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   <title><![CDATA[A new debate. Religi&#111;n. : Wow that sounds very different...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 16 November 2010 at 12:39pm<br /><br />Wow that sounds very different from the one I went to and from what I have heard, def does sound alot more "modern"!  Very interesting!  Maybe MIL went to a very old-school one!  No wonder you enjoy it more then, it does sound alot more reasonable than what I keep hearing!<br />On a different note, we had a really disruptive nite last nite with a couple of things that really got us upset before bed.  I was lying there and churning things round in my mind trying to solve them (as you do!), and I just prayed about the 2 things to God and said I was leaving them in His hands to sort, and wow, I just felt a huge peace and went to sleep!  I have tried that before and it hasn't always worked, but it was amazing how it did last nite, I think when you really hand things over in your heart and acknowledge you can't do them on your own strength, that is when God works in place of us.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10154">fattartsrock</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 November 2010 at 8:12pm<br /><br />Yeah Anglican chruch is fairly traditional and had rituals etc, its roots are in the catholic church (Henry viii, anyone?) its definately "Catholic lite", lol. Again, though, I like the catholic church because the liturgy, the readings etc aren't the opinion or veiwpoint of the person taking todays session, rather the whole mass/liturgy and opinions come from the Vatican...Not that the priests don't have their own viewpoints etc, but you can talk to them privately...it's not their job to preach to you their take on stuff...Not that the anglican church is like that either, I just always felt some kind of pull towards catholicism.<br />Cjays lots of good points, great points in fact...and too many to comment on with my POV, however...but you do realise that the catholic church is constantly changing and modernising, eh? lol <br />My mother is still stuck in vatican one - her mother was left widowed with 9 children after my grandfather committed suicide and the church "cast" her  out for his sin...<br />Mum went to a catholic school where the nuns tied her hand behind her back to force her to write with the right hand and caned my uncle daily (he still has scars) Mum was horrified when I said was sending my kids to a catholic school....felt better when I explained there were no nuns ha ha.<br />Nowadays things aren't like that at all. Luckily!!! I am married to a divorcee, my kids were both born out of wedlock and remain and will remain till they choose for themselves un baptised...and I don't believe any just or loving God would not take them in should the unthinkable happen...and neither does our priest...(although he dosen't know them that well, only their sweet little church faces, ha ha)<br />Reconciiation is what confession is now called and it is just that..a chance to reconcile your misgivings.misdeads/sins with someone (like an awesome couselling session) and I don't think they do penance any more...I never have, but have had many a reconciliation over the last few months, lol. I think those things are more old schools, however it might be different when Father sees the 70 year old ladies or something, or maybe thats soemthing that different with each priest?<br />And no, it dosesn't say to pray to Mary or to the saints, however like I said before, its "Pray for us" that we ask them...Mary, after all, has Gods ear I think, lol<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by fattartsrock</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10366">susieq</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 November 2010 at 6:46pm<br /><br />I like the ritual of the anglican church too, just like you like the catholic rituals fattartsrock. I also am not comfortable in the happy clappy churches and congratulaitons on your getting comfirmed fattartsrock]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10366">susieq</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 November 2010 at 6:45pm<br /><br />I like the ritual of the anglican church too, just like you like the catholic rituals fattartsrock. I also am not comfortable in the happy clappy churches and congratulaitons on your getting comfirmed fattartsrock]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 November 2010 at 3:34pm<br /><br />Was the anglican church not fairly "traditional" too Fattartsrock?  I actually haven't been in one of those before I don't think, but I have heard that they are fairly alike to the catholic church, just the differences in the beliefs as mentioned above?  My MIL moved from the catholic church she went to (as they shunned her when her husband left her and divorced her - against her will) to an Anglican church and she loves it.  I don't think she ever really worried about the nitty gritty stuff like the purgatory and the saints stuff and all that tho, some people are just happy enough gliding along without all the detail, which is probably a good way to be too, just there to praise God!<br />Appreciate your open mind to know the differences tho, it is great to be like that, and again, I hope I didn't come across too short! <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[A new debate. Religi&#111;n. : Fattartsrock Yeah dep on the catholic...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 November 2010 at 3:28pm<br /><br />Fattartsrock Yeah dep on the catholic church how much they push certain things (just like other churches with the whole water baptism thing, some churches are big on it some aren't, or some have gay ministers some don't, etc).<br />There is as you say the purgatory thing, which is not biblical.<br />The other book they added to the bible (where it says specifically in the bible not to add or take away from it).<br />Mary - it doesn't say anywhere in the bible to pray to Mary.  Specifically it says there is 1 intercessor between God and man and that is Jesus.  So we pray directly to Him!<br />Again the saints - my point above - at no point in the bible does it say to pray to the saints, they have no power to save.<br />Confession - again, does not say we need to do this in the bible.  And the penance (hail marys etc) that is given in confession, Jesus paid for our sins for once and for all (past and present) so why would we need to do penance?<br />Communion - again, we go directly to Jesus with that, no need for a priest to do it for us.<br />Infant baptism - yes other churches baptise babies, but it is seen as a dedication by the parents and not as a "salvation badge", because no child can choose at the age of a baby what they want to believe.  So yes as parents we can dedicate and commit as parents to bring our children up in the christian way, but we have to accept they will make their own choice when the time comes.<br />Sorry if that seemed abit abrupt, was trying to get it out as short as I can, I know there are some other "smaller" differences too but these are the ones that I know quite well.<br />Kellyfer I do agree with wot you said too re the whole church thing and they suit different people for sure!  And I do think it is awesome that your church fattartsrock is one you feel at home in and has great people!  And I agree with the whole "wouldn't say picked the right or wrong church" thing, altho my dad would say no catholic is going to heaven I think he thinks foremost because they worship idols, for me I don't think it is that black and white.  It's not for us on earth to judge or say who will get into heaven or not, only God knows for sure, we just need to live by how we know God to be and how he commands us, and that takes time.  I do think though that if people are genuinely seeking and wishing to follow God, the only way we really have to Him is the bible, and what I go by is if it says it in the bible we should be doing it, and if it doesn't say it, then it's not right.  It takes alot of time and reading the bible and all that to get to that place though, and I must admit I have only been finding things out for myself instead of following dad's lead in the past few years.  It can be hard to study the bible for specific things, let alone just get into the habit of reading it every day.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24609">Kellyfer</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 November 2010 at 2:43pm<br /><br />The main difference between Catholic and protestant (all of the other denomination) churches is that Catholics believe that the eucharist, or communion is literally the body and blood of Christ after it has been blessed by the priest. Not as in the wafer turns into a bit of flesh, but that by taking communion you take Christ into your body. Wheras protestants believe that it is just a symbol, an act of obedience to do it because Jesus told his desciples to practise communion until his return. <br /><br />(This is the difference of belief that has caused countless wars over the course of history!!!!)<br /><br />There are other differences too, like you said Fattartsrock... mostly praying to Mary and the Saints, which non-Catholics disagree with on the grounds that it's against the commandment to not worship idols or graven images (whatever the phrasing). And there's the different rules about purgatory and limbo and all that. Also I think the idea of baby baptism (as a means of salvation for children) is a point of contention, but some protestant churches do that, so I don't think that's a specifically Catholic difference.<br /> <br />Personally I like the idea of having saints to pray to for specific needs, and that a woman is given a place of honour in the Catholic church - mainly for her ability to bear a (very special) child. <br />I find the rituals of the Catholic church particularly beautiful too. <br /><br />I definitely think it is about finding a church which is right for you, and as I've mentioned before the problem I have with religion is that I'm not one who's prepared to say I picked the right one and the others are all wrong. I'm pretty certain that if you ever get to the "pearly gates" God's not going to say "sorry, you picked the right God, but the wrong church". That'd be a bit mean I think. <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />I think the reason that there's so many different flavours is simply because we're all different individuals. Some people need church to be out-there and uplifting all the time (the "happy-clappy" brand), some like to have very specific rules and moral codes, some like it to be quiet and contemplative, and some like it to be a place where you can meet like-minded people and socialise.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10154">fattartsrock</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 November 2010 at 2:05pm<br /><br />No,  I'd be interested to hear?! <br />I persoanlly don't think its that much differnt to the anglican  church that I was brought up in, or other places I have worshiped - beliefs wise, but yeah, always keen to hear what others perceptions are.<br /><br />I persoanlly like the old fashioned ritual.<br /><br />A big one is people think we "worship" Mary like an idol....<br /><br />We pray to the saints, or ask for them to hear our prayer  and in particular Mary cos they have a more direct line to the Lord, Especially Mary!<br /><br />The whole pergatory stuff is a bit of a grey area too, and something they aren't really big on now, either, so Father A told me...]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 15 November 2010 at 11:14am<br /><br />I agree with you Fattartsrock re the happy clappy ones where you must be in the spirit and all that sort of stuff, as I have said before, some places take that to the extreme, but that suits some people too (not me either - my church comes from an open brethren background so is very bible believing and conservative on those things - but still very modern if that makes sense like big band and sub woofers and stuff hehe - not the closed brethren side that wear the head coverings and stuff). Tamaki does give christianity a bad name, I agree a priest or church leader should not make an idol of themselves!  Unfortunately the "bad christians" tend to make alot of publicity for themselves.<br />I have a good knowledge of what the catholics believe that is different to what other christians believe, but I'm not going to open up that can of worms :)]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10154">fattartsrock</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 14 November 2010 at 2:40pm<br /><br />I really feel like I have "come home" with my church. Its a wonderful place, filled with wonderful people (mostly, lol). I jumped into the community boots and all years ago when I enrolled my eldest at the parish pre school, and now he's at the school, and its just like one big happy supportive family. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25789">nathansmummy</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 14 November 2010 at 12:13pm<br /><br />Glad you get a lot out of your church fattarts... if it brings you closer to God, it's all that matters.<br /><br />I have been to a lot of those churches you have mentioned and I agree that some of the megachurches come across the way you suggest.  You've made some good points.<br /><br />I find it hard to find a church I feel really comfortable in, but will persevere because I want to bring my son up in a church and it helps me in my relationship with God.  I just want to be somewhere where I really feel part of a community.<br /><br />Kelly - I am really sad to hear about your friend.  I think your conclusions are pretty wise ones, and I agree with them too...<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by nathansmummy</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10154">fattartsrock</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 November 2010 at 4:57pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by CJsays" alt="Originally posted by CJsays" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>CJsays wrote:</strong><br /><br />Lil red you said  "brought up Catholic and my mum is very involved in the church but I stopped going as soon as I was allowed to and only go at Christmas. I simply don't believe in any of it and I can't make myself believe in it. I think faith is caused by something that is wired differently in your brain and not something that can be learnt."<br /><br />Not being totally against catholics, but my husband was brought up in the catholic church and hated it and had no faith (nor the rest of his siblings).  When he met me and one day ventured along to my church (with no pressure from me at all) he said he could not believe how different it was.  No rituals etc, and he said the leader fo the church seemed "real" and emotional about God etc, and he loved the sermons - instead of being repeated word for word from some book they talk about the history of the passage and how it relates to today and all that stuff.  So from my husaband's perspective, other churches are very different and more interactive and "alive" in todays time than the catholic churches he has been in.  Maybe this christmas you could try a different church and see what you think?<br />I also think that faith comes at a time in your life when you are ready for it, it is not wiring as such, altho I do understand why you would say that, as it does make some kind of sense too!  Some people you think would never have faith can have something happen and change and be a huge believer!  But I do agree it is something that can't be learnt.  I also think God can open people's eyes at the time that is right.</td></tr></table><br /><br />Im a freshly minted Catholic, as in I was confirmed yesterday. <br />I have been to many many different churches and your reasons for NOT liking the Catholic church are exactly my reasons for loving it. I REALLY dislike happy clappy churches, I feel uncomfortable and embarrassed, like its some kind of competition who can be the most "in the spirit". I don't think you need to be "out there" like that to be in a good place with The Lord. Just my opinion, though, people go where they feel most happy and in the zone and for me, its Mass, and I feel safe and happy knowing I can go anywhere anytime and Mass will be almost exactly the same. And I love the ritual and tradition, and I love that its not just one enigmatic preacher's version of the "good book" and how he translates it and his take onthe world today, but it is a ritual that is followed the world over  regardless of one man's opinion.<br />I have an intense dislike of "enigmatic preachers" likes of Brian Tamiki, as I feel that is a sin in itself, they become like an idol themselves and people worship them and not God. Just my opinion though!<br /><br />My thoughts are most likely coming from an infrquent visitor to those types of churches, so undeucated, just as people make huge uneducated guesses as to that Catholics believe and the rituals and stuff.<br /><br />Ineresting debate, guys!<br /><br />I'm happy to follow and beleive "blindly", after all, if I live my life in a good and happy manner just as I would regardless of religious beliefs, then I have nothing to lose, really, even if it all pans out to be soem kind of hoax.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 November 2010 at 1:20pm<br /><br />That is such a sad story Kelly, I feels o sorry for her wee family she left behind.  Sure does make no sense at all. <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 November 2010 at 12:56pm<br /><br />I have mentioned her before, but will again, my friend died 3 years ago of an undetected blood clot caused by her epidural, she was only 23, had been married 3 months and her little girl was only 3 weeks old. <br />It was a very very sh*tty thing to happen and I miss her everyday .....but I have never thought it was God's fault, or  even satan's...I just think its one of those awful, unfair things that sometimes happens in the world for no rhyme or reason (and I don't believe everything happens for a reason , I don't find any reason in her dying) its just one of those things that happens that you can question and question, but it wont ever make sense.....]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20248">clover</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 November 2010 at 12:08pm<br /><br />I don't think any of you come across as bashers, you're passionate about what you believe in and I think that is great.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 November 2010 at 11:52am<br /><br />Rachfizz I meant to say too, I agree with most of wot you said in your post top of the page, esp re the lukewarm part!<br />Only thing I would say is sometimes there is a mistaken emphasis put on the "fruits of the spirit" which is not necessarily right.<br />I agree gifts are very important.  But tongues is an interesting one, there are definitely 2 different camps on that.  From what I read in the new testament, there are 2 different kind of tongues that are biblical (which is the standard to go by).  The first lot was when they were in the beginning preaching to people who spoke different languages, and amazingly everyone heard the tongues spoken in their language.  Now that definitely is not the tongues we hear today.  The second tongues in the bible is when the holy spirit came on the apostles to preach etc, and it clearly states in the bible they are to ONLY be used for interpretation and teaching for the church, and that tongues should be spoken by 1 person 1 by one and interpreted at that time, and if there is no interpreter, to be silent.  From what I have seen in churches that "speak tongues" it is people that go off all together and bable away at once and there is no sense in it (I am saying that very "tongue in cheek" meaning no offence, esp since my parents used to do exactly that speaking in tongues in their earlier churches, then found out for themselves it is not biblical), which is not what God intended.  I personally think there probably is a time when tongues will be used again, but I have never been in a church where it has been interpreted, or if someone has "tried to" they have been doing it under their own sails and have not been 100% right (which is the other test, if it is of God it is 100% right, nothing less).  Particularly Corinthians 14 that you quoted speaks directly to this.  Again this is my opinion, from my own questioning, and from the way I read it in the bible.  I actually see myself as a tiny bit of a fence sitter because I don't think it is outright wrong,b ut I think the way it is used at the moment is not the way God intended.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 November 2010 at 10:54am<br /><br />And clover alot of people have instances where they can show examples of families where it turns upside down.  I can't see how a child being abused is Gods plan, more like it is satans plan coming to fruition in the father and unfortunately she is the victim of it.  Her poor mother sounds like she has had a rough time of it too.  Unfortunately just because you are a christian it does not mean you suddenly get a pass to live an easy life, often it can be harder.  One of my friends says he just can't become a christian because he saw his neighbour who was very christian lose his kids in an accident, and then his wife to cancer.  He couldn't comprehend how God allowed it to happen.  Unfortunately things like that do to christians and non-christians alike, and we have no human explanation as to why.  Some things you can see why later (like Greg Laurie the paster whose 20odd year old son was killed in a car crash last year, he has gone through massive pain in the loss of his son, but has some peace knowing he is in heaven, and also has found he is much better at ministering to people dealing with loss like that now) but some you will never know why, and it may be because something terrible might of been going to happen to them if they lived, or who knows!<br />And yeah there is plenty of cults and sects that do brainwash people I agree.<br />Nothing worse than being bashed by someone determined to "win you over no matter wot", I am for sure a christian and really enjoy discussing these sorts of things with non-christians!  Hope I don't come across as a basher. <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 November 2010 at 9:55am<br /><br />Lil red yes am freaked about dying, the pain and all that (just like the impending childbirth coming up!!!).  I wonder if one day I will get a peace about that like I have been accepting of the childbirth pain as time goes on?<br />2 boys, your questions:<br />Yeah I know he supposedly wiped us out once before, but why not just start again, all over from scratch. Cos really we are a pretty crap version aren't we? <br />He didn't completely wipe us out because He loves us!  Like if you had a son who was really bad and always in jail etc, I am sure you would still love him and hope he would turn around one day, you would want to give him chance after chance!<br />I also wonder why he only sent one person/himself/his son to one place on earth. Surely being as almighty as he is he would of realised people in america and australia and even Europe would not know anything of it for many many years after he had been. So were those people who didn't know him to be able to worship him just condemned, what were they? collatoral damage? <br />He sent Jesus because he was the only one who could give eternal life and be a sacrifice for our sins, being God.  The word did spread, but I can't answer you how it got to other nations or when cuz I don't know there is no record.  But as we all came from Adam and Eve (and then Noah's family), every single family from those roots had the chance to accept and believe in God and know about God.  They obviously eventually split off to other countries and stuff, but they all came from that family that knew about God.<br />And how did people get from being from Adam and Eve to then being a multitude of different colours, spread all over the planet believing a mulittude of different things. <br />Like how albinos and stuff I think - so that is how the different coloured races came to the world.  I could be wrong!  They believe different things because people choose to make up their own gods and follow them, and people get suckered into that (like cults, there is always people that fall for them!).<br />Also why would he create animals that kill each other, that's a pretty sickening thing to create if you think about it too much. <br />Humans kill animals for food too.  But I get your point, it does seem a little odd to create!  I have never really thought about that!<br />I also don't see why we would all be so similar. Animal, plant, bird, reptile we all have 7 things in common, we are all carbon based. Why? Makes more sense that we all came from the same thing and just evolved in different directions than being made by a god. Cos why would god do that? Why wouldn't he have some carbon based and some based on different minerals, why not some breathing nitrogen and so on? And why make a planet that is designed such that it has earthquakes and volcanoes and landslides and hurricanes and tornadoes and lightening storms? what's that about? <br />All I can answer to that is the mind (and imagination!) of God is far above what we can even comprehend.  I can't wait to see what heaven is like if it's meant to be more amazing than what He has created on earth!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 November 2010 at 9:55am<br /><br />Ooops DH said hawkings did not come up with big bang theory, he did radiation and black holes. My mistake.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 November 2010 at 9:49am<br /><br />He recently said that he know thinks the existence of god is unlikely from what they have discovered. This is what I mean by people questioning their beliefs once they discover things. He could have just thought, well that doesn't sit well I"ll ignore it.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24609">Kellyfer</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 November 2010 at 9:18am<br /><br />two_boys... good answer lol. I guess if God was within the realms of our understanding he wouldn't be so all powerful. I suppose that's the point where faith just needs to kick in. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20248">clover</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 November 2010 at 8:34am<br /><br />A few random ponderings.......<br /><br />My best friend is/was Catholic, she went to church as a child, to a Catholic school etc.  Her father sexually abused her for 7 years.  How could that be part of "gods plan".  Her father spent a very short time in jail and then got out and set up in a house on the taxpayer dime (criticism of NZ justice system not "god").  After an accident with a pot of oil her mothers house burnt down and they lost everything.  Again, part of "gods plan"?  Her mother got remarried, to a man who developed a gambling problem and nearly lost her house.  She divorced him and now in her mid 60s still has a huge mortgage to repay and works as a caregiver to get by.  Again, part of "gods plan"?  If so, I'd say he's a pretty sucky god, especially since they were part of his "flock".<br /><br />If you were Joseph, wouldn't you be pretty pi$$ed that Jesus is always referred to as gods son?<br /><br />I watched a program on the klu klux klan (sp) last night, those lovely people now have klans that are branches of christianity, have churches, summer camps for kids etc etc.  An extreme example I know but exactly how religon can be used to brainwash people.<br /><br />No comment on the evolution v creation debate, personally I believe on evolution but have done absolutely no research to back that up at all.<br /><br />Oh and just to clarify my positon, obviously from the above I'm a non believer, but I have no problem with others having faith, I also don't have an issue with people approaching or talking to me about their faith so long as the conversation continues for as long as I feel comfortable and they are as accepting of my views as I am of theirs.<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by clover</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 November 2010 at 7:04am<br /><br />“If we find the answer &#091;the unified theory&#093;, it would be the ultimate triumph of human reason -- for we would know the mind of God."” -  Stephen Hawking<br /><br /><br />There you go kellyfer (for those that don't know he came up with the big bang theory).<br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24609">Kellyfer</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 11:00pm<br /><br />oops... posted before i was ready lol... ^ RachFizz, I'm sorry but there is no possible way that this is true.<br /><br />I can't really join in on this whole evolution/creation debate, simply because I don't have any real knowledge of biological processes, physics, or anything else that comes into it. It's one of those things that in my opinion isn't a make or breaker for religion, because it's not something that is relevant for me today. There are so many creation stories around the world, and from an anthropological point of view, it all comes down to a yearning of humans to need to know/explain where we come from. Nothing can ever be proven, coz whoever was there at the time isn't anymore.<br /><br />I do have a question though (which maybe will start another tangent)... why did God just not create a world where it was not possible for us to "fall". And the answer is not so we could have free will, because what happens when we get to heaven? There is no sin, so what does that do to the free will theory? That's one thing I really struggle with. The presence of sin is a good explanation for suffering in the world, but why could there not just be a perfect world without that vital flaw?<br /><br />ETA re: creation/evolution... I don't think the two are mutually exclusive, I don't see any reason why God (or a higher power, whatever) couldn't have had any hand in evolution or natural selection or whatever you want to call it, or the big bang for that matter. <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Kellyfer</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24609">Kellyfer</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 10:53pm<br /><br />-I believe that God is good and just. I believe everyone gets a chance to hear the gospel, and choose whether to believe or not. <br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 10:10pm<br /><br />I'm obviously not making my point cos people are not getting what I'm saying. <br /><br />To a degree I think science and religion are opposite, one is based on research and questioning the other is based on belief. That to me is a big difference. Doens't mean I don't understand that some people are religious and still enjoy/study/use science, the same as I'm sure lots of scientists who agree with evolution, big bang theory etc probably still believe in higher powers.<br />I see it as some people use science to study the world and draw conclusion from what they find (and maybe adjust their beliefs accordingly), others read the bible then try to make the science fit  what is in it and disagree with anything that doesn't fit right. Or they interpret the results to suit the bible/their beliefs rather than questioning their beliefs when the results aren't desirable. <br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20742">Delli</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 10:09pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by LittleBug" alt="Originally posted by LittleBug" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>LittleBug wrote:</strong><br /><br />Delli, random gene mutations and natural selection are not capable of much, which is why it can’t explain major features of organisms. Variety at the level of species, and maybe genus, family and order, can perhaps be explained by natural processes. But not major class features.</td></tr></table><br /><br />I guess thats where we would have to disagree and it's probably due to me believing the world is much much older than a few thousand years <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> Mutations and natural selection may not be able to do much over a couple of thousand years - but over billions of years they can do a heck of a lot.<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by LittleBug" alt="Originally posted by LittleBug" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>LittleBug wrote:</strong><br /><br />No cases of adaptation are due to complex new features, only faults in the old features. I can’t think of a way to say it without saying “no new genetic information”. Only faulty old information. Which is fine, that leads to adaptation.But life depends on many protein complexes where multiple proteins bind together in specific ways. Generating a single new cellular protein-protein binding site is far beyond the possibilities of evolution. At least that’s what Behe wrote about.</td></tr></table><br /><br />Still struggling to understand your theory on this one and I think it may come down to the timeline thing again. <br /><br />I'm not sure how you distinguish between complex new features and faults in the old features. The way I understand it, is that faults in the old features can cause complex new features. That goes for the protein-protein binding sites as well. The probability of generating a completely new protein-protein interaction in one fell swoop (three or four mutations occurring simultaneously) is very low. However, if it occurs gradually over time, small mutations, step by step - it is entirely within the realms of evolutionary possibility.<br /><br />I know genetics and evolution is very very complicated and not at all simple. It's just the "No new genes" theory of yours that has me confused.<br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Delli</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20418">Hopes</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 9:35pm<br /><br />It still sounds like you're seeing science as the opposite of religion, two_boys. God gave us the ability and intelligence to study our world. The choice people make is not whether they'll use the tool God's given us (science) but whether they actually believe in him. That's the free will bit. If you don't, of course you're going to come to different conclusions. He hasn't given anyone tools that have led them the wrong way, rather he's given people the option to believe in him or reach other conclusions. Some people have chosen that option, that's all.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 9:29pm<br /><br />What evidence is there that we were perfect? Have they dug up remains where we were more complete? Less flawed? I highly doubt it otherwise that would be what scientists tout. I think if these things were real then science would find evidence to support it not evidence that contradicts it.<br /><br />Earlier on people said that god gives us tools so that we can make medicine so he must also be the one giving the tools to scientists to study the universe. why give them tools that lead them the wrong way?<br /><br /><br />Rachfizz everyone at this time might get a chance to hear gospel. Although i would argue some restrictive countries that control media it's probably harder and some remote communities still dont' but the vast majority do have some knowledge it exists so could look into if they decided. But what about the red indians before america was discovered or the inca's or the maori. How would they have known the gospel before missionaries came along? So what was their fate? doomed cos they didn't know who they should be worshipping?]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18551">LittleBug</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 8:43pm<br /><br />Two_boys, you say “I'm happy to have things in the world I don't know about, I just don't feel the need to put an imaginary being there to explain it.”<br />I feel kind of the same, except I put it differently: I’m happy to have things in the world I don’t know about, I just don’t feel the need to disprove a God to explain it.<br /><br />As for “And how did people get from being from Adam and Eve to then being a multitude of different colours, spread all over the planet believing a mulittude of different things.”  That’s exactly what evolution is proposing anyway, isn’t it? <br /><br />If you accept that the features seen in modern animals are largely the result of original created design, expressed and ‘fine-tuned’ to fit the environment by subsequent adaptation, through natural selection in a fallen world of death and struggle, then the wisdom of the creator is obvious in providing the original organisms with the potential to adapt and ‘fit’ a wide range of habitats and lifestyles. I think that when created, the human genome was perfect, but after we ‘fell’ from God’s grace, things like aging, death, disease, mutation etc. were introduced and natural selection caused the ‘kinds’ of animals mentioned in the bible to break down into more specific groups. For example, a kind of bear had the genetic potential to adapt into all the different types of bears that we see now. To me, that makes a lot more sense than the alternative evolutionary theory.<br /><br />As for all the other questions, I don’t really have lots of answers… I came to believe in God through personal experience, then read up on the bible to find out what I was dealing with, then delved deeper into the science behind creation and evolution when I was faced with the challenge of some people saying “How can you be a Christian but believe in science?” I love science, a.k.a. finding out how things work. I also hate science, a.k.a. finding a blue puzzle piece and telling the world that you have worked out the puzzle is a picture of the sky, when it could just as easily be a picture of a lake.<br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18551">LittleBug</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 8:28pm<br /><br />Delli, random gene mutations and natural selection are not capable of much, which is why it can’t explain major features of organisms. Variety at the level of species, and maybe genus, family and order, can perhaps be explained by natural processes. But not major class features. A good book to try and get an understanding of what I mean is The Edge of Evolution, by Michael Behe. He kind of picks it down a bit. One example he used was a person infected with HIV material – uncountable point mutations occur tens of thousands of times per day, but no gene duplication has occurred leading to new function. No cases of adaptation are due to complex new features, only faults in the old features. I can’t think of a way to say it without saying “no new genetic information”. Only faulty old information. Which is fine, that leads to adaptation. But life depends on many protein complexes where multiple proteins bind together in specific ways. Generating a single new cellular protein-protein binding site is far beyond the possibilities of evolution. At least that’s what Behe wrote about.<br /><br />People that believe the world is flat because of bible verses need to unpick it a bit more. In order to understand whether meaning is literal or not, you would need to examine the words in context in their original Hebrew or Greek, and work out if the book was written metaphorically, phenomenologically or as a literal historical narrative – I certainly don’t have time to learn Hebrew or Greek myself so I’m going off what respected theologians have surmised, which is that the original meanings were referring to the four corners of Israel, in some books, and the four directions (N,S,W,E) in the other books.<br /><br />ETA: Hopes, I think the same as you.<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by LittleBug</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20418">Hopes</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 7:47pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by RachFizz" alt="Originally posted by RachFizz" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>RachFizz wrote:</strong><br /><br /><p>-I also don't understand the Adam and Eve to different races thing.</td></tr></table><br /><br />That's the kind of evolution (as it were) I believe in - genetic variation. The same way, I assume, evolutionists would suggest that humans evolved with different skin colours etc. A group would become isolated from the others (perhaps they travelled to a new area, whatever). Perhaps they tended to have dark skin anyway, and moved to a bot climate where that was an advantage, so people with dark skin were more likely to reproduce... do that for a while, and you get a race of darker-skinned people. Of course, believing the Bible, I'd say the seperating into different groups and moving away over the rest of the world probably started with the tower of Babel.<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Hopes</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23205">RachFizz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 7:33pm<br /><br /><P><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by two_boys" alt="Originally posted by two_boys" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>two_boys wrote:</strong><br /><br /><BR>Yeah I know he supposedly wiped us out once before, but why not just start again, all over from scratch. Cos really we are a pretty crap version aren't we? <BR><BR>I also wonder why he only sent one person/himself/his son to one place on earth. Surely being as almighty as he is he would of realised people in america and australia and even Europe would not know anything of it for many many years after he had been. So were those people who didn't know him to be able to worship him just condemned, what were they? collatoral damage? And how did people get from being from Adam and Eve to then being a multitude of different colours, spread all over the planet believing a mulittude of different things. <BR>Also why would he create animals that kill each other, that's a pretty sickening thing to create if you think about it too much. <BR><BR>I also don't see why we would all be so similar. Animal, plant, bird, reptile we all have 7 things in common, we are all carbon based. Why? Makes more sense that we all came from the same thing and just evolved in different directions than being made by a god. Cos why would god do that? Why wouldn't he have some carbon based and some based on different minerals, why not some breathing nitrogen and so on? And why make a planet that is designed such that it has earthquakes and volcanoes and landslides and hurricanes and tornadoes and lightening storms? what's that about? <BR><BR>I'm genuinely curious, cos I just don't get it. <BR></td></tr></table> </P><P>Haha I think you already know what everyone will say to your questions <IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"></P><P>-I believe that God is good and just. I believe everyone gets a chance to hear the gospel, and choose whether to believe or not. . </P><P>-Or it makes sense that we all have the same designer <IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0">&nbsp;I don't think other elements would work because they don't have the right properties.</P><P>-I also don't understand the Adam and Eve&nbsp;to different races thing. I don't get how 'Cain went out and found a wife'... from where!?</P><P>-I don't know why God had a 'people' and everyone else he was just not interested in or something??</P><P>But I do believe that He will make everything right in the end. There's been a reason for everything I am sure.</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23205">RachFizz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 7:19pm<br /><br /><P>Hope no one takes offence here, but this is my opinion and I've put some scriptures there to back it up so you know I'n not talking crap lol.</P><P>This comes from my previous church who were a tad on the extreme side sometimes, but if you're gonna be a christian, wouldn't it be better to be hardout than lukewarm? Rev 3:15-17</P><P>I spose our church could be considered happy clappy? No one claps but there a frequently people jumping around (the night service is pretty youth focused- the music is mostly hillsongs and planetshakers) and people with their arms in the air in worship. It's a biblical concept- praise and worship and I believe it's really important. I&nbsp;pray in tongues and yup it may seem weird from the outside, but I believe we should be embracing the gifts of the spirit, not ignoring them. I think if God went out of his way to give us the Holy Spirit, then it must be pretty important. </P><P>1 Corinthians 12-14; Romans 12; Ephesians 4; and 1 Peter 4.</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 6:58pm<br /><br />I haven't looked that far into it littlebug, I thought they had found neandathols (my spelling is awful) and so forth. That body in the ice and other findings. I was never taught evolution at school, I think I'm too old for it to have been on any curriculum. I didn't learn it in history cos we did 1710-1945 and I didn't learn it in biology, I don't ever remember it being taught. Might have been, school was about a 100 years ago now so my memory is a little hazy. (I also didn't go to school in nz, so we are talking entirely different curriculums anyway)<br /><br />CJsays, like you don't know where god comes from I don't know where monkeys come from, or where the earth or the sun or anything else comes from. I'm happy to have things in the world I don't know about, I just don't feel the need to put an imaginary being there to explain it.<br /><br />Yeah I know he supposedly wiped us out once before, but why not just start again, all over from scratch. Cos really we are a pretty crap version aren't we?<br /><br />I also wonder why he only sent one person/himself/his son to one place on earth. Surely being as almighty as he is he would of realised people in america and australia and even Europe would not know anything of it for many many years after he had been. So were those people who didn't know him to be able to worship him just condemned, what were they? collatoral damage? And how did people get from being from Adam and Eve to then being a multitude of different colours, spread all over the planet believing a mulittude of different things.<br />Also why would he create animals that kill each other, that's a pretty sickening thing to create if you think about it too much.<br /><br />I also don't see why we would all be so similar. Animal, plant, bird, reptile we all have 7 things in common, we are all carbon based. Why? Makes more sense that we all came from the same thing and just evolved in different directions than being made by a god. Cos why would god do that? Why wouldn't he have some carbon based and some based on different minerals, why not some breathing nitrogen and so on? And why make a planet that is designed such that it has earthquakes and volcanoes and landslides and hurricanes and tornadoes and lightening storms? what's that about?<br /><br />I'm genuinely curious, cos I just don't get it.<br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20742">Delli</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 5:45pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by LittleBug" alt="Originally posted by LittleBug" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>LittleBug wrote:</strong><br /><br />With regards to evolution at a cellular level - I believe in microevolution, how could you not – as in genetic mutation (including deletion, addition, transfer of DNA). Of course species change over time as a result of these adaptions. Anyway the main issue isn’t the size of the change but the direction. When a species adapts to their environment, they become more ‘specialised’ than their ancestors, which happens through natural selection. No new genes are added. So far all of the observed changes involve sorting or loss of genetic information, not an increase in genetic information – this is not about whether mutations were as a result of transfer, deletion or addition of DNA, if you can understand that. A gain of genetic information is what would be required for microbe to human evolution to be credible. A population that has ‘adapted’ has bred out old traits, so is less able to adapt to future environmental changes. The pool of genetic potential is getting smaller – a loss of information. So I don't believe in macroevolution, which is the whole goo soup to human evolutionary idea.</td></tr></table><br /><br />Sorry to threadjack a little but I'm intrigued. I think we have different definitions of what genetic information means and how it can be "lost" and "gained". <br /><br />If say a gene was duplicated and then later on down the track a point mutation occurred in the duplicated copy that produces a desirable phenotype - is this not an increase in genetic information?<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by LittleBug" alt="Originally posted by LittleBug" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>LittleBug wrote:</strong><br /><br />And as an aside, the Bible has always said that the earth is round and is 'hung on nothing', even when scientists of the day thought that the world was flat. I don't think religion and science are opposite at all.</td></tr></table><br /><br />Ah, but as aside to your aside <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> that depends on your interpretation of the Bible. If the world HAD turned out to be flat, you would be able to say that the Bible knew this all along due to the many references to "the four corners of the Earth" and "the ends of the Earth". Indeed, there are still people today who believe that the world is flat because of those sorts of phrases in the Bible despite scientific evidence to the contrary.<br /><br />The way I see it, and I hope this doesn't offend too many people, is that it is a bit like the Psychic shows in front of an audience of people where they ask "Does anyone in the audience have someone who has recently passed away whose name started with a P?". Most times, there will be someone. If not, the psychic can always say "P? Did I say P? Maybe I heard wrong and it was a T. Anybody? There you are. What was their name? Theodore. Theo says he loves you and forgives you."<br /><br />They are vague enough for their words to be open to interpretation but a lot of the time it will resonate with someone - "Oh my god, Theo and I had a fight/I was keeping a secret/I ate his last burger ring just before he passed. It's so good to know he forgives me!"<br /><br />I know, that is a very very simplistic version - sorry! Trying to fend off a 14month old climber and think and write at the same time. Hopefully I don't come back and think "Oh no - What have I written!" after tea. <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Delli</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18551">LittleBug</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 5:32pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by two_boys" alt="Originally posted by two_boys" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>two_boys wrote:</strong><br /><br />Yeah I'm not sure I go as far as believing we come from gloop. I guess this is the problem, I say I think evolution is true and that is taken as I believe we come from gloop, which is a bit of an out there idea and is only one tiny part of the theory. I think we most likely did come from monkeys, they have a lot of acheological(sp?) evidence for that, they are only missing one step.<br /></td></tr></table><br /><br />I would love to learn of the archaeological evidence of that! There is actually very little evidence out there. I know that all of the examples that were in our school science books had already been proven to be either falsely pieced together, or just false altogether, when I was still at school! Who would have thought there are big bucks in finding the "missing link". I remember being pretty shocked that they are still teaching archaealogical finds, at high school level, which are blantant lies that have been uncovered. The only excuse that I came across are that they are good examples of what clearly is yet to be found. Uh huh. I can't believe they are still teaching a lot of them at university level for the same reasons as well. It is all so glossed over. When a "missing link" is found it makes the headlines, but when it's proven false, it lands a small notice on page 83. Anyway, rant rant.<br /><br />While I love nutting out science stuff, I wouldn't even begin to guess at where God came from. Maybe he didn't come from anywhere, maybe he just always was, but our human brains can't comprehend it because in our physical world everything is finite and every reaction has a cause. Maybe God didn't always exist. No idea. But I'm convinced he exists, and feel the need to be right with him.<br /><br />I'm not scared of where I will go after I die. I am scared of the process of dying (whether I will be in pain), but not after. I am scared for where my family and friends will be going. And I'm sad even when people die that I think will be in heaven (not that anyone but God could know what's in someone elses heart), because I miss them and I'm selfish like that. Just like I'm sad when friends/family leave the country after visiting.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19544">GuestGuest</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 4:39pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by CJsays" alt="Originally posted by CJsays" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>CJsays wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br />I agree with your questions about what was before us, when did He start, what made Him, my mind just cannot comprehend, and those are questions I know will never get answered till I get to heaven and can ask.  I am content to wait till then for those ones to be answered.  Maybe I am too relaxed, but things that don't affect me right here and now I can wait for answers on (like dinosaurs and stuff)!</td></tr></table><br /><br />So if you are 100% sure there is a heaven does that mean you aren't afraid of dying and in fact look forward to it? Because let's face it, heaven sounds like a pretty fantastic place! And does that also mean that you aren't upset when others die because you know they are having a great old time up there? (sorry lots of questions &#091;:)&#093; ) ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 4:31pm<br /><br />Ahh I see, the Equippers Church is round NZ, seems they are a mostly "pentecostal" kinda church from their statement of belief ont he website, believing in the signs like tongues and stuff. so fairly "out there"!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 4:27pm<br /><br />Hmm 2 boys so if you believe we came from monkeys, then where did monkeys originally come from?  Gloop if that theory is right too!<br />Never heard of equippers hmmm.  Another new strain emerging perhaps!  Must google it and find out!<br />Says in the bible that God made us for His pleasure, and to praise Him.  He gets great joy out of us. He did wipe us out at one stage in the flood where sin was so bad, he just kept Noah's family who were the only ones living right.  But He is a merciful God and is always giving us chances, and doesn't wish it that any of us should perish.<br />I agree with your questions about what was before us, when did He start, what made Him, my mind just cannot comprehend, and those are questions I know will never get answered till I get to heaven and can ask.  I am content to wait till then for those ones to be answered.  Maybe I am too relaxed, but things that don't affect me right here and now I can wait for answers on (like dinosaurs and stuff)!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 4:10pm<br /><br />Yeah I'm not sure I go as far as believing we come from gloop. I guess this is the problem, I say I think evolution is true and that is taken as I believe we come from gloop, which is a bit of an out there idea and is only one tiny part of the theory. I think we most likely did come from monkeys, they have a lot of acheological(sp?) evidence for that, they are only missing one step.<br /><br />I actually have a dvd on creation theory, I should probably give it a watch to see what it's actually all about cos I didn't think it had any scientific foundation at all. I thought it was just god went poof and here we are.<br /><br />My friends are equippers, I rememberd the name, they call themselves happy clappers <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />I wonder if god is real why he bothered to make us? What's the point? and why didn't he make a less flawed version or just wipe us out and start again (get it right next time) If I was god I would find something better to do with my time.  And what was there before he made it? where did he come from? what made god? Sure science can't explain a lot but then neither can religion. <br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19544">GuestGuest</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 3:52pm<br /><br />I agree with that about going at Christmas time. It's standing room only at Mum's church on Christmas Eve whereas they are lucky to be half full most Sundays. I only go because it makes mum happy <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 3:16pm<br /><br />Hehe no Lilbug, that's why I did "loony" like that, meaning more that people who really get into that side of it and investigate it because they are really interested in it.  It's good to know those people because they help explain how they came up with why the bible is right on these things.  I am finding I am more of a "black and white" "loony", but I still see the grey in things too, if that makes any kind of sense!  No the door knockers and street people are a different breed, I don't know how they get the "balls" for doing that!<br />I agree re the happy clappers to a point too, but I see the happy clapper churches as more the speak in tongues sort of ones that go over the top, not sure if that is wot you mean or not?  Hehe at the small church we go to there is 1 particular lady who keeps saying "praise the Lord" and I find that abit random!  Probably because I am so not the kind of person to speak out like that, so find in unconfortable when others do too!  I think there is a church that suits everyone tho - from the "staid and traditional" to the "out there"!<br />Yup alot of people have some amazing "coincidences" happen to them that is for sure.  I wouldn't expect them to attend church just cuz of somethign big happening to them.  I reckon church is something that people should attend after they really feel a connection with God and have a genuine desire to want to know more.  Christmas and Easter church attendance in my view is a waste of time, why would people bother turning up for something they don't really believe in?  I personally avoid those services because I don't like how "commercial" they have become.  I think church attendance should really only be for people who are really seeking more answers, or are curious, or are christians and actually want to go and learn more about God and praise Him, and how to act like a christian (hehe).  That's my personal view anyway <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19544">GuestGuest</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 2:41pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by CJsays" alt="Originally posted by CJsays" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>CJsays wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br />Not being totally against catholics, but my husband was brought up in the catholic church and hated it and had no faith (nor the rest of his siblings).  When he met me and one day ventured along to my church (with no pressure from me at all) he said he could not believe how different it was.  No rituals etc, and he said the leader fo the church seemed "real" and emotional about God etc, and he loved the sermons - instead of being repeated word for word from some book they talk about the history of the passage and how it relates to today and all that stuff.  So from my husaband's perspective, other churches are very different and more interactive and "alive" in todays time than the catholic churches he has been in.  Maybe this christmas you could try a different church and see what you think?<br />I also think that faith comes at a time in your life when you are ready for it, it is not wiring as such, altho I do understand why you would say that, as it does make some kind of sense too!  Some people you think would never have faith can have something happen and change and be a huge believer!  But I do agree it is something that can't be learnt.  I also think God can open people's eyes at the time that is right.</td></tr></table><br /><br />On the first point, I have attended what I call "Happy Clapper" churches as well and had an even bigger problem with them. To be honest I would rather attend a Catholic Church which is structured and boring and where people aren't over the top about it! I cringe when everyone starts singing and praising the lord etc <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />On your second point, I have had amazing coincidental things happen at different stages of my life which has made me go "wow, there's something bigger going on here" but I've never considered that "God" or considered attending church because of it. It's just the incredible amazing peculiarity that's Life! <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18551">LittleBug</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 2:36pm<br /><br />TheKelly - I love the Big Bang Theory too! Hilarious, never miss an episode <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" border="0"> Sheldon is awesome, and since DH is in love with DC comics superheroes, he is always green with envy at the t-shirts he is wearing. Lol <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> <br /><br /><br />ETA:  CJsays, hope you don't think I'm an evolution/creation loony, haha. I just found it really interesting when I was studying it all at uni, and I'm finding this thread really interesting. I don't accost people in the streets or anything <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by LittleBug</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18551">LittleBug</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 2:34pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by two_boys" alt="Originally posted by two_boys" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>two_boys wrote:</strong><br /><br />Again, I didn't say anyone was stupid.<br /><br />I thought evolution had been proven at cellular levels even if not the whole evolutionary theory. I.e humans from monkeys. I'm not sure I believe big bang theory, afterall it is only theory and not being a physicist I wouldn't really know, I don't have a great understanding of it all so I wouldn't say I believe big bang theory just I believe it could be plausible as lots of people far more intelligent than me and have spent decades researching it, the same as evolution theory. Although to me that one does seem quite obvious, I think you can see it by just looking around at everything in world. Although I"m open to the mutation idea as well, seems depressing though, is like we are just degrading away, lossing more and more genes.<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0"> . <br /><br />Scientific means of measuring things, be it the age of the earth, the distance to the sun, etc etc are constantly evolving. When/if they find better methods they revise their ideas, their thoughts of how the world is made. Like going from thinking it's flat, to thinking its round, to thinking it's actually slightly pear shaped. This is what I like about science and why I choose to hold it in higher regard. It questions itself it doesn't find an answer and say yep job done, it continually questions and grows and develops. When it comes up with a theory it then goes all out to prove that theory. Religion is the opposite, it says this is what happened now just believe it. I think I'm like Little Red said, my brain just can't do that. I can't just believe something without some sort of prove, which of course would defeat the purpose of faith as you have to have faith which is why god doens't just reveal himself to us all, and round and round we go.<br /><br />I choose to believe the earth is millions years old, geotech scientists use the age of the earth when they look at fault lines and along with other factors work out how likely things are to go again. They say the darfield fault line is a once in 16000 year event. I would much rather believe that than have their calculation use 6000 years instead of millions. Would probably mean it's due to go again this afternoon<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0"> <br /><br /></td></tr></table><br /><br />With regards to evolution at a cellular level - I believe in microevolution, how could you not – as in genetic mutation (including deletion, addition, transfer of DNA). Of course species change over time as a result of these adaptions. Anyway the main issue isn’t the size of the change but the direction. When a species adapts to their environment, they become more ‘specialised’ than their ancestors, which happens through natural selection. No new genes are added. So far all of the observed changes involve sorting or loss of genetic information, not an increase in genetic information – this is not about whether mutations were as a result of transfer, deletion or addition of DNA, if you can understand that. A gain of genetic information is what would be required for microbe to human evolution to be credible. A population that has ‘adapted’ has bred out old traits, so is less able to adapt to future environmental changes. The pool of genetic potential is getting smaller – a loss of information. So I don't believe in macroevolution, which is the whole goo soup to human evolutionary idea.<br /><br />Argh, I need about 50 pages to explain this properly. I don’t feel like I’m explaining this very well at all. My brain is feeling a bit overworked at the moment, with end of year assignments and exams coming up, and here I am procrastinating, of course, lol.<br /><br />It seems odd to me to say that you choose to hold science in higher regard than religion. Personally, I don't see why they need to be against each other. Evolution is not science, it's just one of the theories pitched out there. Creation theory is another scientific theory pitched out there. And as you said, it continually questions, grows and develops. That is just as true whether there is a God or not, I don't see why that would change anything.<br /><br />And as an aside, the Bible has always said that the earth is round and is 'hung on nothing', even when scientists of the day thought that the world was flat. I don't think religion and science are opposite at all.<br /><br />ETA: You don't need to believe in the earth being millions of years to old in order to predict when things may happen in relation to things in history. They just use a different timeline based on different assumptions. The assumptions that dating methods are based on is generally to do with levels of various elements that they are estimating would have been around millions of years ago, meaning that if things weren't that way, then the dating methods are all wrong. You can see how it's a vicious cycle.<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by LittleBug</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 2:27pm<br /><br />.....People using too many big words, hard for Kelly to understand.<br />RE the Big Bang theory,I watch it, its funny, that Sheldon cracks me up .....<br />*leaves thread to smarter people * <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23205">RachFizz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 2:12pm<br /><br /><P><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by two_boys" alt="Originally posted by two_boys" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>two_boys wrote:</strong><br /><br /><BR><BR><BR>The television was only one example, they were totally excluded from everything in the world except their church and other church people, when they have questions (normally ones we have asked) they ask the church, I would much rather they found stuff out for themselves and sought answers from many different places not just believe blindly what a pastor tells them but this how they were brought up. <BR>They also pay part of their wages to the church, it all just doesn't sit right with me, more so than other churches that are less restrictive, i.e Anglican, baptist etc. <BR><BR><BR></td></tr></table> </P><P>You're right it's very extreme and restrictive, I just hear people talk about 'brainwashing' in the church a lot, and anything where one idea is preached as true could be called brainwashing.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I'm probably more inclined towards 'old earth creationism' but I don't really know. Lol Delli and Littlebug- my best friend and her fiance had this exact same discussion (slash more of an argument for them lol)</P><P>I agree with you though, a lot of people accept evolutionary theory as truth just because the 'scientists' say so. All they do is observe and measure and extrapolate and I really don't think they have all the answers. It's true they question what they've found and everything, but til that day, it will be taught to the whole world. And you'd think they'd all have to agree to teach it as fact!</P><P>In a micro paper I did at Massey we had to learn two different phylogenetic trees (how all species are inter-related and where they branched off), one traced back using&nbsp;DNA or RNA or something (can't remember sorry) and the other using mitochondrial RNA. They can't both be right, yet the guy stood up there confident as. Made me feel like it was a complete waste of time lol.</P><P>In our science papers they would rant on about things having evolved a certain way, and everyone was like yes hmm hmm, and me and my friend are just marvelling at the complexity of life, going how can these processes just happen all by themselves? I believe evrything has like a template.. I think that probably came from philosophy study... it makes sense in my head lol.</P><P>I have a friend who used to post all this stuff on facebook all the time. Pretty much like F*** GOD, I am GOD look at this awesome s*** I did in south-east asia, ridiculing religion constantly. I think he even put up a cartoon of mohammed in some indecent act.. Well anyway there was this whole string of comments, someone said something about it not being real. I just asked: what is real anyway?</P><P>He said what is actual, blah blah blah. Can't remember. But i didn't comment again coz I think that everyone has faith in something. Some people put their faith into what is here and now and 'actual' and some people put their faith in the unseen.</P><P>I stopped trusting the here and now and actual when I did a knowledge and reality paper. Still don't understand why that guy was sooo flippin angry though. Maybe coz he's real into quantum physics and is having a hard time explaining things. THAT would be hardcore interesting to get into.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>Sorry for that whole meaningless ramble tho. Have too much time on my hands.</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 2:11pm<br /><br />Lil red you said  "brought up Catholic and my mum is very involved in the church but I stopped going as soon as I was allowed to and only go at Christmas. I simply don't believe in any of it and I can't make myself believe in it. I think faith is caused by something that is wired differently in your brain and not something that can be learnt."<br /><br />Not being totally against catholics, but my husband was brought up in the catholic church and hated it and had no faith (nor the rest of his siblings).  When he met me and one day ventured along to my church (with no pressure from me at all) he said he could not believe how different it was.  No rituals etc, and he said the leader fo the church seemed "real" and emotional about God etc, and he loved the sermons - instead of being repeated word for word from some book they talk about the history of the passage and how it relates to today and all that stuff.  So from my husaband's perspective, other churches are very different and more interactive and "alive" in todays time than the catholic churches he has been in.  Maybe this christmas you could try a different church and see what you think?<br />I also think that faith comes at a time in your life when you are ready for it, it is not wiring as such, altho I do understand why you would say that, as it does make some kind of sense too!  Some people you think would never have faith can have something happen and change and be a huge believer!  But I do agree it is something that can't be learnt.  I also think God can open people's eyes at the time that is right.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 1:59pm<br /><br />Oh and how on earth do you think monkeys evolved into humans?? I have heard that whole argument and I really think if that is the case, then other animals would be "evolving" and stuff, and we would also have half monkey/humans walking the earth in the mid-state of evolving as well.<br />And I think somewhere in the bible again they start usuing a different measure of time.  I could be wrong on that, I am not a huge evolution/creation "loony" like some christians really get into the whole thing and study it big time, so again, I actually don't care how many thousands or millions of years old the earth actually is, makes no difference to me, all I know is I believe that God made the earth and us, how I said in my previous post - it is just too amazing how we are put together.  The mind just boggles how clever He is.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 1:54pm<br /><br />2boys I understand where you are coming from with alot of what you wrote.  Nothign offensive in there at all!<br />I am very interested that you think the evolution theory is so obviously true as I think it is obviously wrong!  Even all scientists don't agree with it!  How a big bang could of miraculously made us as intricately as we have been made, the exact right atmosphere on earth to sustain life, the list goes on.  There is no random event that could possibly get all that right!  I'm not sure what I believe re dinosaurs, and I can honestly say I really don't care if they existed or not!  I know the bible specifically talks about dragons tho from old times ( see book of Job, Psalms).  Lightening, earthquakes and eclipses and stuff are from other religions that believe it is the gods testing them, not christianity.  Although it does say when Jesus died there was a huge earthquake and the temple cloth was torn in 2 and all that, so in that respect yes in a way, it does say in the Bible God can cause them to happen.<br />My basic thing is until anyone can prove beyond a doubt that what is in the bible is wrong (and noone has) then I firmly believe it is all true!  The amazing thing is it is so true for what happened in the past, but also everything that it has predicted has come to pass - that is actually a frightening thought considering some of what it predicts for the future too!  There is NO book on this earth that has been 100% true for past and future like the bible.  Explain that one away.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 1:46pm<br /><br />Again, I didn't say anyone was stupid.<br /><br />I thought evolution had been proven at cellular levels even if not the whole evolutionary theory. I.e humans from monkeys. I'm not sure I believe big bang theory, afterall it is only theory and not being a physicist I wouldn't really know, I don't have a great understanding of it all so I wouldn't say I believe big bang theory just I believe it could be plausible as lots of people far more intelligent than me and have spent decades researching it, the same as evolution theory. Although to me that one does seem quite obvious, I think you can see it by just looking around at everything in world. Although I"m open to the mutation idea as well, seems depressing though, is like we are just degrading away, lossing more and more genes.<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0"> . <br /><br />Scientific means of measuring things, be it the age of the earth, the distance to the sun, etc etc are constantly evolving. When/if they find better methods they revise their ideas, their thoughts of how the world is made. Like going from thinking it's flat, to thinking its round, to thinking it's actually slightly pear shaped. This is what I like about science and why I choose to hold it in higher regard. It questions itself it doesn't find an answer and say yep job done, it continually questions and grows and develops. When it comes up with a theory it then goes all out to prove that theory. Religion is the opposite, it says this is what happened now just believe it. I think I'm like Little Red said, my brain just can't do that. I can't just believe something without some sort of prove, which of course would defeat the purpose of faith as you have to have faith which is why god doens't just reveal himself to us all, and round and round we go.<br /><br />I choose to believe the earth is millions years old, geotech scientists use the age of the earth when they look at fault lines and along with other factors work out how likely things are to go again. They say the darfield fault line is a once in 16000 year event. I would much rather believe that than have their calculation use 6000 years instead of millions. Would probably mean it's due to go again this afternoon<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20742">Delli</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 1:33pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by LittleBug" alt="Originally posted by LittleBug" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>LittleBug wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br />I believe that adaptation occurs at every level, but as a consequence of mutation (resulting from a LOSS of genetic information - that is the opposite of what the theory of evolution proposes). Genetics are slowly degrading, not being built up, and that is what causes change. I believe that species can mutate but I don't believe new species can be created from a loss of information.</td></tr></table><br /><br />I may be missing something but this paragraph doesn't make a lot of sense to me..... <br /><br />Adaptation and mutation does not necessarily equal loss of genetic information (unless you are only referring to deletions - those are only one type of mutation that can occur), loss of genetic information is not "the opposite" of the theory of evolution (see Gene Loss and Less is More) and I have no idea what you mean by "genetics are slowly degrading"....<br /><br />Have I missed the point? <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> Sorry if I have.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18551">LittleBug</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 11:58am<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by stefany3" alt="Originally posted by stefany3" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>stefany3 wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by RachFizz" alt="Originally posted by RachFizz" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>RachFizz wrote:</strong><br /><br /><p>I take responsibility for my own actions.<br />I have a science degree. I have learnt about evolution and I have no idea how God did what he did, I just believe that it was by His will and not by random chance.<br />I have a fair idea of how molecules, compounds, proteins, cells, etc. are made, and I do not believe that the correct squence of amino acids just magically came together by itself to make a functional protein.</td></tr></table><br /><br />I agree, I take responsibility for my own actions too.<br />I don't understand molecules etc, but I do wonder how somehow, some random bits of 'stuff' just happened to crash into each other and make a whole universe. And I think that there were dinosaurs. There is this guy called Kent Hovind, and he's a Christian who has a museum called Dinoland (or something) in Florida. He has a whole lot of DVDs about how God created dinosaurs and that they did actually exist. He even says there were 'dragons' - which were fire breathing dinosaurs. This is how I came to believe in 6000yr old universe, literal 7 days etc. Our cell group studied his 10set DVDs over 10/11 weeks. Very interesting. PM me if you want more info or would like a set. ;)<br /><br />As for brainwashing! Don't even get me started! I HATE how the media blow things out of proportion, and just because someone with lots of power says it's true that it is taken for true.<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by two_boys" alt="Originally posted by two_boys" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>two_boys wrote:</strong><br /><br />I don't see how people can say they believe facts and figures etc and then also believe that the earth is only 6000 years old and there is no such thing as evolution.<br />I just personally don't think the bible or any religious document holds up to scrutiny.<br />The thing is that a lot of relgious people choose to ignore scientific fact because it flies in the face of what a ancient documents say. Choosing not to believe in evolution when it is so obviously true is just close minded as is thinking the earth is 6000 years old when there is so much evidence to the contrary and similar things, like dinosaurs never existing (I have honestly heard that they were either a) planted by god as a test of peoples faith b) put there by the devil or c) put their by evil minded atheist scientists). People no longer believe that lightening and earthquakes and eclipses are the work of gods punishing us for whatever because scientists found out how they were trully caused. So why completely ignore other scientific evidence?<br /><br />Also with these type discussions it's actually always impossible to argue/put your point across with someone who has faith because the faith just over powers all other types of reasoning. We could ask millions of questions but the answers are always the same. God gave us free will, god has some master plan, he works in mysterious ways, etc etc. You can't use logic to argue non logic.<br /></td></tr></table><br /><br />Two boys, I can see how your comments come across 'rude' but how else can you get your points across, I take no personal offence to what you say.<br />Evolution is NOT so obvioulsy true btw. Lightening and earthquakes can be and have been studied and watched and seen happening in action. NO ONE actually saw the creation of the earth (God or Big Bang). And scientists are still learning heaps about lightening/earthquakes/volcanoes etc. As far as I'm concerned, bib bang/evolution is as much a faith as believing God created the universe.<br /><br /></td></tr></table><br /><br />Agree, Stefany. I'm of the same mindset as you.<br /><br />Being a little vain here, but I'm definitely not stupid, and I don't think I've been brainwashed in any way, and I don't believe in evolution. I studied biomedical science at university and my major was human reproduction and development, so I got plenty of education about evolutionary theory. I'm proud to admit I'm an A+ student. And I haven't been brainwashed into thinking evolution isn't true, at least I can't think what by. My parents are non-Christian, a lot of my friends are too, the pastor at my Church never really discusses what he believes about creation. It was my own research that led me to believe that creation was intelligent design rather than random coincidence.<br /><br />And of course I agree with dinosaurs roaming the earth, in fact they are mentioned in the bible, I just believe it was thousands of years ago rather than millions. I don't agree with the assumptions that current dating methods are based on, they are very arbitrary, so to me, being dated at "millions of years" is definitely not evidence of evolution.<br /><br />I believe that adaptation occurs at every level, but as a consequence of mutation (resulting from a LOSS of genetic information - that is the opposite of what the theory of evolution proposes). Genetics are slowly degrading, not being built up, and that is what causes change. I believe that species can mutate but I don't believe new species can be created from a loss of information.<br /><br />And contrary to popular belief, it is a fact that fossils don't take millions of years to form.<br /><br />Anyway I could ramble all day about the reasons I believe in creation theory rather than evolutionary theory, and I believe that I have studied both theories in more depth than the average joe. <br /><br />I actually roll my eyes a little bit when people say that evolution is a "fact" when they know next to nothing about it. Not saying that to anyone here in particular, but if someone strikes up a conversation with me, and they will defend evolution to the death but they have no idea why. Drives me nuts.<br /><br />And like everyone else, I don't like being confronted in the street by random evangelists of any religion. And I certainly don't think that Churches are perfect.<br /><br />I believe that it's not actually that important what you think about various little theologies, in my mind the important thing is having a personal relationship with God and believing in the bible.<br /><br />I'm loving everyone's opinions <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> Great discussions ladies!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20735">lisa85</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 10:34am<br /><br />I don't believe but my husband does. However he never talks about it so it's not a problem for me. I could have never married him if he was trying to convert me every 5 minutes lol. I am my own person capable of making my own mind up and I could never be with someone that was telling me my beliefs are wrong all the time. <br /><br />When it comes to the kids I told him I have no problem going with him & the girls to church if that's what he wants. I'm fine with my kids being religious I just want them to understand that there is no right or wrong answer only a choice and that whatever they choose to believe will be right for them and nothing else matters. So they will grow up with religion if that's what DH wants and I will always be open minded but they will also know that Mum doesn't believe and that's ok too. I have no problem with religion I've seen it do great things for people including my husband but one thing that does bug me is the people that constantly try to convert you.<br /><br />The world is full of many ideas about religion. The main thing I want my children to take from it is to be respectful of everyones beliefs and to know that there is no right answer. That you only get one life and you should spend it being happy and making others happy. <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by lisa85</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17764">stefany3</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 10:23am<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by RachFizz" alt="Originally posted by RachFizz" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>RachFizz wrote:</strong><br /><br /><p>I take responsibility for my own actions.<br />I have a science degree. I have learnt about evolution and I have no idea how God did what he did, I just believe that it was by His will and not by random chance.<br />I have a fair idea of how molecules, compounds, proteins, cells, etc. are made, and I do not believe that the correct squence of amino acids just magically came together by itself to make a functional protein.</td></tr></table><br /><br />I agree, I take responsibility for my own actions too.<br />I don't understand molecules etc, but I do wonder how somehow, some random bits of 'stuff' just happened to crash into each other and make a whole universe. And I think that there were dinosaurs. There is this guy called Kent Hovind, and he's a Christian who has a museum called Dinoland (or something) in Florida. He has a whole lot of DVDs about how God created dinosaurs and that they did actually exist. He even says there were 'dragons' - which were fire breathing dinosaurs. This is how I came to believe in 6000yr old universe, literal 7 days etc. Our cell group studied his 10set DVDs over 10/11 weeks. Very interesting. PM me if you want more info or would like a set. ;)<br /><br />As for brainwashing! Don't even get me started! I HATE how the media blow things out of proportion, and just because someone with lots of power says it's true that it is taken for true.<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by two_boys" alt="Originally posted by two_boys" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>two_boys wrote:</strong><br /><br />I don't see how people can say they believe facts and figures etc and then also believe that the earth is only 6000 years old and there is no such thing as evolution.<br />I just personally don't think the bible or any religious document holds up to scrutiny.<br />The thing is that a lot of relgious people choose to ignore scientific fact because it flies in the face of what a ancient documents say. Choosing not to believe in evolution when it is so obviously true is just close minded as is thinking the earth is 6000 years old when there is so much evidence to the contrary and similar things, like dinosaurs never existing (I have honestly heard that they were either a) planted by god as a test of peoples faith b) put there by the devil or c) put their by evil minded atheist scientists). People no longer believe that lightening and earthquakes and eclipses are the work of gods punishing us for whatever because scientists found out how they were trully caused. So why completely ignore other scientific evidence?<br /><br />Also with these type discussions it's actually always impossible to argue/put your point across with someone who has faith because the faith just over powers all other types of reasoning. We could ask millions of questions but the answers are always the same. God gave us free will, god has some master plan, he works in mysterious ways, etc etc. You can't use logic to argue non logic.<br /></td></tr></table><br /><br />Two boys, I can see how your comments come across 'rude' but how else can you get your points across, I take no personal offence to what you say.<br />Evolution is NOT so obvioulsy true btw. Lightening and earthquakes can be and have been studied and watched and seen happening in action. NO ONE actually saw the creation of the earth (God or Big Bang). And scientists are still learning heaps about lightening/earthquakes/volcanoes etc. As far as I'm concerned, bib bang/evolution is as much a faith as believing God created the universe.<br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19544">GuestGuest</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 9:25am<br /><br />I tend to agree with a lot of two_boys viewpoints, it's hard to be critical of religion and not be seen as rude or harsh because it's such a personal subject. <br /><br />I have always been fascinated by people who have faith and believe so strongly in God. I was brought up Catholic and my mum is very involved in the church but I stopped going as soon as I was allowed to and only go at Christmas. I simply don't believe in any of it and I can't make myself believe in it. I think faith is caused by something that is wired differently in your brain and not something that can be learnt. It's like being gay or being straight, it isn't something that you can control or choose, you're either one or the other.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 7:21am<br /><br />I never said anyone was stupid or simple, if you read what I wrote you will see I wrote that I do NOT think people are stupid for having faith.<br />I questioned why people except some scientific facts and ignore others? I.e they except how lightening is formed and how earthquakes happen, but not that the earth is much older than 6000 years or that evolution exists.<br />And yes I did say childlike, the people I know who attend church regularly are very insecure and also quite easily lead people. I admitted I was being judgemental about that statement but it's how i see it.<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by RachFizz" alt="Originally posted by RachFizz" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>RachFizz wrote:</strong><br /><br /><p>I also think television can be just as brainwashing as not having it.</p><br /><p>We are told what to believe and what is normal every single moment. What to buy and what to wear.. Yes it's good for a lot of things and I definitely still watch it, but I pity the young girls growing up thinking that sleeping around is all good and just what everyone does. It's flippin everywhere on tv and music videos for the most part make me sick <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley11.gif" border="0"></p></td></tr></table><br /><br />The television was only one example, they were totally excluded from everything in the world except their church and other church people, when they have questions (normally ones we have asked) they ask the church, I would much rather they found stuff out for themselves and sought answers from many different places not just believe blindly what a pastor tells them but this how they were brought up.<br />They also pay part of their wages to the church, it all just doesn't sit right with me, more so than other churches that are less restrictive, i.e Anglican, baptist etc.<br /><br /><br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21267">Kazper</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 11 November 2010 at 6:50am<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Kellyfer" alt="Originally posted by Kellyfer" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Kellyfer wrote:</strong><br /><br />HoneybunsMa, I totally agree with your point about "religious types" who try to force their opinions on you being totally annoying! In my opinion, the best advertisement for your religion, or moral beliefs, or any suggestions for how people should live is to live it yourself, not to shove it down people's throats. At the same time, I realise that these people genuinely believe that if I don't believe what they do, then I'm destined for an eternity of suffering. If my doctor found cancer in me and could save my life by telling me how to fix it, I would expect him to. To the preachers, it's just like saving my eternal life. Doesn't stop it being annoying tho... just like the various people with petitions and collection buckets who you try to avoid eye contact with, but never really succeed!!!<br /><br />Two_boys... I liked the points you made, and I don't think they were offensive. It is hard to accept the creation story as the Bible says it (creation in 7 days) when the evidence of evolution is so compelling, and that's what I always found to be a point of contention. I think like fattartsrock said, 7 days doesn't necessarily mean literal days, but rather 7 periods of time. I'd be interested to know what the Hebrew word for day can mean... a lot of the nuances of the Bible are definately lost in translation. I personally like to believe that a higher power had some hand in the creation of the world, despite my lack of specific belief. Maybe that's just human nature though - that would explain the multitudes of creation stories in the world!<br /><br />Your point about faith was a good one as well - that you just can't argue with it. Faith isn't a rational thing, so you can't argue against it rationally. It's comparing apples and oranges. I'm not saying that it's not valid though. From my personal experience, faith can be very powerful, and it is also something that can be lost (the Santa example!). I envy people who can have faith in something without physical proof - I don't think it's childlike at all.</td></tr></table><br /><br />like <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />I've got to say there is a lot I question even though I consider myself christian.  I don't consider myself religous, just have a faith.  Also I accept fully responsibility for actions and believe there should be no way out for anyone without accepting full responsibility as well.  I think its stupid people think "oh well God forgives me" - I have heard that before.  <br />Gonna shoot myself here as Christian possibly, but I agree, too much scientific fact in evolution to not believe it.<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Kazper</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23205">RachFizz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 11:53pm<br /><br /><P>I also think television can be just as brainwashing as not having it.</P><P>We are told what to believe and what is normal every single moment. What to buy and what to wear.. Yes it's good for a lot of things and I definitely still watch it, but I pity the young girls growing up thinking that sleeping around is all good and just what everyone does. It's flippin everywhere on tv and music videos for the most part make me sick <IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley11.gif" border="0"></P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23205">RachFizz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 11:49pm<br /><br /><P>I take responsibility for my own actions.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I have a science degree. I have learnt about evolution and I have no idea how God did what he did, I just believe that it was by His will and not by random chance.</P><P>I do not consider myself simple or ignorant and yes I do find that quite offensive, but oh well.</P><P>I have a fair idea of how molecules, compounds, proteins, cells, etc. are made, and I do not believe that the correct squence of amino acids just magically came together by itself to make a functional protein. </P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24609">Kellyfer</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 11:04pm<br /><br />HoneybunsMa, I totally agree with your point about "religious types" who try to force their opinions on you being totally annoying! In my opinion, the best advertisement for your religion, or moral beliefs, or any suggestions for how people should live is to live it yourself, not to shove it down people's throats. At the same time, I realise that these people genuinely believe that if I don't believe what they do, then I'm destined for an eternity of suffering. If my doctor found cancer in me and could save my life by telling me how to fix it, I would expect him to. To the preachers, it's just like saving my eternal life. Doesn't stop it being annoying tho... just like the various people with petitions and collection buckets who you try to avoid eye contact with, but never really succeed!!!<br /><br />Two_boys... I liked the points you made, and I don't think they were offensive. It is hard to accept the creation story as the Bible says it (creation in 7 days) when the evidence of evolution is so compelling, and that's what I always found to be a point of contention. I think like fattartsrock said, 7 days doesn't necessarily mean literal days, but rather 7 periods of time. I'd be interested to know what the Hebrew word for day can mean... a lot of the nuances of the Bible are definately lost in translation. I personally like to believe that a higher power had some hand in the creation of the world, despite my lack of specific belief. Maybe that's just human nature though - that would explain the multitudes of creation stories in the world!<br /><br />Your point about faith was a good one as well - that you just can't argue with it. Faith isn't a rational thing, so you can't argue against it rationally. It's comparing apples and oranges. I'm not saying that it's not valid though. From my personal experience, faith can be very powerful, and it is also something that can be lost (the Santa example!). I envy people who can have faith in something without physical proof - I don't think it's childlike at all. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 10:20pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Hopes" alt="Originally posted by Hopes" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Hopes wrote:</strong><br /><br />Oh, I did have one more thought, two_boys. You definitely made me feel like you think I'm rather stupid. I guess that could be construed as a wee bit rude, although I understand that you do think that and there's really no polite way of saying it! My feelings aren't hurt, though, I understand where you're coming from. (I definitely don't consider myself the sharpest of crayons in the box, but I got proxime accessit at school, so figure must have something to work with although I bet it's faded with time <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0">).</td></tr></table><br /><br />I guess to a certain extent I think people who do believe in god are a bit child like. Like they are not quite able to cope with being fully responsible for themselves or their actions so they have a higher power so they can pass some of the responsiblity up the chain, like having a parent to lean on. I'm fully aware how horrible and judgemental that statement is by the way, I promise to work on being less judgemental. <br />I do not however think anyone is stupid for having faith. That probably doens't make up for the first bit I said though<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif" border="0"> And this is only what I think/feel. Not saying I'm right, and remember I did admit that I was being totally judgemental by saying that. <br /><br />I am enjoying reading people view points though, hopefully it will help me be less judgemental <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by two_boys</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 10:09pm<br /><br /><br />AandCsmum my understanding (as little as it is) is that some believe that evolution is part of gods plan, so does exist but is of his doing. Others believe is the factitious work of atheist devil worshippers. (I never have understood how atheists are devil worshippers but still)<br /><br />Fattartsrock, my mil is very religious, she is at church all the time, she bends over backwards to help anyone and everyone out and is a trully awesome person, I have never actually said I'm an atheist to her, she probably doesn't know that I am, and the reason I don't say is that she's never asked what I believe and also I think if I just blurted it out or made some rude comment about not wanting anything relgious or something it would actually deeply upset her and I wouldn't want to do that. We are also close friends with some people who belong to a church whose name always escapes me(Christians, but can't remember which church). DH was a groomsmen at their wedding and was his mentor during his apprenticeship, so they are pretty close friends. They believe the 7 actual days, 6000 years, and they told me the dinosaur stuff. I really like them they are lovely people, I do however think they are deluded and maybe even brainwashed (they were homeschooled, not allowed telly, could only mix with other people from church etc, DH knows him through work but till then he had been very secluded from the world). However they think DH and me are misguided (and probably going to hell) and i think they are hoping they will plant a little seed of faith with us. That's about as likely as us turning them atheist but still, I like to discuss with them and them with us. Neither DH or me has ever said anything disrespectful to them, we have just questioned some of the things they come out with. So I don't think it's a fair evaluation to say I don't have time for religious people.<br /><br />Also I must say I went to their wedding and the bitching from people there about other people at the church and about different churches etc was astonishing.<br /><br />And one last thing, my tenant got ill, not one single person from her church came to see if she was ok, it was her atheist landlords that went shopping for her and made sure she was ok. She made remarks about the lack of support from her church community yet she still trots along to church all the time, so it really does make me wonder.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 9:54pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by fattartsrock" alt="Originally posted by fattartsrock" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>fattartsrock wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br /><br />So anyway, not directed at you at all, just a throw over answer/take on  those of you that have said similar things..and Im not saying I'm right but I'm not saying you guys are either, ha ha...<br />*shrugs* its kinda like Santa to me, you either believe or you don't. People aren't stupid because they believe in God, (or santa)  but they have faith that the seemingly unbelieveable is true. It's just faith, after all, and you either have it or you don't! Dosent make you stupid or ignorant or unschooled or ill read or ill researched, it just means you have a differing view to someone else and neither of you are neccasarily right. <br />I don't go about telling people that my way is the only way and that what I say is true and right, and I feel personally affronted and offended when others feel the need to tell me I'm silly for believing in something that (to them) is so clearly not true!<br />AND I believe in dinosaurs <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> ...I think their existance came about during the 7 days of creation, which I believe was acutally many millenia, not days in a 24 hour time frame...<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> <br />But yeah, each to their own, and I guess, only time will tell!</td></tr></table><br /><br />Like ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20418">Hopes</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 9:45pm<br /><br />Oh, I did have one more thought, two_boys. You definitely made me feel like you think I'm rather stupid. I guess that could be construed as a wee bit rude, although I understand that you do think that and there's really no polite way of saying it! My feelings aren't hurt, though, I understand where you're coming from. (I definitely don't consider myself the sharpest of crayons in the box, but I got proxime accessit at school, so figure must have something to work with although I bet it's faded with time <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0">).<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Hopes</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19679">AandCsmum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 9:42pm<br /><br />CJ, I'm biding my time. Not interested in shifting churches yet, I don't feel I have to go to or that I have to read the bible every day either, I guess I'm not that hard out, but as I said it's more of a deep down thing, in saying that I used to love reading the book of Ruth & read it so many times as a child/teenager.<br /><br />This might be totally contradicting myself but is there a reason we can't believe in both evolution & God??? Yeah I know that doesn't really work but....<br /><br />I guess for me in belonging to a church is more the belonging to the community it creates, knowing that a bunch of strangers out there will accept you without judging you & help you out in a time of need. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10154">fattartsrock</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 9:08pm<br /><br />TwoBoys yeah I thought your post came across as a little rude, but I get what you are saying, and I can see how hard it would be to get your thoughts across without sounding that way...<br />It came across to me that you have little or no time for people who do believe in God?<br /><br />So anyway, not directed at you at all, just a throw over answer/take on  those of you that have said similar things..and Im not saying I'm right but I'm not saying you guys are either, ha ha...<br />*shrugs* its kinda like Santa to me, you either believe or you don't. People aren't stupid because they believe in God, (or santa)  but they have faith that the seemingly unbelieveable is true. It's just faith, after all, and you either have it or you don't! Dosent make you stupid or ignorant or unschooled or ill read or ill researched, it just means you have a differing view to someone else and neither of you are neccasarily right. <br />I don't go about telling people that my way is the only way and that what I say is true and right, and I feel personally affronted and offended when others feel the need to tell me I'm silly for believing in something that (to them) is so clearly not true!<br />AND I believe in dinosaurs <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> ...I think their existance came about during the 7 days of creation, which I believe was acutally many millenia, not days in a 24 hour time frame...<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> <br />But yeah, each to their own, and I guess, only time will tell!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20418">Hopes</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 8:34pm<br /><br />Two_boys, I don't think you came across as rude. Feeling very strongly about your perspective, perhaps, but that's all good <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0">. I'd reply, but I have a screaming baby I shoudl relieve DH of... some other time I will <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by HoneybunsMa" alt="Originally posted by HoneybunsMa" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>HoneybunsMa wrote:</strong><br /><br />I do think that people who push their believes onto people regardless of whether it be religion, facts and figures or that the grass is purple the sky is orange and it rains cats and dogs need to be wary of what they are doing. How would someone who preaches and pushes their ideas onto someone feel if they had someone come up to them who was a satanist and believed Freddy Cruger was the antichrist come right up into their face and continue to go on about it and force their literature on to them. <br /></td></tr></table><br /><br />I totally agree. And anyway, I'm not sure it would have the desired effect. I'm very unlikely to believe something shoved at me that way... I like to ask my own questions.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21727">HoneybunsMa</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 8:12pm<br /><br />I don't have a personal relationship with God, so guess I'm going to hell too. Meh nevermind. Maybe I'll just have something be unresolved and continue to stalk the earth for awhile instead.<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />I should when I can pin down DP and ask him about this thread and what he believes. It's never been something that we talk about or needed to talk about in depth.<br /><br />I do think that people who push their believes onto people regardless of whether it be religion, facts and figures or that the grass is purple the sky is orange and it rains cats and dogs need to be wary of what they are doing. How would someone who preaches and pushes their ideas onto someone feel if they had someone come up to them who was a satanist and believed Freddy Cruger was the antichrist come right up into their face and continue to go on about it and force their literature on to them. <br /><br />It's not nice being accosted in the street when you aren't wanting to be that goes for those annoying mall salespeople too and I think the biggest thing is that these people need to respect that.<br /><br />Not saying that anyone here is doing that. I think its great that you have faith and religion and experiences. They just aren't for me]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17969">cuppatea</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 6:58pm<br /><br />I don't see how people can say they believe facts and figures etc and then also believe that the earth is only 6000 years old and there is no such thing as evolution.<br />I just personally don't think the bible or any religious document holds up to scrutiny. The simplest explanation for religion is that some people made up stories to explain the unexplainable(this is why every culture all over the globe has/had different gods/higher powers), now a lot of it has been explained and sure lots hasn't but I expect science will discover it in the end even if takes centuries longer, so there is really no need to believe in any higher powers/gods. <br />The thing is that a lot of relgious people choose to ignore scientific fact because it flies in the face of what a ancient documents say. Choosing not to believe in evolution when it is so obviously true is just close minded as is thinking the earth is 6000 years old when there is so much evidence to the contrary and similar things, like dinosaurs never existing (I have honestly heard that they were either a) planted by god as a test of peoples faith b) put there by the devil or c) put their by evil minded atheist scientists). People no longer believe that lightening and earthquakes and eclipses are the work of gods punishing us for whatever because scientists found out how they were trully caused. So why completely ignore other scientific evidence?<br /><br />Also with these type discussions it's actually always impossible to argue/put your point across with someone who has faith because the faith just over powers all other types of reasoning. We could ask millions of questions but the answers are always the same. God gave us free will, god has some master plan, he works in mysterious ways, etc etc. You can't use logic to argue non logic.<br /><br />Ok, I've read my post a few times and I'm not trying to be rude, but I can see how it can be read that way, I just can't find a better way of explaining my feelings. So please don't anyone take it as an attack or whatever, cos it's not meant that, just me trying in my not so great way to explain and ask questions about what I've read in here.<br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21289">freckle</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 1:36pm<br /><br /> <table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by emz" alt="Originally posted by emz" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>emz wrote:</strong><br /><br />Sorry for the rant, but I will not be converted, and do believe some need to start their posts with 'I believe' rather than 'this is the truth' - it may be your truth, but not everyones, and definitely not the majority (just under a 1/3 if the latest stats are true). So 2/3 of the world is wrong - hmm. I'll believe in Science and numbers thanks</td></tr></table><br /><br />I think this thread has been great! so interesting to hear everyones point of view without it turning into any kind of nasty debate or attack on other POVs... I don't feel there has been any pressure to convert anyone, and I have no problem with people omitting "I believe" as it is real to them... <br />]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23205">RachFizz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 11:43am<br /><br /><P>I BELIEVE..........:</P><P>God works&nbsp;all things for the good of those who love him. We are His children, and what kind of children would we be if we were never disciplined or put through trials?</P><P>We just can't see the big picture.</P><P>I do think it's funny how certain events people put down to God's hand, others to Satan, etc. I think Christians are way too outspoken sometimes when they claim they know the reasons for things they know nothing about.</P><P>I really was transformed when I became a christian, I could not possibly, through willpower alone, change my taste in music so strongly. Some things are a struggle, but other things you immediately find you have no desire for anymore. For me it's not about the sound of the music (ie. heavy metal) it's the lyrics. If they're singing about a bunch of crap that's completely against God's word, why would I want to listen to that?</P><P>I used to love mike jones, ying yang twins, daddy yankee etc. Even listened to korn, tool, SOAD, etc. sometimes. Can't believe it now. Now I can actually HEAR the lyrics and it's absolutely disgusting the crap that they sing. The amount of stuff like that that&nbsp;we're exposed to makes my blood boil. Katy Perry anyone!?</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20418">Hopes</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 10 November 2010 at 8:19am<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by emz" alt="Originally posted by emz" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>emz wrote:</strong><br /><br />Oh well, I'm going to hell. Boo hoo. But funnily enough, because I don't believe in it, it won't happen to me. There are many different religions and according to all of them, whatever you believe, happens. Are you saying everyone else in this world who is not Christian, is going to hell? Wow, what a spiteful God. Wouldn't really want to associate myself with someone that would wish that on others TBH.<br /><br />And for my last post, what I meant by saying God created churches that went on to abuse people - I was talking about the leaders of the church (pastors, priests etc), NOT god. <br /><br />And let me get this straight - god lets us go through pain to test us, but if that pain is caused by someone else doing wrong, it was Satan's fault? Talk about a blame game. I'll choose to have responsibility over my own actions rather than leave it to chance, thanks.<br /><br />Sorry for the rant, but I will not be converted, and do believe some need to start their posts with 'I believe' rather than 'this is the truth' - it may be your truth, but not everyones, and definitely not the majority (just under a 1/3 if the latest stats are true). So 2/3 of the world is wrong - hmm. I'll believe in Science and numbers thanks</td></tr></table><br /><br />For the record, I don't think you're going to hell. And though I'm sure everyone here is happy to share what they believe (it's a very important part of our lives, afterall), you're welcome to believe whatever you want. Really. <br /><br />I have no issue with the fact that I'm not all-knowing; I'm just doing the best I can to find out and believe what's actually true. I'm not convinced enough of my ability to be 100% right to say that because I don't believe something it won't happen (although that would be nice, there'd be lots of things I'd choose not to believe if that was the case). I'd probably say that "I don't believe that will happen", which is kinda different.  <br /><br />I like hearing other people's opinions and beliefs, and yes, I would absolutely change mine (and have!) if someone else explained something so I could see they were right. So I kind of enjoy reading people's comments, and don't have any issue with them presenting what they believe as fact, because I know that to them it is (I just might not  happen to agree. I don't, in lots of cases). I kind of figure that if I wasn't interested in that, I wouldn't read this thread? <br /><br />And I'm totally a facts and figures person, myself. Doesn't mean the minority can't be right (flat earth anyone?), although being a minority doesn't mean that you are right either. I'd say it's more about the content of what you're discussing rather than the number of people who believe it.<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Hopes</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17854">emz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 09 November 2010 at 11:45pm<br /><br />Oh well, I'm going to hell. Boo hoo. But funnily enough, because I don't believe in it, it won't happen to me. There are many different religions and according to all of them, whatever you believe, happens. Are you saying everyone else in this world who is not Christian, is going to hell? Wow, what a spiteful God. Wouldn't really want to associate myself with someone that would wish that on others TBH.<br /><br />And for my last post, what I meant by saying God created churches that went on to abuse people - I was talking about the leaders of the church (pastors, priests etc), NOT god. <br /><br />And let me get this straight - god lets us go through pain to test us, but if that pain is caused by someone else doing wrong, it was Satan's fault? Talk about a blame game. I'll choose to have responsibility over my own actions rather than leave it to chance, thanks.<br /><br />Sorry for the rant, but I will not be converted, and do believe some need to start their posts with 'I believe' rather than 'this is the truth' - it may be your truth, but not everyones, and definitely not the majority (just under a 1/3 if the latest stats are true). So 2/3 of the world is wrong - hmm. I'll believe in Science and numbers thanks]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=21727">HoneybunsMa</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 08 November 2010 at 8:46pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Lish810" alt="Originally posted by Lish810" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Lish810 wrote:</strong><br /><br />I personally have not joined a play group or music group yet because of the fact they are at the church. me and my partner are very strong atheists. nothing about religion scares me as i think its all a load of crap and dont know how someone could belive something that has never and will never be proven to be true. It is impossible for someone to die and then come back to life days or weeks or whatever it was later. my kids wont do bible studies at school either. my partner is more (thinking of a word but cant come up with one) stronger about his atheism beliefs than me, he wont listen to music if the band is religious or says thank you to god. i cant see why someone would want to spend an hour or more a week going to church and praying, singing and listening about something thats not true. also giving wages to the church, i know that some cultures give 30% of their wages to the church. its rubbish! why do that when you could be out at the park playing with your kids for free<br /><br />i just figure id have hardly anything in common with a person who is religious. i like tattoos, piercings, heavy metal music, gothic type artwork of vampires and pixies and demons etc. had both my kids out of wedlock and as a teenager.</td></tr></table><br /><br />That is so closed minded of you Lish. If anything you right there are practicing exactly the same thing that you think christians practice.<br /><br />As I've said before DP is a christian, although not actively practicing, he keeps his faith to himself, he says a prayer every time he goes to eat. He goes to god when his family have been in hospital in the last couple of months and he does this quietly and doesn't put it on anyone else. But you know what DP is into rock music, gangsta rap (which is not my taste), believed he was a vampire for awhile (weird teen is what I call it<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> ) has been involved in gangs in the past (very glad he is out of that now) and drugs. We both drink although not so much anymore because hangover+baby = not so cool. I love tattoo's that are a work of art although have none neither does DP because hes male and can't decide and I have a collection of angels that aren't in anyway related to me being christian as I am not.<br /><br />His family have accepted us for us, we live together, and although they don't agree accept, his grandmother who is the matriarch of the family has the view of they are my great grandchildren and children are to be nourished and regardless I love them. Yes a few in his family need to learn not to judge but I'm sure a few in my family probably do too.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 08 November 2010 at 3:03pm<br /><br />Job one of my fav books!  That dude was awesome!  To have the faith to praise God when everything turned to mush for him, that takes a special kind of person!  "you give and take away, my heart will choose to say, Lord blessed be your name"<br />Just keep the faith and know that in times when things seem to be upside down and make no sense to us, they make sense to God and are happening for a reason and a purpose we may one day understand, or may never understand!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23205">RachFizz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 08 November 2010 at 2:08pm<br /><br /><P>Yup that is a very good scripture, I often have to go there. Reading Job a bit atm. Just wondering why things keep going so badly for DH and I. Things had been getting better in the last month, more good news than bad, and I was getting excited, but this last week has been rather crap again. Wondering how much longer it'll be til everything makes sense. I know it will all work out. Just very impatient and frustrated.</P><P>These are the sorts of times where I would have fallen away before, and I am grateful that I've learnt from the past that that only makes things harder.</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 08 November 2010 at 1:31pm<br /><br />AandCsmum I know what you mean that church can sometimes be boring, have you thought about changing churches, cuz some can be real boring!  I also think it is not a bad thing to be real busy and not go to church every week, we sure don't and doesn't make us any less committeed christians.  I think the main thing is to be regularly reading the bible etc.  To my shame I must admit only being disciplined enough to read it every day for the last 2 years, but it has made a huge difference in my life doing that.  It's about reading it at a time you don't get interrupted every day - breakfast works for me!<br />I agree Rach, is real hard to let go of fears and trust in God.  This was in my daily reading today:<br /><br />Look at the birds. They don't plant or harvest or store food in barns, for your heavenly Father feeds them. And aren't you far more valuable to him than they are? — Matthew 6:26]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25789">nathansmummy</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 08 November 2010 at 1:02am<br /><br />AandCs mum I think the mistake is thinking that bad stuff comes from God.  Bad stuff doesn't come from God.  Bad stuff comes from the fact that we live in a fallen world - where sin came in and messed it all up right from the beginning.  So people hurt others, and there is sickness and disease and so on.  <br /><br />The question is why God allows it to happen.  And that is a hard one to answer.<br /><br />There's a lovely verse that (paraphrased) says "God will make everything beautiful in his time."  And that's what I hold on to.  Whatever you go through, if you put your faith and trust in God, the ugly situation can be made beautiful despite the pain.  And I've had (and still have) my fair share of it, believe me.  But my faith and hope and trust is that God will make it beautiful in His time.<br /><br />I still haven't read all the pages of posts and probably will never get to but I will say with regards to Lisha - it's important not to get too upset with what she has written.  In my opinion, there's nothing offensive there.  She is just stating her beliefs and what she does in her family.  God has allowed us freedom of choice when it comes to what we believe and how we live our lives.  Interestingly, Lisha has only posted 6x so maybe someone popped in for fun to stir?  Dunno  <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> <br />But I must say from what I have written despite all the differences of opinion, it's nice to see everyone respecting one another's points of view.<br /><br />Now I'm off to get a naughty boy to sleep...]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19679">AandCsmum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 07 November 2010 at 10:28pm<br /><br />Rach, so know what you mean..........what the hell is his reasons for the things that happen to us!<br /><br />But I have a theory on that, bad stuff & hard stuff are dealt out to those who can a) handle it, b) learn from it c) who can survive through it.<br /><br />I wonder about the aweful stuff he's dealt us but it has made us a super strong family unit, and on a different life path than what we were off down on. We certainly questioned it at the time & my grandmother in her faith said "he has a reason for everything he does" <br /><br />God certainly does work in mysterious ways<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 07 November 2010 at 9:52pm<br /><br />I don't know whats going on for you Rach, but *hugs* I hope you are ok ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=23205">RachFizz</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 07 November 2010 at 7:45pm<br /><br /><P>trusting God is really hard sometimes <IMG src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"></P><P>no point to this post, just didn't know where else to put it.&nbsp;</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17764">stefany3</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 November 2010 at 9:53pm<br /><br />It's taken me a few days, But I have finally read 90% of this thread! PHEW!<br />I'm a Christian, and I just wanted to say how proud I was at how some of you other Christians have come across and written your views so well.<br />I don't hide being a Christian, but I also don't go bible bashing it. DH & I often have friendly debates with our non-Christian friends about God, evolution, heaven/hell, demons, ghosts etc. I think that it's good to have friends who don't believe in God... maybe you'll be the one to plant that first seed, even though it make take years!<br /><br />I believe anyone who doesnt have a personal relationship with God will go to hell. <br />I don't believe that God and evolution/big bang theory are compatible. God is WAY too clever for that. Big Bang theory is flawed from the start, and evolution is too cruel to us and I dont believe God created us to change us... he knew what he wanted, and made it (in 7 literal days). Someone said that they thought they could be compatable and its sometimes called "Intelligent Design"? This isn't true. Interlligent Design to me, means God created humans and the universe as the Bible suggests.<br /><br />I haven't vaxxed DS (or any future kids I'm going to have) not so much from a Biblical view though, although now that I think about it, the resources that got me & DH thinking about it were via Christian links. I'd never thought about it that way until that debate reared it's ugly head a few pages ago ;)<br /><br />There are also some slightly heavy metal Christian bands for those rockers out there. I don't like tats, but I'm not objected to people who have them, there are quite a few people in my church who have some impressive ones. <br /><br />I did like what lizzle said about the teacher talking about homosexuality. Again, I think it's wrong, I have my views, but in the end God is the judge. But I don't think that leadership in the church should be gay, or if they commit adultery, fornication etc etc they should step down as well. Christians aren't perfect, no one is, but we should be trying to set an example, especially the leaders. <br /><br />This was just going to be a short post. sorry! But it's been such a good thread, I want to print it out and bind it <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19679">AandCsmum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 November 2010 at 11:50am<br /><br />This might surprise some people, but deep down, I am quite religious &lt;GASP&gt; you all say. I'm am on our church roll.<br /><br />At the moment I hide it & don't go to church either, I do go to a music group at my family church, so I'm part of my church family in a small way.<br /><br />There have been a few reasons why I haven't been to church other than the usual ie Christmas. It's mainly come down to it that the minister bores me to tears & I can't bring my self to sit & listen to her.<br /><br />Also I'm usually really busy in the weekends so sometimes going to church is just too much of a task, bad I know, but who knows this may change in the future.<br /><br />One thing I have found is that no matter how often or how least you go you are always warmly welcomed each time you go. Maybe this is to do with the long history of my family at this church but I also see new mums/dads warmly welcomed to our music group. These people accept without judging at face value. I think that the world would be a far better place to take on a little of those values again. <br /><br />On the other hand religion sh*ts me at times cause people can't agree on whats right which in turns is the start of all those wars.<br /><br />I have read some posts I think I got up to page three & then ran out of time. <br /><br />My DH is a catholic & refuses to go to church at all cause it was thrust down his throat by his parents, altar boy & all that, but he respected me & my family enough to get married in a church & by a minister, plus letting both of our children be christened into the christian faith. This means that it is not us who will chose what religion our children will follow but themselves when they are old enough to make that decision. I will support them in what they chose. DH's family on the other hand has been hypocritical, his father changed to his mothers religion so that he could go to church with her, soon as he did that she stopped going, but he goes every sunday.<br /><br />One thing I've found about religious people is that they are very accepting, if this is putting off to some, it's their loss. Most people don't walk around spouting religious speech in every day situations, so no one really knows how religious people really are.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17430">mummy_becks</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 November 2010 at 10:09am<br /><br /><P align=left>Also Lish why did you join here cos there are religious people here.</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18371">Babe</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 November 2010 at 9:10am<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Lish810" alt="Originally posted by Lish810" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Lish810 wrote:</strong><br /><br />I personally have not joined a play group or music group yet because of the fact they are at the church. me and my partner are very strong atheists. nothing about religion scares me as i think its all a load of crap and dont know how someone could belive something that has never and will never be proven to be true. It is impossible for someone to die and then come back to life days or weeks or whatever it was later. my kids wont do bible studies at school either. my partner is more (thinking of a word but cant come up with one) stronger about his atheism beliefs than me, he wont listen to music if the band is religious or says thank you to god. i cant see why someone would want to spend an hour or more a week going to church and praying, singing and listening about something thats not true. also giving wages to the church, i know that some cultures give 30% of their wages to the church. its rubbish! why do that when you could be out at the park playing with your kids for free<br /><br />i just figure id have hardly anything in common with a person who is religious. i like tattoos, piercings, heavy metal music, gothic type artwork of vampires and pixies and demons etc. had both my kids out of wedlock and as a teenager.</td></tr></table><br /><br />I like tattoos, have been pierced and re-pierced more times than I can remember, love all sorts of music (as loud as I can have it usually <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0">), read anything vampire, have had one of my kids out of wedlock and been divorced.<br /><br />Also you may think that aspects of christianity are rubbish but being so smallminded i.e not going to playgroups, etc coz they're in a church, is the silliest thing I've heard in regards to a religion debate in a long time. It makes me laugh and shake my head when non-christians have a problem with christians being judgemental, etc but are exactly the same themselves. Hypocritical much?? I mean surely it doesn't take alot of maturity to see the same traits you don't like in christians, in every other religion and non-religion around the world? If you think God is alot of rubbish then why don't you prove you're a better person by being an 'unbeliever'? It also makes me question how sensible people are when they judge christians by the very worst 'christian' they've encountered. Look at Arohanui and Flissty (I know there are a couple more but I'm sick so my brain's refusing to work). They're OB girls who have always been out there about believing in God yet everybody really likes them. I haven't run across anyone on here who has a problem with either of them. Seriously what do you think makes them so kind? So thoughtful and consistent in their niceness?? Honestly I think some people are just so determined to avoid anything to do with God that they're prepared to go to absolutely ridiculous lengths to not acknowledge anything about Him even when its slapping them round the face. <br />This isn't really directed to anyone on here BTW coz I CBA'd reading the posts coz honestly some of the things the 'anti-christians' come out with are so ridiculous it makes me want to knock your heads together :sigh: then God would gently point out that that isn't the best way to show His love and forgiveness and I'd feel stink!!<br /><br />ETA fixing my wonky quote and re-saying something that didn't quite make sense...<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Babe</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17430">mummy_becks</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 06 November 2010 at 9:00am<br /><br /><P align=left><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Lish810" alt="Originally posted by Lish810" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Lish810 wrote:</strong><br /><br />I personally have not joined a play group or music group yet because of the fact they are at the church. me and my partner are very strong atheists. nothing about religion scares me as i think its all a load of crap and dont know how someone could belive something that has never and will never be proven to be true. It is impossible for someone to die and then come back to life days or weeks or whatever it was later. my kids wont do bible studies at school either. my partner is more (thinking of a word but cant come up with one) stronger about his atheism beliefs than me, he wont listen to music if the band is religious or says thank you to god. i cant see why someone would want to spend an hour or more a week going to church and praying, singing and listening about something thats not true. also giving wages to the church, i know that some cultures give 30% of their wages to the church. its rubbish! why do that when you could be out at the park playing with your kids for free <BR><BR>i just figure id have hardly anything in common with a person who is religious. i like tattoos, piercings, heavy metal music, gothic type artwork of vampires and pixies and demons etc. had both my kids out of wedlock and as a teenager.</td></tr></table> </P><P align=left>You obviously haven't opened your eyes to the world of 2000's yet.</P><P align=left>I know a lot of religious people that have tat's and piercings, love heavy metal music, have had kids out of wedlock (is becoming a norm these days). </P><P align=left>It is people like you that judge first and meet later that annoy me. Just because someone is religious doesn't mean they are straight laced goodie goods.</P><P align=left>You need to go and meet some real people.</P>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=564">lizzle</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 November 2010 at 10:01pm<br /><br />my views?<br /><br />well, so up in the air about christianity and my own faith BUT i have worked in two very different, very religious schools in the past three years.<br /><br />school A - teachers all attend church (and must to work there - part of the contract - they can attend any church they want).  intially i felt like i was going to be struck by lightening for NOT being christian, but they were the most lovely, open minded people I had ever come across.  the bible studies teacher was AWESOME&gt;  i once asked her what would happen if one of her students say he or she was gay.  She said "first, it is not our palce to judge.  that duty belongs to God.  I also personally believe that God creates everyone the way they are for a reason - who i am to dismiss this.  And thirdly, homosexuality is as much a crime as coveting your neighbour, or blasphemy.  Most of which people do everyday, albeit perhaps not in such an obvious way - so personally, if one of my students said they were gay i would say "but God still loves you"<br /><br />I was impressed.<br /><br />Now i teach at school B where the kids are extreme in their view.  i find it fascinating as while the kids from school A were so mature, loving and kind, school a are not at all - as a general rule. <br /><br />school A kids are many of my friends on facebook.  i adore a lot of them.  I only hope my own children turn out as well.<br /><br />As for spending money and time "wasted" in church - i think it's preferable to other things people could be doing.<br /><br />jake and Taine will do bible studies - if nothing more than to have vlaues and morals that my family find important, emphasised.  Jake's knowldge of jesus was that he was some kind of magic zombie giant that ate all the fish.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;But he also learnt the importance of kindness, of generosity, of helping others, of consideration, of tolerance....welll, he is learning tham anyway<br /><br />enough of my ramblings.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20418">Hopes</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 November 2010 at 9:24pm<br /><br />Well... I guess we should be squeaky clean, CJ (or at least trying to be, that's more realistic) <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0"> . But yea - it's what squeaky clean means that some people seem to confuse. Last time I checked, there wasn't a command in the Bible which read 'thou shalt not like heavy metal' <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley17.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 November 2010 at 9:17pm<br /><br />hehe yeah Lisha don't judge all christians to be squeeky clean and not into any of that stuff!  I love my metal music!  I think you would be surprised if you gave a religious person a chance just what they can interested in and how much you may have in common.<br />And yeah some churches expect people to give all their money to it, other preach you give what you can afford or wish to.  A standrad % bandied about is 10% in most churches, but the 2 we go between right now both state that you give what you feel is right, and if $1 a week is what you can afford then that is right.  God knows your heart and your situation.<br />Did you ever think church can be fun for families too?  Our kids (12 and 14) NAG us to go more often because they love it.  I never used to be like that when I was a kid, but I think it's awesome they do.  Perhaps you should try it some time - not a fall asleep kinda church but go to a fun one where there are kids programmes and stuff, you might be surprised at what you find.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20418">Hopes</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 November 2010 at 8:30pm<br /><br />Yea, I was thinking the same about the gothic artwork. To be honest, it doesn't do a thing for me. But a girl at our church is a real fan, and she seems pretty enthusiastic about church too <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" border="0"> <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Hopes</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10154">fattartsrock</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 November 2010 at 8:20pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Lish810" alt="Originally posted by Lish810" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Lish810 wrote:</strong><br /><br />I personally have not joined a play group or music group yet because of the fact they are at the church. me and my partner are very strong atheists. nothing about religion scares me as i think its all a load of crap and dont know how someone could belive something that has never and will never be proven to be true. It is impossible for someone to die and then come back to life days or weeks or whatever it was later. my kids wont do bible studies at school either. my partner is more (thinking of a word but cant come up with one) stronger about his atheism beliefs than me, he wont listen to music if the band is religious or says thank you to god. i cant see why someone would want to spend an hour or more a week going to church and praying, singing and listening about something thats not true. also giving wages to the church, i know that some cultures give 30% of their wages to the church. its rubbish! why do that when you could be out at the park playing with your kids for free<br /><br />i just figure id have hardly anything in common with a person who is religious. i like tattoos, piercings, heavy metal music, gothic type artwork of vampires and pixies and demons etc. had both my kids out of wedlock and as a teenager.</td></tr></table><br /><br />Lol you know what? I have tats, peircings, only listen to heavy metal/rock music and also had both my kids out of wedlock. I lived a very wild rock and roll lifestyle before I met my husband (who dosen't believe in God)<br />Unless I told you (and believe me, it never comes up in conversation) you would never know that I am a practicing Catholic (who finds having children somewhat of a restraint to a rock and roll lifestyle, so have retired somewhat, lol)<br />TBH I get a bit of a kick roaring into the school carpark in the church ground with my music up full roar (today it was ozzy) and my tats out. ITs my way of saying know me before you judge me!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18897">fire_engine</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 November 2010 at 7:57pm<br /><br />Yup, I'm a big fan of freedom of choice in most ways of life and I think we're better off for it. As soon as something is forced, it becomes very very problematic.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=24599">TheKelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 November 2010 at 7:30pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Lish810" alt="Originally posted by Lish810" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Lish810 wrote:</strong><br /><br />I personally have not joined a play group or music group yet because of the fact they are at the church. me and my partner are very strong atheists. nothing about religion scares me as i think its all a load of crap and dont know how someone could belive something that has never and will never be proven to be true. It is impossible for someone to die and then come back to life days or weeks or whatever it was later. my kids wont do bible studies at school either. my partner is more (thinking of a word but cant come up with one) stronger about his atheism beliefs than me, he wont listen to music if the band is religious or says thank you to god. i cant see why someone would want to spend an hour or more a week going to church and praying, singing and listening about something thats not true. also giving wages to the church, i know that some cultures give 30% of their wages to the church. its rubbish! why do that when you could be out at the park playing with your kids for free<br /><br />i just figure id have hardly anything in common with a person who is religious. i like tattoos, piercings, heavy metal music, gothic type artwork of vampires and pixies and demons etc. had both my kids out of wedlock and as a teenager.</td></tr></table><br /><br />I can understand why you would struggle to understand why people that believe  in God, do so and so fervently,but I guess cos its true to them, that makes it easier to believe<br /><br />My best friends partner is extremely atheist, into everything you just described , and my best friend isn't christian but does believe in God, and they make it work...and despite his being atheist, he was able to be a best man at our wedding, which took place in a church.<br /><br />I think we are extremely lucky to be living in a country where you can be friends with people from all walks of life, I have met people of all religions, christian, buddhist, mormon, Jehovahs etc etc and my life is richer for it<br /><br /><br />I am not christian,but not atheist, however I joined the playgroup and music cos my boy loves the toys at playgroup , and the songs and dancing at music.<br />Out of curiousity, if your children ended up following a more religious path when they grow up,would it upset you?<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by TheKelly</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20418">Hopes</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 November 2010 at 7:05pm<br /><br />Wow, your DP is extreme, Lish810! Then again, I know that there are some christians who are just as extreme in the other direction (don't listen to mainstream music, homeschool their kids so they're not mixing with unbelievers), so I guess it takes all sorts, huh? I'm just so glad that in NZ we really are free to make our own choices about what we do and don't believe, and can be open about it without worrying (even if others strongly disagree) - some countries don't have that, and that would suck.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25744">karenb_chch</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 November 2010 at 4:11pm<br /><br />Wow, there has been some interesting reading in this thread.  As with others, the discussion below is intended merely to explain my own beliefs, not to offend anyone.<br /><br />I was baptised Catholic at around 18months, but never raised in the faith.  In no way do I consider myself to be a Catholic although others may do so.  <br /><br />I am firmly atheist.  My reasons for this choice are simply that I cannot find any reason to believe in any of the religions that are around me.  I feel no particular faith or belief in God, nor are there things which I feel that God is necessary to explain.  <br /><br />One of my biggest issues with religion/faith is that many people seem to use it as an excuse and an abdication of responsibility.  For example, when something bad happens 'God must be testing me', and when something good happens 'God must be rewarding me'.  I would rather accept personal responsibility for the consequences of my own actions than put that responsibility onto a mythical being.<br /><br />Having said all that, I have many friends who belong to different faiths (from Christianity to Hindi) and I respect their rights to believe as they do, just as I expect them to respect my right to believe as I do.  <br /><br />DH and I have discussed how we would like our child to be raised, and we will teach her that: "Many people in the world believe in many different gods.  There is no right or wrong belief.  Mummy and Daddy don't believe in any god, but if there is one that you want to believe in, we will support you in that belief."]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=27169">Lish810</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 November 2010 at 4:04pm<br /><br />I personally have not joined a play group or music group yet because of the fact they are at the church. me and my partner are very strong atheists. nothing about religion scares me as i think its all a load of crap and dont know how someone could belive something that has never and will never be proven to be true. It is impossible for someone to die and then come back to life days or weeks or whatever it was later. my kids wont do bible studies at school either. my partner is more (thinking of a word but cant come up with one) stronger about his atheism beliefs than me, he wont listen to music if the band is religious or says thank you to god. i cant see why someone would want to spend an hour or more a week going to church and praying, singing and listening about something thats not true. also giving wages to the church, i know that some cultures give 30% of their wages to the church. its rubbish! why do that when you could be out at the park playing with your kids for free<br /><br />i just figure id have hardly anything in common with a person who is religious. i like tattoos, piercings, heavy metal music, gothic type artwork of vampires and pixies and demons etc. had both my kids out of wedlock and as a teenager. ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=25305">CJsays</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 November 2010 at 3:59pm<br /><br />Its interesting eh Flissty how things can happen that you just know aren't "coincidence"!  And funny how often it happens with life partners etc.<br />Mine was I was living with man who I had been with for 6 years and was having trouble with him being unfaithful with numerous people for 4 of those years (that I knew or suspected of), but was too weak to break it off, and nothing was "confirmed" as such that he was, he was always able to make excuses to the point I felt I was insane.  So I prayed that if anything was going on that God would bring it to light.  Sure enough that next week I got irrefutable evidence!  Still I was afraid to end it, we just lived separately, then more things happened to help give me the strength to end it for good and get him out of the house, and once I let go of my fear (always felt I needed a man to be "accepted" if that makes sense) and trusted in God it worked for the good.  It was dang painful at the time (I was at my parents for weeks crying and crying, felt the pain wouldn't end) but just a short 2 months later ended up talking with a friend from work who ended up becoming my husband!!!  And became a christian and all that stuff.  And I truely believe that if God hadn't given me the strength I would still be with that other man now (part of getting His strength is letting go of what you want and trusting in God's way too - I knew I wasn't living right with the other man).<br />RachFizz you are so right re the 10 commandments and things lining up with the bible.  One thing I wonder from wot you just said, I have never heard of a church that says you must be in a relationship with a certain person, is that kind of a closed brethren sort?  Or did I not quite understand your post?  And careful with the baby thing... I thought it would never happen to me either - alot has changed in the space of 1 year for me!!!  And the way it happened for me I definitely know God had his hand in it!  He has such a sense of humour the way He works sometimes!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18362">Kallie</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 36382<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 05 November 2010 at 3:59pm<br /><br />The reason i believe all the experiences I've had are God are beacause the majority of the times have been when ive been at church or have been praying, i just can't see why another 'god' would show up if i was worshipping someone else... <br /><br />For example, One time when i really felt him the most was during worship at church and i was thinking about a friend of mine who'd just found out her partner of 10 years had been cheating on her- alot. I was sooo gutted for her , because i could identify with how she was feeling because i'd been through something similar although not to that extreme... anyway i was thinking of her and praying while singing the words "There's no greater love than this" and ive never hear a voice so clear saying - 'if only she knew how much I love her, that would be all she'd ever need' its hard to explain but i felt like this wind rush over me it wasnt just in my head i could feel it outside my body aswell ive never felt so much love, like when you look at your kids and think Gosh is it possible to love anyone so much.. it was like that but it was surrounding me not just a feeling on the inside. to me there's just no way that could be anyone other than God.<br />Hope that comes across ok, its hard to explain in words !!<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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