OHbaby! Forums : OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 03 Apr 2026 21:35:27 +0000 Fri, 01 Dec 2006 09:57:04 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=4670 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : Hi, Im feeling ok today but im...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90674&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90674 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 4670
Posted: 01 December 2006 at 9:57am

Hi,
Im feeling ok today but im keeping my hands out like everyone said!! lol so i have no idea what is going on!! i mean it was soooooooo minute!!! It was just a tiny patch of mucous that had an ever so slight off white kinda browny colour to it! but still didnt stop the worrying!!! hubby said if i hadnt stuck my fingers up there then i would be none the wiser!!! and whos to say that i didnt have that when i was pregnant with my son as i did not know the whole cervix thing then!!.....but still im nervous!!! lol]]> Fri, 01 Dec 2006 09:57:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90674&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90674 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : pmsl Nikki!! So Baysmum, are...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90557&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90557 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:34pm

pmsl Nikki!!

So Baysmum, are you feeling better today?]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 20:34:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90557&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90557 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : good one Nikki! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90554&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90554 Author: my2angels
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:30pm

good one Nikki!]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 20:30:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90554&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90554 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : Angelnz wrote:lol Nikki is...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90552&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90552 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:29pm

Originally posted by Angelnz Angelnz wrote:

lol Nikki is your brain on Uni? Think you mean Trimester


Ahhhhh soooo embarrassed!!!! And yes... I meant trimester. Definitely uni-influenced ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 20:29:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90552&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90552 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : hehe I told hubby that there will...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90538&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90538 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:01pm

hehe I told hubby that there will be no more BDing for a while and hes fine with it as he is a little freaked out about loosing bubs as well ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 20:01:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90538&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90538 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : emma that is funny and DH suffered...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90524&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90524 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 7:27pm

emma that is funny and DH suffered the same fate...i think the whole UTI rush to scan at 7 weeks and A and E visit affected me psychsematically and him well...hes missed out a whole lot as a result lets just say...poor boy! He and Willy should talk...LOL]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 19:27:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90524&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90524 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : Oh Tarsh i know your porbably...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90468&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90468 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 4:27pm

Oh Tarsh i know your porbably really sick of hearing this but im so sorry and i hope you have a brighter 2007. I have PMd you...]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 16:27:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90468&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90468 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : I&#039;m probably the last person...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90391&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90391 Author: tarshaa
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 12:51pm

I'm probably the last person to give advise right now, but if you are at all worried, I would contact your midiwfe or GP and demand an emergency scan.

I went to my GP Tuesday to ask for one simply based on intuition, and on tiny amounts of pink/red spotting in my CM at the end of each day for a week.  I mean really tiny.  When my GP wrote out the form for the scan, she told me she wasn't worried and would make it sound worse than it was just so I could get seen.  I only had the scan for peace of mind.

I got my scan, and as you've probably read by now had the worst news possible, which I really wasn't expecting.  I had a D&C yesterday.

What I've learnt from it, is trust your instincts.  There is most likely absolutely nothing wrong, but if something in your head is screaming out at you to do something, then listen.

Sorry if this comes across as scary or blunt, that truly isn't my intention.  I really doubt there is anything wrong with your baby.  S/he is most likely flipping around in there having a ball of a time! lol

]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 12:51:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90391&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90391 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : Will you be getting another scan...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90381&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90381 Author: busymum
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 12:29pm

Will you be getting another scan at 12 weeks? It may help to have that to look forward to.

All your symptoms are sounding *great* even though I'm sure they don't feel so exciting Just relax and enjoy the pregnancy ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 12:29:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90381&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90381 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : I had mild bleeding at 8 weeks,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90332&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90332 Author: Roksana
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 9:59am

I had mild bleeding at 8 weeks, and then mild bleeding at 10 weeks and a major bleeding at 18 weeks. Every time I thought I was loosing Zaara....but here she is healthy, happy and a very stubborn 1 year old!

Please dont worry!! I am sure all will be well!

I know how you feel right now....ask your midwife to have another scan!! You will feel better after!

Big ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 09:59:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90332&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90332 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : I had brown gunky spotting at...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90322&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90322 Author: Maya
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 9:34am

I had brown gunky spotting at 9 weeks after we BDed (needless to say that was the last action Willie got for a good while!) and freaked out big time and made the midwife do a scan and everything was all good. But I vividly remember how terrified I was even tho it was literally only a few spots of mucousy stuff.

But I second what gsmum said - leave your cervix alone! You probably just irritated it a little bit, but you don't want to risk causing an infection or anything by poking around down there, and all it will do is make you crazy!

]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 09:34:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90322&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90322 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : Hey, sorry you are freaking out....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90296&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90296 Author: KH25
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:40am

Hey, sorry you are freaking out. Easy to do huh??? I can't help you with the cervix thing (as I have no idea!!!) but I had browny pinky discharge for most of my first trimester with a couple of episodes of red blood. I also get this coloured discharge for a few days before my period is due. mw said it was just old blood coming away and some woman have it right through their pregnancy. Easier said than done, I know, but please try and relax, especially if you aren't feeling well (which by the way is a good sign!!) Take care.]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 08:40:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90296&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90296 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : stop playing with your cervix......]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90295&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90295 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:40am

stop playing with your cervix...

there is nothing you can do at the moment so leave it alone. ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 08:40:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90295&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90295 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : Hi All, Thankyou for your replies...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90277&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90277 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:15am

Hi All,
Thankyou for your replies there is no sign of it this morning but in saying that i didnt get that from just whiping (SORRY WAY TO MUCH INFO!!!!)I only got very small bits mixed in with normal mucous when i did cervix check, hubby told me off for doing it because it just makes me more frantic!!! and also i thought my cervix was meant to have rissen really high by now and i dont think it has! its unbeleivably soft but still in reach????
My cramps arnt too bad, with my son i ended up in hospital with them as they were so severe but i only notice these when i sit down and think about it but thats just what im doing!! and making myself go nutts!!!
I feel like total crap thia morning - im comming down with the flu, my son is sick, i have MS and i cant even take my pregnancy vitamins because i keep on bringing them back up!! im not sad about that though because my boobs are sore again also and i was adding to the hysteria last night because my boobs wernt as sore and i didnt feel tired but this morning it is all back with evengence (good i must say )

I had a scan last week and we saw a healthy bubs with a good heartbeat but it only eased the mind for a few days

I have a MW appointment on tuesday too so i could ask then.

Thankyou ladies for the support this is always a good place to come ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 08:15:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90277&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90277 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : Yes I never had cramps until after...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90273&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90273 Author: busymum
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:05am

Yes I never had cramps until after my first bubba so cramps and pinky bleeding is probably still implantation at your stage. Just give your m/w a call, that's what she's for, and then you can rest easy after that ]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 08:05:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90273&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90273 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : Hey, how are you doing this morning?...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90266&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90266 Author: Paws
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 7:54am

Hey, how are you doing this morning?]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 07:54:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90266&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90266 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : I had cramps and then major bleeding...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90259&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90259 Author: lizzle
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 7:26am

I had cramps and then major bleeding (gushing...ick). then five months later had Taine. nothing to worry about, but once again, if it will ease your mind, get it checked.]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 07:26:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90259&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90259 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : ^^^Same as everyone else has said. Try...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90254&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90254 Author: caraMel
Subject: 4670
Posted: 30 November 2006 at 5:40am

^^^Same as everyone else has said.
Try not to freak yourself out, and if you can't help it then make an appt with your gp or midwife just for reassurance sake. (thats what I did)
I had cramps all the way through my first 12 weeks, some quite severe in the first few weeks too, apparently they can be worse in second and subsequent pregnancies as the muscles are 're-stretching'.
All the best!]]> Thu, 30 Nov 2006 05:40:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90254&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90254 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : I had similar and mine was from...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90236&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90236 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 4670
Posted: 29 November 2006 at 10:17pm

I had similar and mine was from a UTI early on...and then antibiotics caused thrush (ugh!) and some small tears as a result so same deal....
Hope yours is nothing too...she says "nothing" now like she didnt stress out over it! ]]> Wed, 29 Nov 2006 22:17:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90236&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90236 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : I second what everyone else has...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90231&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90231 Author: jax
Subject: 4670
Posted: 29 November 2006 at 10:14pm

I second what everyone else has said so far, but I also think that if you were able to reach in and check your cervix it may have been a natural reaction that some of the mucus came away. If it wasn't bright red blood I wouldn't panic, but for peace of mind I would get it checked out. I am still sure that both you and bubs will be fine ]]> Wed, 29 Nov 2006 22:14:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90231&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90231 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : it could be from a lot of things....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90222&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90222 Author: my2angels
Subject: 4670
Posted: 29 November 2006 at 10:05pm

it could be from a lot of things. Lots of people have mild to major bleeding especially during early stages of pregnancy and its all ok. if its only pink then its probably not fresh blood which is bright red if that makes any sense. if your still having cramps or really that worried then ask your midwife to arrange an early scan but try not to stress cos that wont help and Im sure it will be fine. Bleeding during pregnancy does not automatically mean miscarriage, keep that in mind. ]]> Wed, 29 Nov 2006 22:05:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90222&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90222 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : lol Nikki is your brain on Uni?...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90221&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90221 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 4670
Posted: 29 November 2006 at 10:05pm

lol Nikki is your brain on Uni? Think you mean Trimester]]> Wed, 29 Nov 2006 22:05:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90221&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90221 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : Im sure i got spotting around...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90220&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90220 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 4670
Posted: 29 November 2006 at 10:04pm

Im sure i got spotting around that stage in both my pregnancys. I know its easier said then done. But try not to freak out too much and rest up. ]]> Wed, 29 Nov 2006 22:04:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90220&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90220 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : Yep. Lots of other causes. I have...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90219&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90219 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 4670
Posted: 29 November 2006 at 10:04pm

Yep. Lots of other causes. I have no idea about specifics but plenty of women spot during the first semester.

If it is bright red and lots of it (as you probably already know) that's when I'd get really concerned.

Or give midwife a call for reassurance. ]]> Wed, 29 Nov 2006 22:04:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90219&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90219 <![CDATA[OK REALLY FREAKING OUT NOW!!!! : ok so i had been getting very...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90213&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90213 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 4670
Posted: 29 November 2006 at 9:54pm

ok so i had been getting very mild cramps for the last few days so i did a cervix check to make sure my cervix was still closed and there was a small ammount of mucous that was slightly pinky brown tinged!!! and while this doesnt sound bad - it was always the think i got just before AF and my previous MC so now i am fully freaking out!!!!! someone please ease my mind!!....can this blood come from something else at this stage 7.5 weeks????.....]]> Wed, 29 Nov 2006 21:54:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4670&PID=90213&title=ok-really-freaking-out-now#90213