https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 03 Apr 2026 18:46:57 +0000 Thu, 02 Nov 2006 20:50:10 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=4251 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=83413&title=so-sad#83413 Author: Peace
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Posted: 02 November 2006 at 8:50pm

I can most definitely say that I know EXACTLY how you feel. About 3 weeks before Olivia was due a friend of mine lost her baby 1 day before her due date. I was a mess for her and completely paranoid about my own pregnancy. After all my friend was healthier than I was and did all the right things! But we grieve in our own ways for the losses of others and it is so easy to transfer their tradgedy into a fear reality when it comes to situations of our own. You are not selfish otherwise you would not be so concerned about her situation and the health of your child.
I do hope that your friend has lots of support at this time and the sun is shining for you!]]> Thu, 02 Nov 2006 20:50:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=83413&title=so-sad#83413 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82371&title=so-sad#82371 Author: Millie1976
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Posted: 30 October 2006 at 11:13am

I am so sorry to hear of your friend's news - she must be devastated ]]> Mon, 30 Oct 2006 11:13:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82371&title=so-sad#82371 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82224&title=so-sad#82224 Author: jax
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Posted: 29 October 2006 at 3:34pm

I have a lady on my 'friends list' on LiveJournal that gave birth to a baby girl who passed away only seven hours later... and reading some of her entries really brings tears to my eyes !! Those kind of stories are really humbling and make me *so* grateful for my perfect, healthy little girl.]]> Sun, 29 Oct 2006 15:34:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82224&title=so-sad#82224 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82221&title=so-sad#82221 Author: newmum
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Posted: 29 October 2006 at 3:20pm

I feel for you and your friends. When I was pregnant one of my group of preggy mums lost her baby in childbirth. I remember feeling so scared about my (at that time unborn) baby and so terribly sad for her, I still do. I also felt guilty giving birth to such a perfect (in my eyes) baby only 10 days later. ]]> Sun, 29 Oct 2006 15:20:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82221&title=so-sad#82221 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82215&title=so-sad#82215 Author: mummy_becks
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Posted: 29 October 2006 at 2:51pm

I remember that story in the mag as well and I was crying by the end of it.]]> Sun, 29 Oct 2006 14:51:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82215&title=so-sad#82215 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82168&title=so-sad#82168 Author: Deez
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Posted: 29 October 2006 at 9:20am

Oh that's really sad so id just like to say the same as Angelnz

Angelnz wrote: Life bites sometimes..... Im really sorry to hear that. And I hope she has all the love and support she needs.

Edited by Deez]]> Sun, 29 Oct 2006 09:20:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82168&title=so-sad#82168 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82163&title=so-sad#82163 Author: Maya
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Posted: 29 October 2006 at 9:08am

Yep, life bites. I remember reading Emjay's story in the Treasures mag a few months back, so sad. Thinking of your friend and her family.]]> Sun, 29 Oct 2006 09:08:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82163&title=so-sad#82163 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82147&title=so-sad#82147 Author: my2angels
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Posted: 28 October 2006 at 9:59pm

that is sad. makes you realise how lucky you are when you have healthy babies. Makes my decision not to push my luck and try for a third much easier when you hear things like that]]> Sat, 28 Oct 2006 21:59:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82147&title=so-sad#82147 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82142&title=so-sad#82142 Author: AlyAyde
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Posted: 28 October 2006 at 9:43pm

Life bites sometimes..... Im really sorry to hear that. And I hope she has all the love and support she needs. ]]> Sat, 28 Oct 2006 21:43:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82142&title=so-sad#82142 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82139&title=so-sad#82139 Author: busymum
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Posted: 28 October 2006 at 9:38pm

That IS really sad. I hope you're okay. I haven't known anyone who has had a stillbirth but just dealing with two friends at the same time who had m/c's last year was enough for me (and I wasn't even pregnant then).]]> Sat, 28 Oct 2006 21:38:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82139&title=so-sad#82139 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82136&title=so-sad#82136 Author: fattartsrock
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Posted: 28 October 2006 at 9:26pm

Yeah its the thank goodness it wasn't me thing that makes me feel worse, especially when my baby is kicking me flat out, and I whinge for the 7 millionth time aobut the never ending morning sickness...

Nothing *much* offends me, Liz!]]> Sat, 28 Oct 2006 21:26:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82136&title=so-sad#82136 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82133&title=so-sad#82133 Author: lizzle
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Posted: 28 October 2006 at 9:15pm

That is so sad. I always think there is no "right" way to feel when someone dies and your feelings, while you might think of them as selfish, to me are perfectly reasonable. as would be, and I really hope i don't offend you, the feeling "Thank goodness it wasn't me". It is really ahrd when a friend goes through something like that, and maybe doubly so when you are pregnant too and you may think that you can't be ahppy over your baby because of hers. I hope your friend....well, recovers isn't the right word as i don't think you "recover" from losing a child, lets say, receives the love and support she needs and I hope you do too!]]> Sat, 28 Oct 2006 21:15:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82133&title=so-sad#82133 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82131&title=so-sad#82131 Author: fattartsrock
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Posted: 28 October 2006 at 9:02pm

Ok, this is a sad sad post.

Most of you will have read a post somewhere by me at some stage, about how when I was pregnant with Jacob, my best friend had a stillborn full term baby. Emjay died somewhere between the time my friend went into labour, and when she got to the hospital about 3 hours later. Anyhow, that was such an awful time, with many difficult emotions etc, and made the remainder of my pregnancy very long and nervous.

Anyhow, today My BF rung me with the news that a friend of ours, who's baby is due 3 days after our #2, went into labour last night, her waters broke, and the baby died, he couldn't be saved.
I am so devestated for her and her hubby, as well, as feeling awful for my BF, as it is bringing back lots of awful memories for her. And selfishly, I feel so, so bad and scared and guilty and I can't believe that in both my pregnancies, I have had a friend who has had a still born baby.
When I was talking to her on thursday, she was so excited about this baby and she had been having her first definate feelings of movement over the last week or so.

not looking for sympathy here, just wanted to unload really. ]]> Sat, 28 Oct 2006 21:02:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4251&PID=82131&title=so-sad#82131