OHbaby! Forums : TarshaA update https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 03 Apr 2026 21:47:55 +0000 Sat, 02 Dec 2006 18:01:43 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=4679 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Tarshaa, As Emma said, there...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90982&title=tarshaa-update#90982 Author: mellybelly
Subject: 4679
Posted: 02 December 2006 at 6:01pm

Tarshaa,
As Emma said, there is nothing we can say that will make it all better, but please know that we are here for support anytime you need it.




Edited by mellybelly]]> Sat, 02 Dec 2006 18:01:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90982&title=tarshaa-update#90982 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : big hugs ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90960&title=tarshaa-update#90960 Author: james
Subject: 4679
Posted: 02 December 2006 at 2:48pm

big hugs ]]> Sat, 02 Dec 2006 14:48:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90960&title=tarshaa-update#90960 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Big hugs Tarsha. I wish tehre...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90817&title=tarshaa-update#90817 Author: Maya
Subject: 4679
Posted: 01 December 2006 at 7:48pm

Big hugs Tarsha. I wish tehre was something I could say but I know from experience there's not. So thinking of you and hoping that tme helps the start of the healing process for you and Dean.]]> Fri, 01 Dec 2006 19:48:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90817&title=tarshaa-update#90817 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Sorry Tarsha to hear of your loss,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90697&title=tarshaa-update#90697 Author: LockieandLiam
Subject: 4679
Posted: 01 December 2006 at 11:07am

Sorry Tarsha to hear of your loss, it certainly can't be an easy thing to go through. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Take care and big hugs]]> Fri, 01 Dec 2006 11:07:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90697&title=tarshaa-update#90697 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : So sorry to hear it! Big Big hugs...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90660&title=tarshaa-update#90660 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 4679
Posted: 01 December 2006 at 8:56am

So sorry to hear it! Big Big hugs from me too ]]> Fri, 01 Dec 2006 08:56:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90660&title=tarshaa-update#90660 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : From me too, I too am very sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90629&title=tarshaa-update#90629 Author: newmum
Subject: 4679
Posted: 01 December 2006 at 7:59am

From me too, I too am very sorry for your loss. Stay strong!]]> Fri, 01 Dec 2006 07:59:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90629&title=tarshaa-update#90629 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Big from me too ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90568&title=tarshaa-update#90568 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:45pm

Big from me too ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 20:45:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90568&title=tarshaa-update#90568 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Thinking of you Tarshaa and sending...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90565&title=tarshaa-update#90565 Author: Leish
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:43pm

Thinking of you Tarshaa and sending you the biggest hugs ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 20:43:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90565&title=tarshaa-update#90565 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Aw tarshaa!!! Lots of hugs and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90512&title=tarshaa-update#90512 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 6:49pm

Aw tarshaa!!! Lots of hugs and thinking of ya ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 18:49:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90512&title=tarshaa-update#90512 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Big hugs Nothing more to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90511&title=tarshaa-update#90511 Author: AnnC
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 6:40pm

Big hugs

Nothing more to say.....Thinking of you all]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 18:40:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90511&title=tarshaa-update#90511 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Tarsha, big hugs I can&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90503&title=tarshaa-update#90503 Author: Lulu
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 6:15pm

Tarsha, big hugs I can't find the right words to give you the comfort that I so want to express, but my thoughts are with you. ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 18:15:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90503&title=tarshaa-update#90503 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Thinking of you Tarshaa. ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90492&title=tarshaa-update#90492 Author: caraMel
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 5:32pm

Thinking of you Tarshaa. ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 17:32:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90492&title=tarshaa-update#90492 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : sorry to hear of your loss Tarshaa....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90456&title=tarshaa-update#90456 Author: lizzle
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 3:50pm

sorry to hear of your loss Tarshaa. i dind't realise you had miscarried. It sounds like you guys have lots of support at home!]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 15:50:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90456&title=tarshaa-update#90456 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Sorry to hear of your loss. ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90449&title=tarshaa-update#90449 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 3:37pm

Sorry to hear of your loss. ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 15:37:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90449&title=tarshaa-update#90449 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : i&#039;m so sorry for your loss...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90445&title=tarshaa-update#90445 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 3:29pm

i'm so sorry for your loss tarsha!!
big ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 15:29:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90445&title=tarshaa-update#90445 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : I hadn&#039;t realised either....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90438&title=tarshaa-update#90438 Author: busymum
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 3:09pm

I hadn't realised either. All I can say is ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 15:09:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90438&title=tarshaa-update#90438 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Im so sorry Tarshaa I hope...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90435&title=tarshaa-update#90435 Author: Guests
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 2:59pm

Im so sorry Tarshaa
I hope you can get some answers for at least peace of mind.]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 14:59:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90435&title=tarshaa-update#90435 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Sorry to hear your very sad news...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90422&title=tarshaa-update#90422 Author: luna
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 2:30pm

Sorry to hear your very sad news - hope you and hubby start to feel better about everything very soon.
Sounds a good idea to give yourselves a 'rest' for a while as it's a very hard time right now. Hope things pick up for you soon. ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 14:30:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90422&title=tarshaa-update#90422 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : So sorry to hear your sad news,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90420&title=tarshaa-update#90420 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 2:21pm

So sorry to hear your sad news, Tarshaa. Big hugs to you xx]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 14:21:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90420&title=tarshaa-update#90420 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Big hugs from us (Zaara and I)...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90419&title=tarshaa-update#90419 Author: Roksana
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 2:19pm

Big hugs from us (Zaara and I) too......

]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 14:19:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90419&title=tarshaa-update#90419 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Oh Tarshaa, I didnt realise you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90407&title=tarshaa-update#90407 Author: my2angels
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 1:32pm

Oh Tarshaa, I didnt realise you had m/c, Im really sorry to hear that. I know how hard it can be, big hugs to you all.]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 13:32:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90407&title=tarshaa-update#90407 <![CDATA[TarshaA update : Thank you all so much for your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4679&PID=90394&title=tarshaa-update#90394 Author: tarshaa
Subject: 4679
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 1:00pm

Thank you all so much for your kind words over the last few days.  It means more to me than I can explain.

I am ok - emotional and a little bitter, but ok.

I had my D&C yesterday, which wasn't as horrible as I expected.  I was under a general so remember nothing, thank God.  They have sent the foetal tissue off for genetic testing, mainly because it was my third loss in such a short time.  They doubt that they will find anything, but I would rather they at least check it.

My house is starting to look like either a florist or a funeral home (depending on my mood), with a lot of wonderful friends sending me flowers, which I never expected.

Dean and I have made the decision (at least for now), that this is jsut too damn hard and we can't keep on TTC.  We have been trying for pretty much 2 years, and had 3 losses.  Emotionally it's just to hard to deal with.  We ar lucky to have a beautiful little girl, and each other, and maybe trying for more is jsut pushing our luck too far.

Thank you so much for your support.  It means more to me than words can say.

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