https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 05 Apr 2026 11:52:03 +0000 Sat, 11 Jun 2011 19:36:06 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=39523 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344695&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344695 Author: MrsH23
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 7:36pm

Well SIL was actually pleasant when I saw her this morning so we appear to be ignoring what happened for now which is fine with me. I still have a problem with her DF which isn't really going to resolve itself but hey I can live with that.

Have spent the afternoon baking the cake with SIL and DS while her DF was out, yay!]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 19:36:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344695&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344695 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344577&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344577 Author: TheBabe
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 4:21pm

Make it. Its a nice thing to do and TBH a fairly minor argument isn't really enough reason to spoil her birthday.]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 16:21:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344577&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344577 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344571&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344571 Author: choco69
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 4:17pm

i would definitely make the cake - then if she continues to be childish then she will just look like an idiot - and you will be the sensible mature one ]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 16:17:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344571&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344571 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344509&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344509 Author: MamaT
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 2:39pm

Like the others, I would definitely bake it. ]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 14:39:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344509&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344509 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344482&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344482 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 1:35pm

Make the cake then throw it at her Lisa...

nah jokes..lol....

Will chat to you on FB later hun!

Edited by Sheza]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 13:35:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344482&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344482 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344471&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344471 Author: MrsH23
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 1:01pm

Haha thanks ladies!! I had thought after posting this that I would be the mature one and make it, she can act like a 2 yr old if she wants to lol.

Yup Bizzy it is rather silly and immature, and all my fault apparantly ]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 13:01:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344471&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344471 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344467&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344467 Author: Lucky apple
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 12:47pm

Make it :-)


....I was going to say something about laxatives, but I decided not to....hehehe.....]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 12:47:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344467&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344467 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344459&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344459 Author: linda
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 12:39pm

Make it and eat it yourself...ok, maybe not eating it yourself but I'd still make it and give it to her]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 12:39:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344459&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344459 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344456&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344456 Author: AbzandH
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 12:37pm

Yea make it, and if you accidentally put tablespoons instead of teaspoons of baking soda... so be it hehe]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 12:37:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344456&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344456 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344438&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344438 Author: Plushie
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 11:57am

I'd totally make it, you'll either make up over it or you'll look like an adult and she'll look pathetic if she keeps up the fight after you go to the effort.]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 11:57:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344438&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344438 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344373&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344373 Author: Raspberryjam
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 9:57am

well if you think she will see it as a peace offering go for it, but if you think she will just leave you with a face covered in cake then no

Sometimes you just have to suck it up]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 09:57:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344373&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344373 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344370&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344370 Author: High9
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 9:48am

I would make it too.

Or if you wanted you could make it, make sure she sees it and eat it too but that's a bit mean. ]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 09:48:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344370&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344370 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344367&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344367 Author: Kimnthekids
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 9:37am

I would make it, but depending on what my original plan was, i may not put the extra effort in. E.g extra special decorating that takes great time]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 09:37:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344367&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344367 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344362&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344362 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 9:33am

an argument about house keys sounds rather silly and a bit immature and not following through with your promise would just make it even worse.]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 09:33:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344362&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344362 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344336&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344336 Author: jaycee
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 8:22am

Yep, would still make the cake - as crafty1 said, takethehigh ground.]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 08:22:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344336&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344336 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344335&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344335 Author: catisla
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 8:22am

Do you want to resolve things? If so, I would make the cake otherwise it may escalate into something even bigger (and you get the satisfaction of taking the mature, higher ground)]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 08:22:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344335&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344335 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344331&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344331 Author: MrsEmma
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 8:11am

I would too]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 08:11:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344331&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344331 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344316&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344316 Author: Hopes
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 6:42am

Yep, me three.]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 06:42:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344316&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344316 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344313&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344313 Author: nathansmummy
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 3:39am

I would too.]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 03:39:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344313&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344313 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344308&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344308 Author: crafty1
Subject: 39523
Posted: 11 June 2011 at 12:14am

I would. Better to take the higher ground! you'll come out looking better than being resentful and mean regardless of how you feel.]]> Sat, 11 Jun 2011 00:14:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344308&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344308 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344300&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344300 Author: MrsH23
Subject: 39523
Posted: 10 June 2011 at 11:37pm

I've had a big blow up with SIL and her DF this afternoon about house keys (we all live together), and it's her birthday on Monday. I said earlier I would make her a cake for her birthday so she could take it into work, I went out especially today and brought the stuff that was needed to make it. Since then we had the fight and are no longer speaking and I don't see us resolving it in the next couple of days. I really just want to throw all the stuff in her face instead!!!

So my silly question is, would you bother still making the cake or not?

Sorry if my grammar/spelling is incorrect I just can't think properly at the moment!]]> Fri, 10 Jun 2011 23:37:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39523&PID=1344300&title=what-would-you-do-sil-problem#1344300