OHbaby! Forums : Who felt like this? https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 11:51:38 +0000 Fri, 20 Apr 2007 06:28:11 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=6861 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : well as soon as my af was 1 day...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133259&title=who-felt-like-this#133259 Author: MyMinis
Subject: 6861
Posted: 20 April 2007 at 6:28am

well as soon as my af was 1 day late i was on the phone to my parents sying i think i might be pregs, with haleigh they were so excited, this one took them a while to get used to the idea but they happy, i bet if we go for a 3rd they might flip their lid a little lol.
Nathan and I have only been together fro 3yrs but we were engaged so at elast my grandparents didnt react as badly as I thought htey would, as they always used to say get married first, but i guess our kids will be at our wedding which will be jsut as special to us.]]> Fri, 20 Apr 2007 06:28:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133259&title=who-felt-like-this#133259 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : to be honest I never really thought...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133240&title=who-felt-like-this#133240 Author: NovemberMum
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 10:43pm

to be honest I never really thought about it.

I mean my husband and I have been together for 9 years (married for almost 2 and a half) I am pretty sure our parents know we have sex (well they do now..pmsl)

Edited by MeganGrace]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 22:43:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133240&title=who-felt-like-this#133240 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : It does get better with time....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133096&title=who-felt-like-this#133096 Author: Bumble
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 5:56pm

It does get better with time. Although, once you have the tum to show... It all on again because you feel like you are telling the world "Hey I had SEX!!!"
Gosh, my Mum was 19 when she started! No reason for the parents to be ashamed/disapointed.]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 17:56:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133096&title=who-felt-like-this#133096 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : Im glad im not the only one!!!!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133092&title=who-felt-like-this#133092 Author: BellaBoo
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 5:43pm

Im glad im not the only one!!!! you hit the nail on the head Bee. It felt weird that they now know I have sex! Im sure the strange and uncomfortable feeling gets better with time. To those mums who are a bit younger- there is no reason why people should be dissappointed as the birth and years after are an accomplishment in themselves! anyway, in our parents day it was normal to have kids young so why should it not be accepted now. Congrats on finding out your having a girl babyonboard. I really want a girl, partner wants a boy-typical.

Edited by Topsy]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 17:43:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133092&title=who-felt-like-this#133092 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : Its so weird.. I mean, here we...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133088&title=who-felt-like-this#133088 Author: Bumble
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 5:34pm

Its so weird.. I mean, here we are, all adults, but a bit freaked out about telling them... I suppose because then you are really telling you parents " I have something to tell you, my DH/DP/DF and I HAVE SEX!!! and LOTS of it!!!!" lol

Edited by Bee]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 17:34:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133088&title=who-felt-like-this#133088 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : Everything went ok with our &#034;telling...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133078&title=who-felt-like-this#133078 Author: sunnyhoney
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 5:17pm

Everything went ok with our "telling the parents". It wasn't until MIL started doing the sex math thing that I got creeped out!]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 17:17:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133078&title=who-felt-like-this#133078 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : ha ha, same, and we had been together...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133041&title=who-felt-like-this#133041 Author: Spudling
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 4:10pm

ha ha, same, and we had been together for 16 years, married for 8 and were 32 & 35!
2nd baby I felt just the same again, how silly are we!!!! ]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 16:10:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133041&title=who-felt-like-this#133041 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : When we went to tell my parents,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133030&title=who-felt-like-this#133030 Author: .Mel
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 3:58pm

When we went to tell my parents, I said something along the lines of "we have something to tell you" and mum blurted our "your pregnant" and yes we felt so out of sorts before we told them, and I think mum picked up on it.
I let hubbie tell his parents, as I really couldn't be bothered he told them not to tell anyone until I'd had my scan, and the silly tart called everyone the next day ... (no i don't like my outlaws ]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 15:58:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133030&title=who-felt-like-this#133030 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : Well I&#039;m 18 and pregnant....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133016&title=who-felt-like-this#133016 Author: BabyOnBoard
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 3:42pm

Well I'm 18 and pregnant. Everyone was shocked and disappointed. Both mothers took it in stride but not the fathers (especially mine). But excitement is setting in and DF and I are proving we can be capable parents, and I have planned to the T. My babies going to be a girl!]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 15:42:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=133016&title=who-felt-like-this#133016 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : Yup definatley felt like that!!!! I&#039;m...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132953&title=who-felt-like-this#132953 Author: kebakat
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 1:35pm

Yup definatley felt like that!!!!

I'm 22 and DH is 28 but none of the parents expected it from us lol]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 13:35:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132953&title=who-felt-like-this#132953 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : Yip!! DH & I were only 19 when...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132906&title=who-felt-like-this#132906 Author: jamesmum
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 11:34am

Yip!! DH & I were only 19 when I get pregnant with James. We were quite worried about how our parents would react, I even went to Aussie with my mum, dad and sister for a holiday for 10 days at 2months pregnant without them knowing. I told my mum first when I was 3months and she was really happy, but disapointed I didn't tell her earlier, she even said "imagine all the presents I would have brought you in aussie". So although our parents were shocked at the news they took it really well and were really excited at getting there first grandson. Now all they ask is when we are having another baby! ]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 11:34:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132906&title=who-felt-like-this#132906 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : i hated telling people, i just...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132888&title=who-felt-like-this#132888 Author: MelanieAndBree
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 11:13am

i hated telling people, i just felt weird. Especially cause im only 20 and i just thought everyone would be shocked and disappointed as i still hadnt decided what the hell im doing with my life lol.

Everyone was sooo supportive though i was shocked. And i guess they also felt sorry for me seeing as Alex decided he wanted nothing to do with me or the baby.

I guess in a way i sort of felt like a naughty teenager. lol. I practically was/am a teenager anyway hehe.]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 11:13:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132888&title=who-felt-like-this#132888 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : YUP!! mine and DHs family were...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132850&title=who-felt-like-this#132850 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 10:21am

YUP!! mine and DHs family were actually more supprised by the anouncement of this bubs than they were with the anouncement of Bay!!! they were slightly disapointed (well DH family and my sis were) when i got preg with Bay because DH and i were still so young (20) but now 4 yrs on and we are married, been together for 7 yrs!!, financially sedure blah blah and one child later and they were supprised that Astin was planned!!! BUT they were all very very happy!! even my sis and inlaws were soooo happy!! MIL was especially happy the other day to find out that Astin is a boy not sure why but ah well ]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 10:21:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132850&title=who-felt-like-this#132850 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : Um yes, we were both 21 when I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132848&title=who-felt-like-this#132848 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 10:20am

Um yes, we were both 21 when I got pregnant. We told my mum first (my dad was away) and she was shocked and exciting at the same time as she knew I would always have difficuties getting pregnant when I chose to try. DH's parents were really upset (You could really say pi$$ed), we weren't married and his brother had recently got married so was meant to be the one to have children first. DH's father was like "you aren't married and what if she leaves you, there goes your baby" I was not happy with that comment. We proved him wrong didn't we . Bu once Andrew was here they soon got over anything they had in there head.

]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 10:20:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132848&title=who-felt-like-this#132848 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : YUP!! mine and DHs family were...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132843&title=who-felt-like-this#132843 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 10:16am

YUP!! mine and DHs family were actually more supprised by the anouncement of this bubs than they were with the anouncement of Bay!!! they were slightly disapointed (well DH family and my sis were) when i got preg with Bay because DH and i were still so young (20) but now 4 yrs on and we are married, been together for 7 yrs!!, financially sedure blah blah and one child later and they were supprised that Astin was planned!!! BUT they were all very very happy!! even my sis and inlaws were soooo happy!! MIL was especially happy the other day to find out that Astin is a boy not sure why but ah well ]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 10:16:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132843&title=who-felt-like-this#132843 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : Absolutely! Maya was a big surprise...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132791&title=who-felt-like-this#132791 Author: Maya
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 9:50am

Absolutely! Maya was a big surprise to all concerned, but the gremlins were well planned. I had a m/c shortly before I got preg with them so I don't know WHY Mum and Dad were so surprised?]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 09:50:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132791&title=who-felt-like-this#132791 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : Have pm&#039;d you busymum! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132783&title=who-felt-like-this#132783 Author: peachy
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 9:40am

Have pm'd you busymum!]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 09:40:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132783&title=who-felt-like-this#132783 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : Peachy, did you conceive one week...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132768&title=who-felt-like-this#132768 Author: busymum
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 9:23am

Peachy, did you conceive one week before the wedding or was that your LMP date? Because if it was your LMP date, the first two weeks of your pregnancy are actually only "placeholder" dates and you would have conceived one week after the wedding.... if that makes sense lol

When we announced our first pg, both sets of parents were excited (the first grandchild on both sides too). We had been married for two months and my parents suspected we would get pg early. DH's parents on the other hand wanted us to wait 5 years (they waited about 2) so I think they were kinda shocked and maybe a bit alarmed that we would be "just like my parents" or something (they have a lot of kids and also started right away but that wasn't intended lol). And then FIL turned around and announced they were having more children too - foster ones! That was a bit odd.]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 09:23:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132768&title=who-felt-like-this#132768 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : We felt like that too!!! I was...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132747&title=who-felt-like-this#132747 Author: Bumble
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 8:42am

We felt like that too!!! I was 26 and he 27. His parents were cool about it!! they were all excited! My parents who are seperated (so two phone calls..) and are in Aus...were: Mum"Hang on I've got to pull over and have a cigarrette..." (??!!!!) and Dad was "Oh No!!!" (????????) So once we are pg this time, it will be interesting to see the next reactions.... Will probably be "Why did u wait so long...." or " But Ethan starts school next year, aren't you looking forward to being free of him.."]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 08:42:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132747&title=who-felt-like-this#132747 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : Ummmm yep we definately did and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132743&title=who-felt-like-this#132743 Author: peachy
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 8:36am

Ummmm yep we definately did and we are 28 and 29 and been together for 6 years! Another reason we felt like naughty teenagers was that we had only been married for three weeks and to have to tell them that I was four weeks pregnant! My parents were totally stoked, Dad just about had a heart attack but I know he is bursting with excitement, first grandchild and all. DF's parents were like oh my god, but you drank at the wedding, blah, blah, blah (its not like I had any idea I was pregnant, we had only just come off the pill the week of the wedding for goodness sake)!! I was like gee thanks, as if I don't already feel like a totally bad person enough for "not knowing I was pregnant" and having cried myself to sleep for the past week as I was feeling I had failed my child already. They soon got over it and now keep saying we are so looking forward to this baby!

So yep I definately hear you on that front, but I very soon got over it!

Edited to say, Oops! I said DF above - he would hate me for saying that, I meant DH! I always introduce him as "My partner" he's like I am your husband now - ooops I get so confused sometimes!

Edited by peachy]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 08:36:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132743&title=who-felt-like-this#132743 <![CDATA[Who felt like this? : Well we told our parents last...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132726&title=who-felt-like-this#132726 Author: BellaBoo
Subject: 6861
Posted: 19 April 2007 at 8:17am

Well we told our parents last night. For some reason we felt like naughty teenagers who had got knocked up. We are 25 and 27 but still felt like we had done something wrong, strange!They were happy for us but shocked, and even more shocked to know it was planned! Did anybody else feel like this? ]]> Thu, 19 Apr 2007 08:17:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6861&PID=132726&title=who-felt-like-this#132726