https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 15:19:27 +0000 Wed, 03 Aug 2011 15:40:15 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=40056 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1371033&title=sex#1371033 Author: CrazyCass
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Posted: 03 August 2011 at 3:40pm

Hehe must be the title of the thread huh!

I confronted DH about our sex life the other night. Ever since he can see my belly growing and is feeling kicks etc he's not been interested in anything (other than Mrs Palmer from what he tells me ) because it feels wrong, he knows its his baby etc, and I'm still me but he doesn't see the 'sexy wife' but a 'cuddly mum' that he wants to snuggle and be cute with...

Managed to get almost guilty sex out of him, and to be honest I now feel the same! (without the mrs palmer of course!) I guess because we'd not tried I thought I still wanted it.. but not now.

And I'm having a boy Kelly - but not super randy, If only we were having 2 kids then I could poss see if I'd be randy with a girl on board ]]> Wed, 03 Aug 2011 15:40:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1371033&title=sex#1371033 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370894&title=sex#1370894 Author: GuestGuest
Subject: 40056
Posted: 03 August 2011 at 12:34pm

So funny how many views this thread has had Must remember to put "sex" in the title next time I have a question ]]> Wed, 03 Aug 2011 12:34:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370894&title=sex#1370894 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370795&title=sex#1370795 Author: AngieBaby
Subject: 40056
Posted: 03 August 2011 at 9:32am

This is a good article written by a doctor - from one of our past issues check it out :)
http://www.ohbaby.co.nz/family/relationships/let%E2%80%99s-talk-about-sex,-baby

and....
ENJOY :)]]> Wed, 03 Aug 2011 09:32:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370795&title=sex#1370795 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370781&title=sex#1370781 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 40056
Posted: 03 August 2011 at 9:02am

i had two boys and I was the same as lisajo..jazzy you dont get it?:) I just think some people really feel like it and some dont.. we didn't much during either one due to me worrying about mc...i know there's not much chance but i wasn't risking it(esp after 2)

Edited by ElfsMum]]> Wed, 03 Aug 2011 09:02:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370781&title=sex#1370781 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370699&title=sex#1370699 Author: millemama
Subject: 40056
Posted: 02 August 2011 at 9:47pm

lol, I'm glad to see I'm not the only one, not something you can bring up in normal conversation over a carrot cake and latte!! This has happened a lot sooner this time round, maybe boy this time?? ]]> Tue, 02 Aug 2011 21:47:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370699&title=sex#1370699 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370598&title=sex#1370598 Author: TheKelly
Subject: 40056
Posted: 02 August 2011 at 5:51pm

milliemama,with my girls I was completely off sex,but when I was pregnant with my boy I was pretty randy

Edited by TheKelly]]> Tue, 02 Aug 2011 17:51:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370598&title=sex#1370598 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370587&title=sex#1370587 Author: Kellz
Subject: 40056
Posted: 02 August 2011 at 5:15pm

Lol, I was just going to post that Im the complete opposite from NZlisajo. Havent got the greatest interest in sex really, but wow when Im pregnant my libido increases hugely! Happened both pregnancies- I think for me it has to do with me feeling more comfortable with my body shape when pregnant!]]> Tue, 02 Aug 2011 17:15:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370587&title=sex#1370587 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370556&title=sex#1370556 Author: millemama
Subject: 40056
Posted: 02 August 2011 at 4:16pm

So didn't feel like it this first trimester, too tired and nauseous, but read like others that if not bleeding and have no other issues, no prob. My query is, since someone else has started up this topic (I was too chicken), has anyone else got a heightened libido because of pregnancy? Have had this with both pregnancies now, weird, but not unpleasant especially for DH, who doesn't know what's struck him. lol.]]> Tue, 02 Aug 2011 16:16:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370556&title=sex#1370556 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370284&title=sex#1370284 Author: TheKelly
Subject: 40056
Posted: 01 August 2011 at 11:30pm

every time we had sex before 12 weeks,but its perfectly normal to be concerned.

Wont show DH this thread,hell,i've made him wait a lot longer than 5 or so weeks post baby.....]]> Mon, 01 Aug 2011 23:30:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1370284&title=sex#1370284 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369874&title=sex#1369874 Author: mummytobesep08
Subject: 40056
Posted: 01 August 2011 at 10:12am

you should be right! we waited til after the date we had had a previous miscarriage. even though we had had M/Cs before we weren't advised not to have sex

as long as you are healthy, had no warning signs that things are wrong, you should be right

DH in theory wanted to wait til 12 weeks b/c of the m/c thing but he, ah forgot all about that once we got started lol.

but hey, there's nothing wrong with wanting to wait and plenty of other options to keep DH happy (I'm sure you know what I mean!)]]> Mon, 01 Aug 2011 10:12:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369874&title=sex#1369874 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369784&title=sex#1369784 Author: jazzy
Subject: 40056
Posted: 01 August 2011 at 7:50am

You can not stop a m/c if its going to happen it will.

If you are not having bleeding then there is no reason to not carry on with everything as usual.

I had bleeding with all 4 of my pregnancies so at these times we did not have sex...last thing on my mind then anyway.

We had a normal sex life life through out all pregnancies, personally I don't get the no sex while pg...even if you have to fake it, lol....after delivery well that's a different story ]]> Mon, 01 Aug 2011 07:50:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369784&title=sex#1369784 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369715&title=sex#1369715 Author: JadeC
Subject: 40056
Posted: 31 July 2011 at 8:51pm

I don't think there's any research that says that sex can cause a miscarriage, unless there has been prior bleeding.]]> Sun, 31 Jul 2011 20:51:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369715&title=sex#1369715 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369695&title=sex#1369695 Author: Bubie
Subject: 40056
Posted: 31 July 2011 at 8:33pm

We havnt had any bleeding or anything so fingers crossed ]]> Sun, 31 Jul 2011 20:33:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369695&title=sex#1369695 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369693&title=sex#1369693 Author: Richie
Subject: 40056
Posted: 31 July 2011 at 8:32pm

Geez....... I feel real bad for my DF lol...... we had sex maybe 6 times while I was pregnant. I just lost all interest. And then it was 6 months after I had DD before we had sex again! haha. My mojo just went awol. We are going to start TTC Jan next year but DF is dreading the no sex again hehehehe.
Anyway, that was a little bit off from the original question - but I think you should be fine, some people like to wait till second trimester 'just incase' but pretty sure it is OK]]> Sun, 31 Jul 2011 20:32:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369693&title=sex#1369693 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369684&title=sex#1369684 Author: Jaune
Subject: 40056
Posted: 31 July 2011 at 8:20pm

Same here...had sex all the way through the pregnancy without any problems. Although was much more difficult (and very unsexy) towards the end! ]]> Sun, 31 Jul 2011 20:20:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369684&title=sex#1369684 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369683&title=sex#1369683 Author: AandCsmum
Subject: 40056
Posted: 31 July 2011 at 8:20pm

Have you got a history of miscarriage? Maybe ask your midwife? With Mr C I'm sure we did it often cause we knew it would drop off later.]]> Sun, 31 Jul 2011 20:20:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369683&title=sex#1369683 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369679&title=sex#1369679 Author: Kellz
Subject: 40056
Posted: 31 July 2011 at 8:14pm

We never even thought to wait- have had sex right through each pregnancy with no problems. I know some women are advised by their Dr not to have sex but thats usually if they are having bleeding in pregnancy.]]> Sun, 31 Jul 2011 20:14:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369679&title=sex#1369679 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369673&title=sex#1369673 Author: Bubie
Subject: 40056
Posted: 31 July 2011 at 7:57pm

Hi Everyone

Just wanting some advice, im 7 weeks pregnant atm with number 2, untill i reached 12 weeks pregnant with DS 1 me and DP didnt have sex because i was so worried it was going to cause a misscarage, now im wanting your advice if you have been there and done that before 12 weeks and if anythng happned ? Because i think im a little mean making DP wait that long ?

TIA]]> Sun, 31 Jul 2011 19:57:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=40056&PID=1369673&title=sex#1369673