OHbaby! Forums : Scared of miscarrying https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 03 Apr 2026 18:49:50 +0000 Tue, 14 Nov 2006 12:25:18 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=3782 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : bumped ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=86300&title=scared-of-miscarrying#86300 Author: cat
Subject: 3782
Posted: 14 November 2006 at 12:25pm

bumped]]> Tue, 14 Nov 2006 12:25:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=86300&title=scared-of-miscarrying#86300 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : The food thing can be a struggle...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=74104&title=scared-of-miscarrying#74104 Author: Andie
Subject: 3782
Posted: 26 September 2006 at 10:10am

The food thing can be a struggle sometimes, eh.  I think it helps if you make up your mind about what you consider OK or not, after reading the official guff you get sent out, and then go with that.  Listening to other people's opinions on it can be really conflicting and make you feel either guilty or like a paraniod woman.  Older women rubbished me HEAPS for following the guidelines, ranting about what rubbish it all is and how all their babies came out just fine (which, uh, they all didn't, but it'd have been cruel for me to point that out!!), I survived a fair few lectures on it all, but because I'd made up my mind on which guidelines I thought seemed important, I was OK about ignoring their opinions. 

Hey Jennz - I've just spotted your extra ticker - CONGRATULATIONS!!!

]]> Tue, 26 Sep 2006 10:10:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=74104&title=scared-of-miscarrying#74104 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : The only MCds I would eat was...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73999&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73999 Author: Jennz
Subject: 3782
Posted: 25 September 2006 at 8:48pm

The only MCds I would eat was a quarter pounder (which I hate!) because the others have creamy based sauces on them- and even then I would go home and cook it to bits first. I was the queen of paranoia when I was pregnant last time! I would like to think I can be a little more relaxed this time around, but I doubt it.

I think its a good rule of thumb that if you are in doubt, then don't. Better to be safe than sorry! Its only 8 months out of your whole life. I took a box of BBQ shapes with me everywhere I went (had one next to the bed, one in my desk draw, one in the car etc...) as it helped with my nausea and meant I always had something I could eat!

I can definitely relate to the miscarry worry- esp since it took us so long to concieve ]]> Mon, 25 Sep 2006 20:48:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73999&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73999 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : I find food halls a mission too....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73847&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73847 Author: Maya
Subject: 3782
Posted: 25 September 2006 at 1:05pm

I find food halls a mission too. All the fast foods that are 'safe' like McD's make me feel nauseous just thinking about them, and all teh yummy stuff like sushi and curry and chinese is off limits...]]> Mon, 25 Sep 2006 13:05:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73847&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73847 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Thanks for the advice. DH has...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73698&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73698 Author: Georgie K
Subject: 3782
Posted: 24 September 2006 at 5:43pm

Thanks for the advice. DH has pretty much decided the fudge is his now anyway! Just as a side note, DH and I were at the mall today, and I found it so hard to find something to eat! I never thought that I would be this fussy, but now I don't even want to put parmessan on my pasta!

Yummymummy, ocicats are just fantastic! Our three all have such different personalities, but we love them all!]]> Sun, 24 Sep 2006 17:43:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73698&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73698 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Georgie, I would not eat it either....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73662&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73662 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 3782
Posted: 24 September 2006 at 11:03am

Georgie, I would not eat it either. I used to be more relaxed about food incl having some smoked salmon and McDonalds etc etc until I ended up with food posoning!!! And I really suffered! Baby was OK as it turned out to be nothing dangerous eg listeria but I really felt it for a week. I lost weight as I could not keep either food or liguid down and had to have time off work. My new motto - better be safe than sorry

PS - I have 2 ocicat babies. They are just adorable aren't they?]]> Sun, 24 Sep 2006 11:03:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73662&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73662 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Personally I wouldn&#039;t, but...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73639&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73639 Author: Maya
Subject: 3782
Posted: 24 September 2006 at 9:56am

Personally I wouldn't, but I am a superfreak when it comes to what is safe and what isn't. I know plenty of people who still eat ham and soft cheeses etc. and their babies are fine whereas I throw away half a pot of sour cream after I've opened it "just in case".]]> Sun, 24 Sep 2006 09:56:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73639&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73639 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Another food related question!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73424&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73424 Author: Georgie K
Subject: 3782
Posted: 22 September 2006 at 4:26pm

Another food related question! My Mum bakes a yummy fudge cake recipe (that she has just sent me) - melt sugar, butter, stir in one egg (not cooked), stir in crushed wine biscuits etc... My (silly) question is, should I eat this as it technically has uncooked egg in it??? I'm starting to get really paranoid about eggs now!

PS: Maya, thanks for clearing up the weeks thing!

Edited by Georgie K]]> Fri, 22 Sep 2006 16:26:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73424&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73424 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Yep, the number of weeks is measured...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73202&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73202 Author: Maya
Subject: 3782
Posted: 21 September 2006 at 8:29pm

Yep, the number of weeks is measured post LMP, and all the measurements they do of bubs are post LMP too.

The heart starts to beat between 5-6 weeks LMP and is visible on U/S sometime between 6-7 weeks, tho most docs prefer to wait until after 7 weeks as if you have a scan at 6 or so weeks and don't see the heartbeat it can be stressful, and doesn't neccessarily mean anything is wrong, it might just be a little early.

I had a scan at 6w0d and we saw the heartbeat. Then discovered at 9 weeks that there were actually 2 -so one was obviously too small to see on the 6 week scan.]]> Thu, 21 Sep 2006 20:29:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73202&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73202 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Just a quick question. Scan dates,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73156&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73156 Author: Georgie K
Subject: 3782
Posted: 21 September 2006 at 4:06pm

Just a quick question. Scan dates, eg: if you were to have a scan at 12 weeks, is this 12 weeks past LMP? Sorry, still trying to work out if that is the usual 'measure' so to speak!]]> Thu, 21 Sep 2006 16:06:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73156&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73156 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : I&#039;m in Palmy and I had a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73053&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73053 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 3782
Posted: 21 September 2006 at 10:13am

I'm in Palmy and I had a 6 week scan, due to not knowing dates and strong family history of twins. If you say that you have ben really sick or unsure of dates then they usually get you a scan. They will never use the reason unsure of dates as the reason to scan it will either be very sick or family history of twins. With my first I was being scanned every second day in the last few weeks due to pre eclampsia.]]> Thu, 21 Sep 2006 10:13:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73053&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73053 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Thanks guys, I&#039;ve just eaten...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73049&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73049 Author: cat
Subject: 3782
Posted: 21 September 2006 at 9:44am

Thanks guys, I've just eaten it and it was goooood! I'm not sure when the scan is, I suppose I'll find out when I speak to them midwife later today. I'm probably 6 weeks now so when do you think they'll do the scan? What stage does the heart start to beat? It'd be great to see that and get down to the 5% chance of m/c or should I say 95% chance of everything being fine!
]]> Thu, 21 Sep 2006 09:44:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73049&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73049 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : I think if the custard has been...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73041&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73041 Author: Maya
Subject: 3782
Posted: 21 September 2006 at 9:26am

I think if the custard has been baked inside the cake then it's all good, it' sonly if it's like fresh custard that's been put in the middle? Don't quote me on that, but I work on the theory that once it's been baked that's enough to kill any bugs...]]> Thu, 21 Sep 2006 09:26:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73041&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73041 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : as long as the eggs are cooked...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73040&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73040 Author: my2angels
Subject: 3782
Posted: 21 September 2006 at 9:25am

as long as the eggs are cooked you will be sweet.
when are you going to go for your scan?]]> Thu, 21 Sep 2006 09:25:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73040&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73040 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : I saw the Dr on Tuesday evening...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73032&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73032 Author: cat
Subject: 3782
Posted: 21 September 2006 at 9:07am

I saw the Dr on Tuesday evening and then went and told my best friend, I feel much better about it all. The Dr just reassaured me with the positive figures and basically there's nothing I can do about it.
I have to have a dating scan though as I wasn't in a normal cycle when I conceived so have to have a chat with a midwife tonight.
I'm struggling with the what I can and can't eat thing though - a work mate made a chocolate cake with a custard filling (custard powder and 3 eggs all cooked inside the cake) and I don't know if I can eat it - it's just sitting here taunting me - please tell me if I can or not!!]]> Thu, 21 Sep 2006 09:07:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=73032&title=scared-of-miscarrying#73032 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : welcome, congrats and good luck...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72994&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72994 Author: my2angels
Subject: 3782
Posted: 20 September 2006 at 8:35pm

welcome, congrats and good luck ladies. I wont repeat what everyone else has said but they are all right lol.
hope you all have healthy happy pregnancies.
Georgie you got your BFP on my birthday, cool date!
In chch you get a scan at 12 weeks then again at 20 weeks.]]> Wed, 20 Sep 2006 20:35:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72994&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72994 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Oh welcome Georgie too Scans......]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72985&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72985 Author: busymum
Subject: 3782
Posted: 20 September 2006 at 7:59pm

Oh welcome Georgie too

Scans... it depends whereabouts you are in the country. In Palmerston North you only get scanned at 20 weeks, not before or after unless there is cause for concern (even though I didn't know what my dates were by 4-6 weeks!)]]> Wed, 20 Sep 2006 19:59:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72985&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72985 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Hi - I&#039;m exactly the same...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72916&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72916 Author: Georgie K
Subject: 3782
Posted: 20 September 2006 at 2:04pm

Hi - I'm exactly the same as you Cat. I even got my first BFP on Saturday too! I am constantly worried about m/c - DH keeps telling me no negative thoughts! I feel as though I don't want to get my hopes up and get too excited about having a baby incase I m/c. Furthermore, I've also been getting lots of cramps - nights seem to be worse.

Anyway, it was great to read that this is all 'normal'! I love the CUC club!

Congratulations too!]]> Wed, 20 Sep 2006 14:04:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72916&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72916 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : I just wanted to say Congrats...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72632&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72632 Author: newmum
Subject: 3782
Posted: 19 September 2006 at 1:02pm

I just wanted to say Congrats on the pregnancy and welcome to Oh Baby Cat! Try not to worry too much ]]> Tue, 19 Sep 2006 13:02:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72632&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72632 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : hCG testing can be a storm in...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72631&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72631 Author: Maya
Subject: 3782
Posted: 19 September 2006 at 1:01pm

hCG testing can be a storm in a teacup tho as the difference in levels varies from person to person. To truly gauge whether a pregnancy is progressing normally you have to have the levels done every 2 days to see if they are doubling.

I had hCG levels done every 2 days at the beginning with this pregnancy, and I think it did my head in more than not knowing. Waiting for the results was agony and then when I did get them I would panic that they hadn't gone up enough which means a risk of m/c or had gone up too much which can mean an ectopic. On top of that, after about 5/12-6 weeks the levels stop doubling every 2 days and start doubling every 3-4 days, which made me panic again...

IMHO, if you can hold out till between 6 1/2-7 weeks and then have a dating scan, you can be reassured that once the heartbeat is seen on u/s the risk of m/c drops to below 5%. Some doctors are reluctant to give early scans, but if you are anxious you can usually convince them.]]> Tue, 19 Sep 2006 13:01:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72631&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72631 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : You can have it done at any time...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72617&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72617 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 3782
Posted: 19 September 2006 at 12:08pm

You can have it done at any time just ask for the routine pregnancy bloods and ask that it be doen as well.]]> Tue, 19 Sep 2006 12:08:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72617&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72617 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : I&#039;ve read on other message...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72609&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72609 Author: cat
Subject: 3782
Posted: 19 September 2006 at 11:39am

I've read on other message board about HCG testing and people telling about high levels being a good sign etc. Does everyone have this testing, if so at what stage?]]> Tue, 19 Sep 2006 11:39:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72609&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72609 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : If you are &#034;unsure&#034;...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72607&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72607 Author: herewego...
Subject: 3782
Posted: 19 September 2006 at 11:28am

If you are "unsure" about dates , you can ask your doc to send you for an early scan. We had one at 7wks, and got to see the heartbeat flickering away. There wasnt much else to see cos baby is so small at that stage, but it was very reassuring to see the heart beating, and certainly helped to ease my worries a little bit...

Once the heartbeat has been sighted, the risk drops significantly!

Whatever the case, I'm sure you will continue to worry. Its only natural, and as others have said, it doesnt stop after you reach 12 weeks!

All the best for a smooth hassle-free preganancy!]]> Tue, 19 Sep 2006 11:28:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72607&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72607 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : If it helps (which it probably...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72575&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72575 Author: jax
Subject: 3782
Posted: 19 September 2006 at 9:37am

If it helps (which it probably doesn't LOL) I checked EVERY day ]]> Tue, 19 Sep 2006 09:37:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72575&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72575 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Hi Cat I&#039;m in the same boat,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72566&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72566 Author: Kazza
Subject: 3782
Posted: 19 September 2006 at 9:10am

Hi Cat I'm in the same boat, and all new at this as well, I'm only 8 weeks along and the nicker checking still goes on. I got cramps as well and still do now and then, but all has been ok so far and I don't go back to see the mid wife or get my first scan till Mid Oct, which seems like a life time away, but it is all going well so far so keep smiling. ]]> Tue, 19 Sep 2006 09:10:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72566&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72566 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Ah crap. I tried!!! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72528&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72528 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3782
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 9:26pm

Ah crap. I tried!!!

]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 21:26:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72528&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72528 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : LOL Nikki (healthy babes), but...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72527&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72527 Author: busymum
Subject: 3782
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 9:24pm

LOL Nikki (healthy babes), but she's not likely to hear the heartbeat until 10 weeks (feels like ages!)]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 21:24:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72527&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72527 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : OK, doesn&#039;t Emma have the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72518&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72518 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3782
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 9:14pm

OK, doesn't Emma have the statistics about miscarriage...? like as soon as you hear a heart beat the possibility of miscarrying falls to about 5%???

Everyone worries Cat but seeing so many healthy babes come from even the women on here... it is promising that you'll get one too. ]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 21:14:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72518&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72518 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Although it seems like a high...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72511&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72511 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 3782
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 8:47pm

Although it seems like a high percentage of pregnancies miscarry, many of those are before the woman even knows she is preggy. Also, i know a lot of people dont like to tell family and friends unti they get to the 2nd trimester in case they miscarry, but my theory was I'd rather tell them as soon as i knew, so then if I did miscarry I would have a lot more support - if that makes any sense.

BTW, welcome and congratulations Cat ]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 20:47:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72511&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72511 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Thanks for all your support, it...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72445&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72445 Author: cat
Subject: 3782
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 1:42pm

Thanks for all your support, it really helps. It's so difficult having not told any of my friends or family yet but you guys have helped immensely.]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 13:42:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72445&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72445 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Yep to what everyone else has...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72442&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72442 Author: Maya
Subject: 3782
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 1:38pm

Yep to what everyone else has said. I am still a card-carrying member of the Constant Undie Check club at 33 weeks.

And like Maree said, your mother having had one miscarriage doesn't mean you will. In fact, statistically, you are more likely to have an ongoing pregnancy than a miscarriage as even though around 1 in 5 pregnancies end in m/c, that still means that 4 out of 5 don't.

I've had cramps in both of my ongoing pregnancies, and with this pregnancy have even had 3 lots of bleeding (at 5,9 and 25 weeks) and my gremlins are doing fine.

Good luck for the next 8 or so months!]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 13:38:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72442&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72442 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Hi Cat, I&#039;m now 9 weeks,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72440&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72440 Author: littlejo
Subject: 3782
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 1:34pm

Hi Cat,
I'm now 9 weeks, and still check all the time!
My mum had several miscarriages (and eventually one successful pregnancy), and although I had a scan years ago to see whether I had the same issues as her (and it seemed ok), now that it actually matters (back then I was not thinking of getting pg at all), I'm sooooo worried too.

Your symptoms sound totally normal. Just like mine were when I first found out (at about 5 weeks or so too). A couple of weeks later was when the nausea really started. I find getting plenty of rest the best help so far...when possible.

Best of luck, and CONGRATULATIONS!!]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 13:34:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72440&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72440 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Cat the undies check continues...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72437&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72437 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 3782
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 1:26pm

Cat the undies check continues throughout - we had a scare at 7 weeks but now much further on
My last worry was bubs wasnt moving - then had scan and bubs couldnt have been more active if it tried!
Next worry??? well there is sooo many to chose from...
Hang in there and know we are all here to chat...
best of luck! and Congrats!!!!!]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 13:26:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72437&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72437 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Congratulations Cat! The constant...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72414&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72414 Author: emeldee
Subject: 3782
Posted: 18 September 2006 at 12:18pm

Congratulations Cat! The constant worrying is all part of the game. Your doctor will be able to send you for blood tests to check your HcG levels (preggy hormones) and confirm things a bit more for you, however I'd be lying if I said that that stops the worrying bug.
Cramps can be normal - there's a lot of activity going on down there at present, and even a little bit of spotting or breakthrough bleeding can occur in early pregnancy. Focus on getting as much rest and healthy food and mild exercise as you can and have a good chat to your doctor about any concerns.
Your mum may have had a miscarriage, but I'm deducing from your existance that she also had at least one successful pregnancy - so don't get too fussed about any heredity concerns just now.
Best of luck and happy thoughts your way! ]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 12:18:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72414&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72414 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Cat, I have heard that miscarriages...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72413&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72413 Author: busymum
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Posted: 18 September 2006 at 12:15pm

Cat, I have heard that miscarriages occur in a significant percentage of pregnancies, but that's not to worry you it just means that your mum miscarrying will likely have no effect on your pregnancy... and she obviously had at least one successful pregnancy

I didn't get cramps with my first child but definitely with the next two, for about the first 9 weeks. They are nothing to worry about, it mostly means that everything is stretching into the right place and your body is working great! A lot of the first trimester feels like pms so you don't need to worry.

And of course, just come on here every week with your new questions ]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 12:15:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72413&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72413 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : So totally normal, you will be...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72407&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72407 Author: mummy_becks
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Posted: 18 September 2006 at 11:26am

So totally normal, you will be apart of the CUC (constand(sp?) undies checks) club. We all did it when we first found out we were pregnant.]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 11:26:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72407&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72407 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : welcome to the world of worrying...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72403&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72403 Author: mrs frantic
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Posted: 18 September 2006 at 11:18am

welcome to the world of worrying about everything... we were all the same. I was constantly worried about this in teh first trimester and so were many others but we were all fine. I got cramps too, wicked ones right up till about 12 weeks or so.   So did my sister. That can be perfectly normal and just your body adjusting. Just relax, take it easy and have a chat with your doctor...chances are you will go on to have a perfectly normal pregnancy (and baby) but I am afriad all the little worries and paranoia's are part of the terriory now...
and remember you an always come here and ask questions if you are unsure...
good luck!!!! ]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 11:18:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72403&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72403 <![CDATA[Scared of miscarrying : Hi there, I&#039;m new to all...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72399&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72399 Author: cat
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Posted: 18 September 2006 at 11:11am

Hi there, I'm new to all this. I had a positive home test on Saturday, really lucky as I only came off the pill a couple of months ago. I have worked out from various websites that I am 5 and a half weeks gone I've got an appt with the doctor tomorrow. I am so scared that I will miscarry, I think my mother had a miscarriage not sure when into her pregnancy (I can no longer ask her). I have been getting very sore boobs but no other symptoms though I have been getting what feel like mild pms type cramps. I guess I'm just looking for a bit of reassurance cos it's eating away at me and I keep having to go to the loo and check!]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2006 11:11:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3782&PID=72399&title=scared-of-miscarrying#72399