not cramps* today so took another day off work. Hope to return tomorrow if the pain subsides.
Thank you to all of your kind thoughts once again - you definately know how to make someone feel good! Its really nice to know people who you don't even know, care!

em*]]> Mon, 30 Apr 2007 22:08:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=138234&title=no-baby-for-me#138234 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Hey there just read your post...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=137299&title=no-baby-for-me#137299 Author: nictoddie
Subject: 7024
Posted: 29 April 2007 at 11:53am

Hey there just read your post on little t, big hugs to you , I had a m/c in Feb so know how you are feeling, hope to hear some good news from you in the coming months.]]> Sun, 29 Apr 2007 11:53:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=137299&title=no-baby-for-me#137299 <![CDATA[no baby for me : I don&#039;t know how I missed...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=137156&title=no-baby-for-me#137156 Author: Maya
Subject: 7024
Posted: 28 April 2007 at 9:23pm

I don't know how I missed this...

Big hugs Emachan, I am sorry to hear of the loss of your precious wee bub. Thinking of you,and if there's anything I can do just ask.]]> Sat, 28 Apr 2007 21:23:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=137156&title=no-baby-for-me#137156 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Aw! So sorry to hear your news....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136564&title=no-baby-for-me#136564 Author: AN E
Subject: 7024
Posted: 27 April 2007 at 12:15pm

Aw! So sorry to hear your news. Sending you big hugs over the net.

We will hopefully see you back here soon]]> Fri, 27 Apr 2007 12:15:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136564&title=no-baby-for-me#136564 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Not at all (judging)! Sometimes...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136548&title=no-baby-for-me#136548 Author: busymum
Subject: 7024
Posted: 27 April 2007 at 11:42am

Not at all (judging)! Sometimes you'll just never know and a lot of the time a m/c has nothing to do with how careful etc you were.]]> Fri, 27 Apr 2007 11:42:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136548&title=no-baby-for-me#136548 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Huge hugs for you!!! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136493&title=no-baby-for-me#136493 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 7024
Posted: 27 April 2007 at 9:41am

Huge hugs for you!!! ]]> Fri, 27 Apr 2007 09:41:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136493&title=no-baby-for-me#136493 <![CDATA[no baby for me : So sorry to hear of your loss ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136427&title=no-baby-for-me#136427 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 7024
Posted: 27 April 2007 at 7:58am

So sorry to hear of your loss ]]> Fri, 27 Apr 2007 07:58:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136427&title=no-baby-for-me#136427 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Big Hugs to you both. All the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136396&title=no-baby-for-me#136396 Author: MyMinis
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 10:01pm

Big Hugs to you both.
All the best and hope to see you back in here soon.
Your right you are still young.]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 22:01:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136396&title=no-baby-for-me#136396 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Sorry to hear your news ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136390&title=no-baby-for-me#136390 Author: Carmel
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 9:51pm

Sorry to hear your news ]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 21:51:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136390&title=no-baby-for-me#136390 <![CDATA[no baby for me : so sorry to hear your news! big...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136380&title=no-baby-for-me#136380 Author: noodle
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 9:28pm

so sorry to hear your news! big coming your way!!! ]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 21:28:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136380&title=no-baby-for-me#136380 <![CDATA[no baby for me : I&#039;m so sorry to hear of your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136369&title=no-baby-for-me#136369 Author: Kels
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 8:57pm

I'm so sorry to hear of your news big hugs to you and your family]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 20:57:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136369&title=no-baby-for-me#136369 <![CDATA[no baby for me : My thoughts are with you both....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136313&title=no-baby-for-me#136313 Author: MummyFreckle
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 6:22pm

My thoughts are with you both.  Hang in there - you will be back in here in no time at all!

]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 18:22:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136313&title=no-baby-for-me#136313 <![CDATA[no baby for me : So sorry to hear your news Emachan....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136272&title=no-baby-for-me#136272 Author: Leish
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 5:10pm

So sorry to hear your news Emachan. Big hugs ]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 17:10:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136272&title=no-baby-for-me#136272 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Hugs Emachan, my thoughts are...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136270&title=no-baby-for-me#136270 Author: miss
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 5:08pm

Hugs Emachan, my thoughts are with you in this difficult time. Fingers crossed we see you back really soon.]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 17:08:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136270&title=no-baby-for-me#136270 <![CDATA[no baby for me : thanks for all of your kind thoughts!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136266&title=no-baby-for-me#136266 Author: emachan
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 5:02pm

thanks for all of your kind thoughts! I thought that people might judge me, but when I texted all the friends that I had told about our pregnancy, everyone (and I mean everyone!) have texted me back sending us their best wishes.
Its very touching to know so many people do care out there! Thank you so much.]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 17:02:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136266&title=no-baby-for-me#136266 <![CDATA[no baby for me : I&#039;m sorry to hear this news...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136254&title=no-baby-for-me#136254 Author: Freesia
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 4:53pm

I'm sorry to hear this news too Emachan. My thoughts are with you ]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 16:53:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136254&title=no-baby-for-me#136254 <![CDATA[no baby for me : So sorry to hear that you&#039;ve...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136253&title=no-baby-for-me#136253 Author: .Mel
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 4:51pm

So sorry to hear that you've received such sad news. Take care of you!]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 16:51:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136253&title=no-baby-for-me#136253 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Sorry to hear of your loss emachan....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136244&title=no-baby-for-me#136244 Author: mamanee
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 4:45pm

Sorry to hear of your loss emachan. Sometimes I see your nickname and mistake it for mine. Bug hugs and good luck for the coming months. ]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 16:45:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136244&title=no-baby-for-me#136244 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Sorry to hear of your loss. ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136242&title=no-baby-for-me#136242 Author: newmum
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 4:41pm

Sorry to hear of your loss. ]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 16:41:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136242&title=no-baby-for-me#136242 <![CDATA[no baby for me : oh hun!! i&#039;m so sorry to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136228&title=no-baby-for-me#136228 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 4:25pm

oh hun!! i'm so sorry to hear your news
all the best for the upcoming months ]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 16:25:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136228&title=no-baby-for-me#136228 <![CDATA[no baby for me : big hugs Emachan! sorry to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136220&title=no-baby-for-me#136220 Author: lizzle
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 4:11pm

big hugs Emachan! sorry to hear of your loss]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 16:11:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136220&title=no-baby-for-me#136220 <![CDATA[no baby for me : I&#039;m really sorry I can...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136196&title=no-baby-for-me#136196 Author: arohanui
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 3:37pm

I'm really sorry I can only imagine how hard it must be for you at the moment.

All the best with TTC again when you are ready. ]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 15:37:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136196&title=no-baby-for-me#136196 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Big hugs to you, I am so sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136177&title=no-baby-for-me#136177 Author: peachy
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 3:18pm

Big hugs to you, I am so sorry to hear your news. Best wishes for ttc over the next few months.]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 15:18:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136177&title=no-baby-for-me#136177 <![CDATA[no baby for me : So sorry Emachan, I&#039;m thinking...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136163&title=no-baby-for-me#136163 Author: caraMel
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 2:48pm

So sorry Emachan, I'm thinking of you and sending love and prayers your way.]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 14:48:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136163&title=no-baby-for-me#136163 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Awww Emachan that&#039;s so sad...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136157&title=no-baby-for-me#136157 Author: busymum
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 2:41pm

Awww Emachan that's so sad When I had my m/c last year it helped me to know that an estimated 25% of pgs end in m/c - which is very sad, but it reassured me that it wasn't necessarily anything I had done, but actually a far more common occurrence than I had realised. Even so, it's a very sad time to go through and you may always wonder "why" and "what if". Big hugs! And if you have any questions, feel free to ask us - there's quite a lot of us on here who have had m/cs now.]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 14:41:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136157&title=no-baby-for-me#136157 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Thats so so sad. Big hugs to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136155&title=no-baby-for-me#136155 Author: hailstones
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 2:37pm

Thats so so sad. Big hugs to you and your family]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 14:37:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136155&title=no-baby-for-me#136155 <![CDATA[no baby for me : oh emachan - i had everything...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136148&title=no-baby-for-me#136148 Author: callalily
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 2:32pm

oh emachan - i had everything crossed for you - i am so sorry this had happened. You seem to have a very healthy and positive attitude, and i take my hat off to you.

all the best chickie, and if there is anything we can do, just ask.....]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 14:32:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136148&title=no-baby-for-me#136148 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Oh That is so so sad. I feel so...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136140&title=no-baby-for-me#136140 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 2:17pm

Oh That is so so sad. I feel so sad for you because i know what you are going through. Am still going through it myself waiting for the D&C after having our first bad scan 2 weeks ago.

I am so very very very sorry chick.]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 14:17:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136140&title=no-baby-for-me#136140 <![CDATA[no baby for me : oh sweetheart, I am so sorry to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136139&title=no-baby-for-me#136139 Author: Spudling
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 2:12pm

oh sweetheart, I am so sorry to read your news, my thoughts are with you.

It's nice to read you are trying to be so positive and strong, just don't forget to grieve, you & your DP don't have to be strong during times like this, thats what your friends are for]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 14:12:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136139&title=no-baby-for-me#136139 <![CDATA[no baby for me : I&#039;m so sorry to hear of your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136137&title=no-baby-for-me#136137 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 2:07pm

I'm so sorry to hear of your news big hugs to you and your family.]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 14:07:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136137&title=no-baby-for-me#136137 <![CDATA[no baby for me : I am so sorry to hear of your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136135&title=no-baby-for-me#136135 Author: Millie1976
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 2:01pm

I am so sorry to hear of your loss I hope to hear good news from you in the next coming months.]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 14:01:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136135&title=no-baby-for-me#136135 <![CDATA[no baby for me : I am so, so sorry. Big for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136134&title=no-baby-for-me#136134 Author: nuttymama
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 2:00pm

I am so, so sorry. Big for you.]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 14:00:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136134&title=no-baby-for-me#136134 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Oh emachan, that is terrible news....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136126&title=no-baby-for-me#136126 Author: Bel
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 1:48pm

Oh emachan, that is terrible news. I am sending thoughts your way. Hope to catch up with you in a few months with some better news!
]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 13:48:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136126&title=no-baby-for-me#136126 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Awwww, sorry it wasn&#039;t good...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136123&title=no-baby-for-me#136123 Author: kebakat
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 1:46pm

Awwww, sorry it wasn't good news for you! But good on you for keeping a positive attitude, it must be hard at the moment! ]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 13:46:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136123&title=no-baby-for-me#136123 <![CDATA[no baby for me : big big ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136120&title=no-baby-for-me#136120 Author: ellabellame
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 1:44pm

big big ]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 13:44:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136120&title=no-baby-for-me#136120 <![CDATA[no baby for me : Hey all, I went for my 12 week...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136119&title=no-baby-for-me#136119 Author: emachan
Subject: 7024
Posted: 26 April 2007 at 1:41pm

Hey all, I went for my 12 week scan today - I was prepared for bad news as I began off and on bleeding on Monday night - nothing too heavy, but with clots and cramping which worried me.

My m/w suggested me on Monday night to wait til today's scan (as it was already booked) and when I had it my fears were confirmed - there was no heartbeat and the baby had only grown to the length it should have been at 8w2d, and I should've been 12 weeks yest.

I still felt (feel) pregnant, just had not much m/s over the past few weeks which I thought was a blessing!

I am glad that I had gone in to the u/s knowing that if there was a heartbeat it would've been a miracle - I had given myself the last 3 days to get used to knowing that it had a high chance of bad news. When the sonographer measured the baby and saw no heartbeat it just confirmed what I already knew and felt inside.

The only thing I am annoyed with is, it hasn't been growing or have a heartbeat for almost a month! That's so unfair! How could I have got to 12 weeks and this happen!!

We are looking on the positive side though - we know we can conceive, I'm still young (26years) and I live a very healthy and active lifestyle. I didn't do anything wrong - did everything by the book and this still happened.

Big hugs to everyone who gave me positive thoughts before my scan and hopefully I will re-join you in a couple of months!

Edited by emachan]]> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 13:41:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=7024&PID=136119&title=no-baby-for-me#136119