OHbaby! Forums : ...just wanted to say sorry https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Tue, 07 Apr 2026 16:22:54 +0000 Mon, 16 May 2011 22:31:48 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=39166 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : And there we end thing ladies. Please...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327708&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327708 Author: Kelz
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 10:31pm

And there we end thing ladies.

Please remember the purpose of this forum is to share, support & inform.
Many of our members are a fountain of knowledge in motherhood and/or their 'other' job. Share your knowledge, help others out. We all know that this parenting malarkey can be more than tricky at times. Let's give each other a break.

x]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 22:31:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327708&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327708 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : escadachic wrote: Bizzy wrote: ...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327707&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327707 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 10:31pm

Originally posted by escadachic escadachic wrote:

Originally posted by Bizzy Bizzy wrote:

Originally posted by escadachic escadachic wrote:

Originally posted by nathansmummy nathansmummy wrote:

After Admin deleting the last thread - why is there now another thread being started about the same thing???

Ahhhhhhhh!


where?


Umm pretty sure she means this one!


Clearly. But to clarify, publicly apologizing, is not a 'social cliques' thread....


*sigh* no its not the same but it is just bringing it back up, and everyone knows its worse the second time round!]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 22:31:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327707&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327707 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : Bizzy wrote: escadachic wrote: ...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327660&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327660 Author: escadachic
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 9:40pm

Originally posted by Bizzy Bizzy wrote:

Originally posted by escadachic escadachic wrote:

Originally posted by nathansmummy nathansmummy wrote:

After Admin deleting the last thread - why is there now another thread being started about the same thing???

Ahhhhhhhh!


where?


Umm pretty sure she means this one!


Clearly. But to clarify, publicly apologizing, is not a 'social cliques' thread....]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 21:40:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327660&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327660 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : ** sitting on the couch, eating...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327655&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327655 Author: fire_engine
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 9:36pm

** sitting on the couch, eating popcorn **

]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 21:36:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327655&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327655 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : haha who needs shortland st! Enough...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327604&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327604 Author: Richie
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 9:00pm

haha who needs shortland st! Enough drama on OB! lol
Sorry... couldn't resist saying something, this is all just too funny ]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 21:00:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327604&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327604 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : escadachic wrote: nathansmummy...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327601&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327601 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 8:59pm

Originally posted by escadachic escadachic wrote:

Originally posted by nathansmummy nathansmummy wrote:

After Admin deleting the last thread - why is there now another thread being started about the same thing???

Ahhhhhhhh!


where?


Umm pretty sure she means this one!]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 20:59:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327601&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327601 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : Delete delete delete! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327502&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327502 Author: GuestGuest
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 8:01pm

Delete delete delete!]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 20:01:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327502&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327502 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : nathansmummy wrote:After Admin...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327428&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327428 Author: escadachic
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 7:12pm

Originally posted by nathansmummy nathansmummy wrote:

After Admin deleting the last thread - why is there now another thread being started about the same thing???

Ahhhhhhhh!


where?]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 19:12:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327428&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327428 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : After Admin deleting the last...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327421&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327421 Author: nathansmummy
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 7:05pm

After Admin deleting the last thread - why is there now another thread being started about the same thing???

Ahhhhhhhh!]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 19:05:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327421&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327421 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : move along people ! LOL its a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327336&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327336 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 5:13pm

move along people !   

LOL its a bit like a car crash - you dont really want to look but somehow you feel compelled to!

]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 17:13:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327336&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327336 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : Yup all good, you&#039;ve expressed...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327297&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327297 Author: escadachic
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 4:27pm

Yup all good, you've expressed your views, we can move on now!]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 16:27:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327297&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327297 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : I wasn&#039;t the only person...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327296&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327296 Author: escadachic
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 4:26pm

I wasn't the only person who asked for it to be deleted. Some of the posts were actually against the 'code of conduct' on here and someone else pointed it out. That could be part of the reason it was deleted.

I did suggest it as an option, that it be deleted, if Admin thought it was getting out of hand.

And to clarify, I did not create another thread, I just publicly apologized, as some people had been hurt and/or offended by some of the posts on that thread.]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 16:26:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327296&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327296 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : Bizzy wrote:asking for it to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327284&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327284 Author: MummyFreckle
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 4:12pm

Originally posted by Bizzy Bizzy wrote:

asking for it to be deleted and then starting another thread aobut it though is just as silly!

I agree - it just seems to me that you wanted to continue to drag it on.....

 

 

]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 16:12:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327284&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327284 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327040&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327040 Author: GuestGuest
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 12:34pm

]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 12:34:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327040&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327040 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : haha Bizzy - I thought that was...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327000&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327000 Author: freckle
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 12:01pm

haha Bizzy - I thought that was silly too ... ]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 12:01:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1327000&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1327000 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : did they delete it? thats just...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326908&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326908 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 39166
Posted: 16 May 2011 at 10:18am

did they delete it? thats just silly ... there was lots of interesting info and opinions in there. asking for it to be deleted and then starting another thread aobut it though is just as silly!]]> Mon, 16 May 2011 10:18:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326908&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326908 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : Yup, we can all move on I think....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326226&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326226 Author: escadachic
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 11:00pm

Yup, we can all move on I think. That was part of why I asked for it to be deleted.]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 23:00:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326226&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326226 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : As I said,I appreciate the apology,tho...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326203&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326203 Author: TheKelly
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 10:15pm

As I said,I appreciate the apology,tho I wasn't offended anyway,I appreciate her doing it.

like I also said,now everyone can move on from the "clique thread" so .....hopefully thats what will happen.

Edited by TheKelly]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 22:15:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326203&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326203 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : Oh thankx Starzie ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326147&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326147 Author: escadachic
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 9:03pm

Oh thankx Starzie ]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 21:03:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326147&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326147 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : If you are to comment on a person...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326144&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326144 Author: STARZIE
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 9:00pm

If you are to comment on a person you believe is just attention seeking you are really just encouraging.... unless your reason was to offend?

I thought that both this thread and her blog said pretty much the same thing.

This thread was a direct apology to anyone who was offended or hurt for what she said in the other thread, and also said that in future she will try and avoid such conflicts (at least thats how i read it?)

In her blog she has also said that the original reason was not to offend people....then she has gone on to try and work out the way people think, which is what a lot of people do. (i found that with depression i tend to wonder if people think the same way my brain works a lot.) but a lot of her blog looks at how people think and get on with each other, but in no way was she less sorry for offending people.

However i do think it is very brave to apologise to a large group of people at any time (esp the responses she seems to have received from doing so.) ]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 21:00:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326144&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326144 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : fire_engine wrote:I highly...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326135&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326135 Author: escadachic
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 8:44pm

Originally posted by fire_engine fire_engine wrote:

I highly recommend staying off the Net when drunk. It never ends happily.


I hear you loud and clear! Whilst nursing a nasty hangover!]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 20:44:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326135&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326135 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : I highly recommend staying off...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326132&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326132 Author: fire_engine
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 8:41pm

I highly recommend staying off the Net when drunk. It never ends happily.]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 20:41:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326132&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326132 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : ...there&#039;s no need to go...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326118&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326118 Author: escadachic
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 8:22pm

...there's no need to go nosey at my thread looking for possible contradictions you know.]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 20:22:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326118&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326118 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : I was drunk when I wrote this....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326116&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326116 Author: escadachic
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 8:20pm

I was drunk when I wrote this. Can't even remember if I wrote on my blog too. That may have been a few days ago.

Edited to add. It appears I must have blogged last night.

...going by the wording and the fact I've had to edit a few words and stuff, due to not making sense, I clearly blogged while drunk.    Not doing that again.

Need to stay off the net while I'm drunk I think!

Edited by escadachic]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 20:20:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1326116&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1326116 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : I think sometimes you just have...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1325772&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1325772 Author: MummyFreckle
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 9:22am

I think sometimes you just have to "build a bridge" (as you mention in your  blog) and let things go. Continuing the "angst" in another thread - intentionally or not - seems a bit like attention seeking to me. Sorry if that sounds harsh - just my opinion - given that I dont KNOW you at all, I am merely making an observation based on the post that you have made in a public forum, and should not be taken as a personal attack.

 

]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 09:22:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1325772&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1325772 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : ah yeah,I too appreciate the apology,because...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1325745&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1325745 Author: TheKelly
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 8:54am

ah yeah,I too appreciate the apology,because it is rare to see on OB....but then out of curiosity I looked at your blog and its a completely different story,so now im confused.
But you are right on your blog when you say we are each in charge of how we are feeling,so Im choosing to feel that im not really bothered at the end of the day,it was a thread that got out of hand as they often do in the end,its deleted now and everyone can move on. ]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 08:54:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1325745&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1325745 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : I think the sentiment is nice...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1325702&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1325702 Author: lilfatty
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 7:11am

I think the sentiment is nice , however when you say one thing on your blog then another thing in here, I could see how some people would just think "oh here she goes again"

But still .. you apologized, I dont ever think Ive seen that on these boards!

PS - Beer is evil when your trying to lose weight ]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 07:11:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1325702&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1325702 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : Escada tbh I think you&#039;re...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1325697&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1325697 Author: freckle
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 7:02am

Escada tbh I think you're your own worst enermy IMO you should just let it go - you write this, you write in your DD thread and you blog about it, all in apparent contradiction... Just move on, and I'm sure everyone else will too ]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 07:02:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1325697&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1325697 <![CDATA[...just wanted to say sorry : I am really, genuinely sorry if...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1325690&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1325690 Author: escadachic
Subject: 39166
Posted: 14 May 2011 at 2:46am

I am really, genuinely sorry if I offended anyone as a result of my 'social clique' thread.

I was just trying to defend the honor of some of my online friends, whom have left OB, due to certain drama's and possible misunderstandings.

I am truly and genuinely sorry for any offense, or perceived attacks I may have caused. That was not at all my intention.

I will in future, leave it up to those offended, to defend their own honor.

I need to get over my messiah complex and trying to 'save' everyone.

I do not think ill of any of you. I just had a rather jaded impression/perception of some of you.

I should not have trusted so readily, others jaded opinions and been so easily swayed. I should have got to know those of you, and made up my own mind.

In all honesty, when I first created the thread. It was kind of just a vent. I was in a bad place and quite severely depressed with the PND I was at the time experiencing. So I was quite simply, not in a good place and venting. And honestly, I think my blog would've been a more appropriate place to vent.

All I can do is apologize and hope I can be forgiven and acknowledge my fault and part in this all.

Edited by escadachic]]> Sat, 14 May 2011 02:46:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=39166&PID=1325690&title=just-wanted-to-say-sorry#1325690