OHbaby! Forums : SEX!! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 30 Apr 2026 12:57:42 +0000 Tue, 28 Jan 2020 11:46:47 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=1558 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[SEX!! : I have a similar story ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=5908664&title=sex#5908664 Author: Alice251223
Subject: 1558
Posted: 28 January 2020 at 11:46am

I have a similar story]]> Tue, 28 Jan 2020 11:46:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=5908664&title=sex#5908664 <![CDATA[SEX!! : I have a similar story, only I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=5908663&title=sex#5908663 Author: Alice251223
Subject: 1558
Posted: 28 January 2020 at 11:45am

I have a similar story, only I live in Spain and that drug is called ladygra]]> Tue, 28 Jan 2020 11:45:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=5908663&title=sex#5908663 <![CDATA[SEX!! : my midwife specifically said NOT...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28589&title=sex#28589 Author: newmum
Subject: 1558
Posted: 17 February 2006 at 8:36pm

my midwife specifically said NOT to have sex after the waters broke... like I'd want to anyway ]]> Fri, 17 Feb 2006 20:36:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28589&title=sex#28589 <![CDATA[SEX!! : dont know for sure but I wouldnt...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28574&title=sex#28574 Author: robyn
Subject: 1558
Posted: 17 February 2006 at 7:46pm

dont know for sure but I wouldnt think that was a good idea because of infection. I know when my waters broke early I wasnt even allowed to leave the hospital because of infection.]]> Fri, 17 Feb 2006 19:46:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28574&title=sex#28574 <![CDATA[SEX!! : I thought that you should after...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28562&title=sex#28562 Author: suzannenz
Subject: 1558
Posted: 17 February 2006 at 3:53pm

I thought that you should after your waters break. Is that true?   I'm sure by that stage it's too uncomfortable anyway but......?

Edited by suzannenz]]> Fri, 17 Feb 2006 15:53:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28562&title=sex#28562 <![CDATA[SEX!! : OK so my son is one and I can...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28501&title=sex#28501 Author: Alan Mum
Subject: 1558
Posted: 17 February 2006 at 10:00am

OK so my son is one and I can deffently say it is safe. I am now preggy with number 2 and my drive has never really returend poor hubby has suffered scince I was pregy with Alan. Lots of lube as the other ladies have said can be a great help in the pain I still find it a little uncomfortable, but not painful so that is ok. Just go with what you feel is best for you and your baby tho there are other ways to keep hubby happy if need be.]]> Fri, 17 Feb 2006 10:00:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28501&title=sex#28501 <![CDATA[SEX!! : I didn&#039;t feel like while...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28470&title=sex#28470 Author: fairsk8
Subject: 1558
Posted: 16 February 2006 at 9:36pm

I didn't feel like while pregnant and still don't feel like it now, my partner complains but i just tell him to get lost or look after Xanda all day and then see if he still wants it at the end of the day. I bet you he wouldn't because he would be absolutely buggered. My midwife said it was ok to have sex all the way thru and that it would not harm bubs, and as for uncomfortable, try lube it makes it much better.]]> Thu, 16 Feb 2006 21:36:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28470&title=sex#28470 <![CDATA[SEX!! : after we saw the first scan we...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28469&title=sex#28469 Author: robyn
Subject: 1558
Posted: 16 February 2006 at 9:33pm

after we saw the first scan we just couldnt do it because it felt to weird, like there was someone watching or something! Luckily we both felt the same]]> Thu, 16 Feb 2006 21:33:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28469&title=sex#28469 <![CDATA[SEX!! : i didnt feel like it at all so...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28461&title=sex#28461 Author: james
Subject: 1558
Posted: 16 February 2006 at 9:00pm

i didnt feel like it at all so its totally norm as for 'pain' try lots of lube ]]> Thu, 16 Feb 2006 21:00:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28461&title=sex#28461 <![CDATA[SEX!! : I couldn&#039;t be less interested...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28431&title=sex#28431 Author: Paws
Subject: 1558
Posted: 16 February 2006 at 4:12pm

I couldn't be less interested if I tried! *lol* poor hubby...good thing he is totally understanding and even a tad weirded out by the idea quite honestly.

But yes as the others have said it is safe unless advised otherwise.]]> Thu, 16 Feb 2006 16:12:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28431&title=sex#28431 <![CDATA[SEX!! : Yep Mrs Frantic - low sex drive...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28426&title=sex#28426 Author: Maya
Subject: 1558
Posted: 16 February 2006 at 3:56pm

Yep Mrs Frantic - low sex drive is very common in pregnancy, particularly 1st and 3rd trimesters. Although for me I could take it or leave it right thru lol.]]> Thu, 16 Feb 2006 15:56:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28426&title=sex#28426 <![CDATA[SEX!! : I am only 8 weeks and I have gone...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28424&title=sex#28424 Author: mrs frantic
Subject: 1558
Posted: 16 February 2006 at 3:53pm

I am only 8 weeks and I have gone off sex too...surely this is not normal? who knows....]]> Thu, 16 Feb 2006 15:53:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28424&title=sex#28424 <![CDATA[SEX!! : I&#039;ve seriously gone off sex...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28406&title=sex#28406 Author: preggy_sunflower
Subject: 1558
Posted: 16 February 2006 at 3:14pm

I've seriously gone off sex in the last month or so. I don't know why - perhaps tiredness, but whatever it is I wish it would pass! It is exceedingly out of character for me, and I think J might be starting to take it personally.....]]> Thu, 16 Feb 2006 15:14:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28406&title=sex#28406 <![CDATA[SEX!! : As far as I know, the only time...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28400&title=sex#28400 Author: daikini
Subject: 1558
Posted: 16 February 2006 at 2:55pm

As far as I know, the only time sex is NOT safe in pregnancy is if there is a risk of premature labour. There is something in semen that softens the cervix, but it seems to only have any definite effect right at the end of the third trimester - which is why sex is good (and often recommended) to bring on labour! Your man cannot hurt baby, no matter how much he tries, as the plug at the base of the cervix is in the way.

Part of being pregnant is that extra blood is flowing around our bodies. This can result in extra stimulation down there, so that a little touch/movement goes a long way! Try different positions, such as spooning or woman on top, where you've got more control over depth and contact.

Sorry if any of this is TMI...
I was 18-20 weeks with Kiya before I even found out I was pregnant, and had lots of fun right through that time without any negative effect on the pregnancy.

While pregnant with Josiah, I found out that an orgasm can sometimes be the best way to relax and get to sleep when you're feeling like you've had enough of everything!]]> Thu, 16 Feb 2006 14:55:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28400&title=sex#28400 <![CDATA[SEX!! : As far as I know Sex is safe thru...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28397&title=sex#28397 Author: Roksana
Subject: 1558
Posted: 16 February 2006 at 2:46pm

As far as I know Sex is safe thru out your pregnancy....Not too get too personal but Zaara is fine and is a healthy & happy baby! I had bleeding and that is the only we were told to avoid "it"

If you are worried ask your midwife!

Edited by Roksana]]> Thu, 16 Feb 2006 14:46:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28397&title=sex#28397 <![CDATA[SEX!! : Perfectly fine. The only time...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28396&title=sex#28396 Author: pixeldust
Subject: 1558
Posted: 16 February 2006 at 2:46pm

Perfectly fine. The only time you should avoid sex during pregnancy is if you have bleeding or your midwife advises you not to :)

You might want to do it as much as possible while you still feel like it and can still manage it! Orgasm doesn't hurt or damage the baby, and in fact, the rush of endorphins you get flow through to the fetus also, so they get a feeling of well being too!

Edited by pixeldust]]> Thu, 16 Feb 2006 14:46:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28396&title=sex#28396 <![CDATA[SEX!! : Hi all, I was just wondering...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1558&PID=28395&title=sex#28395 Author: kellverona
Subject: 1558
Posted: 16 February 2006 at 2:39pm

Hi all,

I was just wondering is it safe to have intercourse at 11 weeks??

Or would you wait till the first trimester was over?

Did try once and it was quite uncomfortable.

Also is it safe to have an orgasm?? wouldnt it hurt the baby? or make chances of miscarriage more higher? 

Sorry so personal but I gotta know,:)

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