https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Tue, 12 May 2026 00:18:30 +0000 Fri, 11 Sep 2009 09:09:39 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=28327 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=772047&title=how-life-changes#772047 Author: busybee
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Posted: 11 September 2009 at 9:09am

The same thing happened to me after my mc. We got preggie the first time as hubby really wanted a baby and asked me if we could start trying. I said yes although not feeling ready yet, his excitement was almost infectuous. Then i had the mc and after that I was in a wierd way and I said the same thing as you...it sort of softened me and I couldn't wait to start trying again. I am now 4 months along again and looking at it all now I am much calmer with this one as I know what the worst thing is that could happen and I know I can handle it. So I am much happier and relaxed about it. Give yourself time to get over it. Stay busy with arranging the wedding and before you know 4 months have passed without you thinking about it. ]]> Fri, 11 Sep 2009 09:09:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=772047&title=how-life-changes#772047 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=771610&title=how-life-changes#771610 Author: AandCsmum
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Posted: 10 September 2009 at 6:49pm

Lindy

Ohbaby is more than just a baby website... It's a fabulous tool for you when you are trying for a baby as well ]]> Thu, 10 Sep 2009 18:49:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=771610&title=how-life-changes#771610 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=771550&title=how-life-changes#771550 Author: ElfsMum
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Posted: 10 September 2009 at 5:44pm

oh hugs i know the pain of mc(had two) :( Hugs hope you get to ttc very soon after the wedding and have a happy healthy baby.. ]]> Thu, 10 Sep 2009 17:44:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=771550&title=how-life-changes#771550 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=771436&title=how-life-changes#771436 Author: lisa85
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Posted: 10 September 2009 at 3:34pm

I'm so sorry for your loss hun Best of luck for your journey and hope to see you again soon ]]> Thu, 10 Sep 2009 15:34:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=771436&title=how-life-changes#771436 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=771433&title=how-life-changes#771433 Author: yogalindy
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Posted: 10 September 2009 at 3:29pm

Well on the road to recovery, and this week its been more about mourning the los I have to say... I know this is a baby website but hope I can also share with you all what it means to also miscarry.

One thing to come out of all of this though is that it has kick started something broody in my and I was never ever like this before! didn't even want children! but now the whole experience has softened me in certain ways.

so we shall see, the thing is I am getting married in June next year but can't resist thing ' should I try again and see what happens' however that leaves me with the possibility of having a bump before getting married and not sure I want that. Its strange this whole broodiness things its like its taking over me!

Anyway, maybe will pop on this website agin when I have a need to!



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Posted: 26 August 2009 at 3:19pm

Argh what an awful rollecoaster ride. I'm sorry hun
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Posted: 26 August 2009 at 2:15pm

I'm so sorry Lindy!]]> Wed, 26 Aug 2009 14:15:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=757455&title=how-life-changes#757455 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=757244&title=how-life-changes#757244 Author: yogalindy
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Posted: 26 August 2009 at 10:58am

Thankyou T Rex, Chiklou an Treen, yes it is a tough week this week, I am going throu all sorts of thoughts, I was just coming round to the idea and calmind down and thinking positive things, but even so you just can't be prepared for what happens when you miscarry.

Well at least I know I can have children! ]]> Wed, 26 Aug 2009 10:58:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=757244&title=how-life-changes#757244 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=756820&title=how-life-changes#756820 Author: T_Rex
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 7:59pm



thinking of you hun]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 19:59:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=756820&title=how-life-changes#756820 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=756715&title=how-life-changes#756715 Author: LouD
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 5:40pm

Hey Lindy, So sorry to hear that. Its funny how no matter how much your unsure of having a baby when these things happen they are still very hard to deal with. But everything happens for a reason......as hard and annoying as that comment can be when you feel rotten......

All the best for your wedding plans]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 17:40:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=756715&title=how-life-changes#756715 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=756688&title=how-life-changes#756688 Author: Treen
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 5:07pm

I'm so sorry to hear that, Lindy. xx]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2009 17:07:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=756688&title=how-life-changes#756688 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28327&PID=756687&title=how-life-changes#756687 Author: yogalindy
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Posted: 25 August 2009 at 5:02pm

Hi all

Well I found out today that I have miscarried. Its actually been a hell of a shock considering the drama I typed a couple of weeks ago.

Emotionally iti s a very exhausting time for me and my fiance, well atleast we can get back to planning our wedding for next year, strange day today.

Thank you for all your support.

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