https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 09 Apr 2026 10:02:50 +0000 Wed, 19 Mar 2008 18:50:53 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=15443 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330188&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330188 Author: hooper
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 6:50pm

no m/cs, one DD and now 34 weeks pg.]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 18:50:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330188&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330188 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330173&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330173 Author: Maya
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 6:37pm

mum2emj wrote: My mum miscarried twins between me and my sister concieved me a month or so later, i have always felt pretty sad about that knowing that if it wasnt for the miscarraige i wouldnt be here

Eek, I hope my gremlins don't ever think that . If it helps Mum2emj, whilst our m/c baby was definitely very wanted, I wouldn't be without my beautiful, precious little gremlins, and without having m/c I would never have bee lucky enough to have them.]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 18:37:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330173&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330173 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330154&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330154 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 5:44pm

Well I am trying to be philosophical. There is no reason for it to go wrong and there is nothing I can do if it does. I have one beautiful boy so that would help. I think it would be terrible to MC your first pregnancy.]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 17:44:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330154&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330154 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330130&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330130 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 5:14pm

I'm glad it's not just me that was thinking there had been a run of them lately.

until i m/c last year i had 2 kids from 2 preganancies.

it doesn't always go wrong, but then i found that for me, expecting that it wasn't EVER going to go wrong wasn't all that helpful either.

Am sure you'll be all good NZpiper]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 17:14:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330130&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330130 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330069&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330069 Author: MyMinis
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 4:17pm

ive onyl ever been pregs twice haleigh was smooth sailing, james was a bumpy ride though through the pregnancy (but much easier at the end) ]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 16:17:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330069&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330069 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330060&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330060 Author: chonny
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 4:12pm

well, i'm on 2nd pregnancy, and no piscarriages, but my friend had 3 miscarriages before finally getting pregnant with son (now 2), and has had another baby no problem (now 5mth).]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 16:12:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330060&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330060 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330055&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330055 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 4:10pm

i've been blessed to have 2 pregnancies and 2 kids......my mum had a m/c after me but then went on to have my brother

it's totally normal to have this paranoia about things going wrong, especially in early pregnancy
]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 16:10:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330055&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330055 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330049&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330049 Author: rosewood
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 4:01pm

I have a DD and another baby due soon and no m/c. I'm 36 and was worried of the increased risks with age but conceived very quickly both times and the worse thing I've had is morning sickness!!]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 16:01:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330049&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330049 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330027&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330027 Author: .Mel
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 3:46pm

I've had 3 babies. All very safe and well. Mum had two kids and no m/c. My sister has had one m/c.

My grandmother had 5 kids and so did my Nana.]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 15:46:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=330027&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#330027 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329990&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329990 Author: mum2emj
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 3:19pm

i was sure with my 2nd, then 3rd then 4th pregnancies that i would miscarry with the stats how they are- luckily i have had 3 (almost 4) pregnancies that have been sticky.
i did have something happen to me when i was 18 and not long been in a relationship with my husband where i believe i may of miscarried- had a positive pregnancy test in july which i never got confirmed and did anything about as i was pretty scared- had a few days of spotting then in august i had a massive bleed with clots, it was painful and i was soaking tampons and pads frequently. on my 10th day while in holiday in chch i went to a&e during the night freaking out that i was dying or something and the doc didnt give me any answer treated me awful because i was in tears... and told me i wasnt pregnant and to go home. the bleeding stopped slowly over that day to pretty much nothing but it was the longest period i ever had.

my mum miscarried twins between me and my sister concieved me a month or so later, i have always felt pretty sad about that knowing that if it wasnt for the miscarraige i wouldnt be here ]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 15:19:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329990&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329990 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329988&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329988 Author: EmDee
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 3:13pm

2 from 2 here as well (well very almost - come on little girl!). I'm sure it's only natural to worry whether you've mc in the past or not. Here's a couple of extra hugs for you ]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 15:13:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329988&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329988 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329939&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329939 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 2:12pm

thanks cuppatea. I am hoping that the odds are stacked in my favour. Sorry to those who have helped that thought.]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 14:12:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329939&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329939 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329910&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329910 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 1:14pm

My mum had four children and no miscarriages, my sister and three SIL have all had pregnancies with no miscarriges. If there have been a lot recently, and it does seem that way on here especially, then surely that means the odds are in you favour.

Here's a hug for ya ]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 13:14:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329910&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329910 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329900&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329900 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 12:58pm

Three pregnancies and 3 babies for me! My sister has the same but my other sister had 1 baby, a MC and then another baby. 99% of my friends have never had a MC though.]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 12:58:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329900&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329900 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329896&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329896 Author: daikini
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 12:52pm

Not quite none, but 3.75 children from 5 pregnancies

Missed misscarriage between #1 and #2, no problems since... this is my third pregnancy in as many years, and everything is on track for another healthy baby boy at the end.]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 12:52:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329896&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329896 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329891&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329891 Author: lottieandharry
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 12:48pm

nzpiper I felt exactly like you do now with my second pregnancy. I had such a great pregnancy first time didn't take long to get pregnant and pretty smooth sailing. When we got pregnant second time it was a first try baby and several very close friends and my sister both miscarried around that time. I felt like what makes us so special, why do we get to have a wee baby when these other people can't!! I was so worried about going to the first scan cos I thought something would be wrong.
We now have a wonderful nearly 2 yr old and a beautiful 10 week old baby boy!!!!
I can understand how you feel but I am sure you will be fine! Try and enjoy these early weeks while you can still move around easily to play with your wee man!!

All the best! ]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 12:48:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329891&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329891 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329877&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329877 Author: Snappy
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 12:31pm

my nana had nine!]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 12:31:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329877&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329877 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329852&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329852 Author: gemsmum
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 12:04pm

Mum had 4 pregnancies and no mc, I wasn't so lucky but I only lost my first pregnancy and am now onto number 3 bubs! Most of my friends have more than one child and no m/c - so it def happens! ]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 12:04:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329852&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329852 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329828&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329828 Author: nicolaann
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 11:26am

Two pregnancies, and two healthy babies for me!! Both were really good pregnancies, with no complications. ]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 11:26:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329828&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329828 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329823&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329823 Author: meow
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 11:22am

Had one healthy baby, two m/c and am now pregnant. So even if you do have a m/c it doesn't indicate that you won't go on to have another healthy pregnancy. ]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 11:22:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329823&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329823 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329813&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329813 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 11:17am

Half my friends have had lots of babies and no m/c...my nana had no m/c, but me and my mum are not so lucky

]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 11:17:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329813&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329813 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329799&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329799 Author: Maya
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 11:04am

I'm not that lucky, but my mum had four babies and no miscarriages, and my grandma had five and no miscarriages.]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 11:04:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329799&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329799 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329794&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329794 Author: MorgansMum
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 10:57am

I have had a DD and am almost 29wks with DD no2 so not all bad!!! ]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 10:57:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329794&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329794 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329765&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329765 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 10:17am

I have had two pregnancies and two healthy babies, so it does happen I think when we are on here we get a slightly biased view of pregnancy and complications etc as there are just so many people on here IYKWIM. ]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 10:17:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329765&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329765 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329761&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329761 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 15443
Posted: 19 March 2008 at 10:14am

It is just my stage of paranoia I am sure but there seem to be a LOT of miscarriages happening at the moment and I need something to show me that is doesnt always go bad.

Please can someone, anyone, post that they have never had a MC and that they have had multiple pregnancies.

My logic is that I had an easy run of No 1 and sooner or later my luck has to run out. The logical part of me knows that MOST pregnancies turn out all right but my irrational pregnant side can think of nothing but.

]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2008 10:14:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15443&PID=329761&title=miscarriages--anyone-who-hasnt#329761