OHbaby! Forums : Jealous https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 00:30:42 +0000 Wed, 26 Oct 2011 21:43:47 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=40784 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Jealous : Thank you guys so much. It&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40784&PID=1401956&title=jealous#1401956 Author: YellowBrickRoad
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Posted: 26 October 2011 at 9:43pm

Thank you guys so much. It's amazing; as soon as i wrote this and read your comments i felt so much better. I think i just needed to tell someone. I still want another baby - eventually, but now i don't feel sad anymore. Thank you again for your kind comments. ]]> Wed, 26 Oct 2011 21:43:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40784&PID=1401956&title=jealous#1401956 <![CDATA[Jealous : Awwww, I feel for you too. DH...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40784&PID=1399695&title=jealous#1399695 Author: mummymonster
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Posted: 18 October 2011 at 4:16pm

Awwww, I feel for you too. DH and I have agreed a longer gap before trying for #3, but I'm sure I'll want another one first.
Mine's not even 6mths and I've got baby envy for 3 pregnant friends.
Your time will come ]]> Tue, 18 Oct 2011 16:16:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40784&PID=1399695&title=jealous#1399695 <![CDATA[Jealous : Aww, thats not fair aye.Yes I&#039;m...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40784&PID=1399636&title=jealous#1399636 Author: BessieBear
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Posted: 18 October 2011 at 1:59pm

Aww, thats not fair aye.

Yes I'm pregant with my third, But all my group of friends who had a baby within a month of DS and DD they're all just about to have their thirds in the next month or so and I'm left out having my third well after they have.

But, as much it frustrates me, by the time I have this baby they'll have rascal 7 month olds and will get all clucky over it.

It will happen for you when the time is right, you can't go making thigns happen if you aren't going to be happy (with no money...)
Does that make sence.

]]> Tue, 18 Oct 2011 13:59:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40784&PID=1399636&title=jealous#1399636 <![CDATA[Jealous : Awww, I do understand! Even when...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40784&PID=1399609&title=jealous#1399609 Author: Hopes
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Posted: 18 October 2011 at 12:56pm

Awww, I do understand! Even when we know that realistically we're making the right decision (or in your case that there's two of you in the marriage and it has to be the right decision for both of you), that doesn't mean that you won't sometimes WANT to be able to make another decision. And I totally understand baby envy, I struggled with that when we were trying for Jacob.

Have you told your hubby how you feel? Not in a 'why won't you agree to have another one' way, but just that you're finding it hard. It helps to talk about stuff like this if you've got someone who can listen.]]> Tue, 18 Oct 2011 12:56:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40784&PID=1399609&title=jealous#1399609 <![CDATA[Jealous : The other day my best friend told...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40784&PID=1399538&title=jealous#1399538 Author: YellowBrickRoad
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Posted: 18 October 2011 at 10:31am

The other day my best friend told me that she is pregnant with her third child. And while i am so so happy and excited for her i can't get rid of this horrible pain in my heart. We have always been pregnant together with only a few weeks separating us. I am blessed to have two beautiful children that i adore but have been wanting another one for a long time. My husband and i (or more he) decided that we need to wait a while longer until he's earning more money which is completely logical and i do understand and accept this but my heart longs for another baby. I've talked to my husband but he doesn't understand and tells me to just be logical. And i have no one to talk to now since i would normally talk to my friend, and obviously i can't. I don't want to take away her buzz from this blessing. I just don't know how to get rid of my stupid feelings. I feel so sad, almost like I'm grieving. And i know that one day it will be my turn again, and that i am already so blessed with the wonderful children i do have already. I just don't know how to make these feelings go away so i can just be happy for her and content with my current situation. I sound so selfish]]> Tue, 18 Oct 2011 10:31:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40784&PID=1399538&title=jealous#1399538