OHbaby! Forums : Scared Sh*tless https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 11 May 2026 12:14:21 +0000 Wed, 07 Oct 2009 20:42:45 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=29152 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Scared Sh*tless : Don&#039;t feel pressured by other...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=799268&title=scared-shtless#799268 Author: Berg19
Subject: 29152
Posted: 07 October 2009 at 8:42pm

Don't feel pressured by other people and what you feel is expected of you. It is your life, and your the one who has to deal with this. Like the other ladies have said take time to think it over and maybe seek professional help, just for someone to talk to that doesn't have their thoughts about what you should do or what you shouldn't. big hugs! Hope your feeling better now! If it makes you feel better i cried alot when i found out i was pregnant - i think this is normal when you didn't expect it. ]]> Wed, 07 Oct 2009 20:42:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=799268&title=scared-shtless#799268 <![CDATA[Scared Sh*tless : Hugest hugs! All I can suggest...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=798700&title=scared-shtless#798700 Author: neivaD
Subject: 29152
Posted: 07 October 2009 at 1:30pm

Hugest hugs! All I can suggest is take heaps of deep breathes, and take your time coming to terms with, and deciding where too next. Ive been there and its a sucky place to be in!]]> Wed, 07 Oct 2009 13:30:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=798700&title=scared-shtless#798700 <![CDATA[Scared Sh*tless : Aw I so feel for you. I have a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=798014&title=scared-shtless#798014 Author: busyissy
Subject: 29152
Posted: 06 October 2009 at 7:54pm

Aw I so feel for you. I have a 2yr old and a 11mth old and I am 28wks pregnant. I took like 5 tests in a row and then burst into tear when each one came up positive. My 11mth old has very bad reflux and I had decided she was the last one and really didn't want to be pregnant either. To be honest it took me months to come to terms with it and counselling etc. You've got time on your side as you must be quite early pregnant, take your time, cry your tears and have some really honest talks with your partner. ]]> Tue, 06 Oct 2009 19:54:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=798014&title=scared-shtless#798014 <![CDATA[Scared Sh*tless : from myself also... How are you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=797607&title=scared-shtless#797607 Author: Inlove28
Subject: 29152
Posted: 06 October 2009 at 2:09pm

from myself also... How are you feeling now hun? I would be in tears no doubt too! I hope you have some good support around you right now!]]> Tue, 06 Oct 2009 14:09:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=797607&title=scared-shtless#797607 <![CDATA[Scared Sh*tless : Give your self time to get over...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=795669&title=scared-shtless#795669 Author: Zasha
Subject: 29152
Posted: 04 October 2009 at 7:26pm

Give your self time to get over the initial shock and think about the situation, don't be forced to do what other people want you to do, it's not them that has to make the sacrifices. Big thing is be ture to yourself and be confident in what ever decision you choose is the correct one for you.

 

]]> Sun, 04 Oct 2009 19:26:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=795669&title=scared-shtless#795669 <![CDATA[Scared Sh*tless : Aww hun I&#039;m with the other...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=795552&title=scared-shtless#795552 Author: Babe
Subject: 29152
Posted: 04 October 2009 at 4:29pm

Aww hun I'm with the other posters on giving it a few days to settle and assessing then so not much help but wanted to send you a hug!
Is there any specific reason you don't want another one? I.e finances, preg complications, PND, etc?? ]]> Sun, 04 Oct 2009 16:29:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=795552&title=scared-shtless#795552 <![CDATA[Scared Sh*tless : I&#039;m with Pants, this is essentially...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=795534&title=scared-shtless#795534 Author: RinTinTin
Subject: 29152
Posted: 04 October 2009 at 3:45pm

I'm with Pants, this is essentially only a choice you yourself can make.

I think it will be best to just sit on it for a few days, think it over and talk with your hubby about it.

Just know that whichever choice your make, you need to be comfortable with and need to be able to live with as well. But again, it's a choice only you can make.

 

Best of luck.

]]> Sun, 04 Oct 2009 15:45:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=795534&title=scared-shtless#795534 <![CDATA[Scared Sh*tless : Oh honey, big hugs. You&#039;re...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=795404&title=scared-shtless#795404 Author: Pants
Subject: 29152
Posted: 04 October 2009 at 11:28am

Oh honey, big hugs. You're not going to want to hear this but this is a decision only you can make.

Perhaps take a couple of days to asses things, pro's and cons and how you see your life evolving over the next few years.

All the best xxx]]> Sun, 04 Oct 2009 11:28:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=795404&title=scared-shtless#795404 <![CDATA[Scared Sh*tless : Hi, I am married, have a 3 year...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=795382&title=scared-shtless#795382 Author: Nellsmc
Subject: 29152
Posted: 04 October 2009 at 10:55am

Hi,

I am married, have a 3 year old (august) and a 1 year old (september) and have just this morning found out i am pregnant.

What do I do?? I have been crying all morining.... I didn't want to do this again!!]]> Sun, 04 Oct 2009 10:55:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29152&PID=795382&title=scared-shtless#795382