OHbaby! Forums : How to inspire confidence NOT!! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 09 Apr 2026 09:55:37 +0000 Tue, 18 Mar 2008 15:19:56 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=15372 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : What a horrible lady! Maybe she...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328965&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328965 Author: BellaBoo
Subject: 15372
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 3:19pm

What a horrible lady! Maybe she has a miserable life and just tries to make other people feel bad to make herself feel better. Anyway, just want to say a huge big congrats!!!!!! You were the first person to welcome me to the trying to conceive thread and was really lovely!!! Stick, stickety stick!! Mine and Bellas fingers and toes are crossed for ya!]]> Tue, 18 Mar 2008 15:19:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328965&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328965 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : Good grief! How unprofessional...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328488&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328488 Author: daikini
Subject: 15372
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 8:42am

Good grief! How unprofessional of her! Good on you for being willing to stand up to her and make her eat her words. She definitely needs to realise that compassion is a big part of nursing, and it doesn't matter what her personal opinion is she should be supportive and helpful.]]> Tue, 18 Mar 2008 08:42:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328488&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328488 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : that nurse better give you a big...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328463&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328463 Author: james
Subject: 15372
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 8:05am

that nurse better give you a big sorry or i will be coing up there to smack her one that is sooo rude and uncaring big hugs hun ]]> Tue, 18 Mar 2008 08:05:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328463&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328463 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : Well yeah Kents sperm count was...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328433&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328433 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 15372
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 7:37am

Well yeah Kents sperm count was on the low side or normal, but it seems they still do their job, its now up to my body to do its job. ]]> Tue, 18 Mar 2008 07:37:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328433&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328433 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : That&#039;s horrible. All the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328376&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328376 Author: busymum
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 10:53pm

That's horrible. All the best for the next few weeks, even if she's not holding out hope I sure am with all the things you and your doctor have learned about your BP condition etc. I thought your DH had sperm count issues, if so congrats to him LOL!]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 22:53:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328376&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328376 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : And the truth is she really doesn&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328339&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328339 Author: Vanillabean
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 10:14pm

And the truth is she really doesn't know whats going to happen. Plenty of people have successful pregnancies after multiple miscarriages. Telling you not to hope is like saying "why don't you just give up already" Grrrrrrr. So unbelievable coming from a health professional. She needs to get some compassion.]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 22:14:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328339&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328339 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : Yep that is unreal. In her line...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328197&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328197 Author: kobec
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 9:26pm

Yep that is unreal. In her line of work she needs to be very sensitive and not make comments like that. There are plenty of other prople out there busting their gut to find a job who whould never even dream of saying anything that unprofessional. I would deffinatly make a complaint.]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 21:26:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328197&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328197 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : OMG that is unbelievable!!! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328188&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328188 Author: Vanillabean
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 9:21pm

OMG that is unbelievable!!! ]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 21:21:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328188&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328188 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : OMG Kaz. I can&#039;t believe...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328077&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328077 Author: The_Stuarts
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 8:33pm

OMG Kaz. I can't believe that rude cow.

Good on you for saying something to her next time. You have to make sure she learns to think before she speaks, there's no excuses for that kind of behaviour.

Let us know how it goes.
]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 20:33:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328077&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328077 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : I would definately make a complaint...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328011&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328011 Author: KiwiL
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 7:22pm

I would definately make a complaint Kaz. After all you've been through, the last thing you need is someone assuming that heartache is assured. Whether or not you've had a miscarriage yourself, when you're a nurse you have a duty to ensure the things you say are appropriate.

I would be so upset!! Very mad for you!]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 19:22:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=328011&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#328011 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : ohmigod thats so rude! and totally...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327982&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327982 Author: tropics
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 6:49pm

ohmigod thats so rude! and totally unprofessional I cant believe that! and good on you for saying something to her cause your right if she has said it to you she probably makes insensitive and inappropriate things all the time what a BITCH! ]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 18:49:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327982&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327982 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : i know she has never lost a baby,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327975&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327975 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 6:32pm

i know she has never lost a baby, i also know that she is pretty thoughtless, as in speaks before thinking; I also know thats its really unprofessional, which is why when i see her on wednesday i will be demanding an apology and once given it will all be forgotten.

Besides cant be bothered with ppl like that, and the only reason im gonna say anything is so she doesnt say it to anyone else]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 18:32:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327975&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327975 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : Kaz - that&#039;s totally un-professional...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327967&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327967 Author: emachan
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 6:19pm

Kaz - that's totally un-professional and damn well rude.
I would be making a complaint chick - she needs to know (learn) how to speak to people kindly and sensitively. Especially in her kind of work (its probably never happened to her or someone close to her grrrr)]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 18:19:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327967&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327967 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : That&#039;s totally off! Definitely...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327962&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327962 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 6:15pm

That's totally off! Definitely complain. ]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 18:15:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327962&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327962 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : Kazzle that is so rude of her...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327945&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327945 Author: MelandBri
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 6:05pm

Kazzle that is so rude of her to say that to you. I would definitely be saying something to her or at least the OB.]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 18:05:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327945&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327945 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : OMGosh that is seriously rude!!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327942&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327942 Author: Kels
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 6:01pm

OMGosh that is seriously rude!! I would put a complaint in BIG TIME!

]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 18:01:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327942&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327942 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : OMG I&#039;d biarch slap her!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327933&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327933 Author: .Mel
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:50pm

OMG I'd biarch slap her! How freakn rude of her to say that to you.

Don't worry about her, you know you're feeling good this time around and THAT is all that matters!]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 17:50:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327933&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327933 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : Well then, this little one has...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327925&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327925 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:39pm

Well then, this little one has to stick so you can "stick" it to them!]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 17:39:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327925&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327925 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : That is disgusting! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327914&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327914 Author: katie1
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:28pm

That is disgusting!]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 17:28:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327914&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327914 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : That is totally inappropriate,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327912&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327912 Author: FionaS
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:21pm

That is totally inappropriate, unprofessional and down right insensitive. I'm a passive as they come but even I think that warrants a formal complaint.]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 17:21:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327912&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327912 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : honestly i just cant be bothered,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327907&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327907 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:19pm

honestly i just cant be bothered, but when i see the ob in person (which i never got to last time) i will say something to her....actually i think i will say something to the nurse and make her apologise to me in person]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 17:19:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327907&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327907 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : Oh my gosh that is SO insensitive,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327905&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327905 Author: arohanui
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:16pm

Oh my gosh that is SO insensitive, you poor thing. I'd actually be making a formal complaint I reckon...]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 17:16:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327905&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327905 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : wtf!!! Thats so friggin rude!!!!!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327896&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327896 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 5:08pm

wtf!!! Thats so friggin rude!!!!! WHY would you say that to a women who has gone through what you have, grrrr that really makes me mad. id be complaining, and I dont blame you for wanting to go private!

]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 17:08:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327896&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327896 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : cause she knew she was wrong to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327889&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327889 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 4:57pm

cause she knew she was wrong to say such stupid and terrible things... grrrr.]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 16:57:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327889&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327889 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : i dont intend to, she avoided...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327882&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327882 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 4:52pm

i dont intend to, she avoided me when i went to do the bloods though....all i thought was "chicken sh*t"...so more bloods on wednesday and we will go from there
]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 16:52:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327882&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327882 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : OMG what a bitch!!!!! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327870&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327870 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 4:43pm

OMG what a bitch!!!!!]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 16:43:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327870&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327870 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : That is shocking!!! How wrong...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327866&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327866 Author: Mama2two
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 4:41pm

That is shocking!!! How wrong ]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 16:41:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327866&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327866 <![CDATA[How to inspire confidence NOT!! : Okay so i rang the hospital and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327857&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327857 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 15372
Posted: 17 March 2008 at 4:37pm

Okay so i rang the hospital and spoke to the nurse i normally deal with and said "im pregnant" she goes "oh are you sure", im like no im just ringing you to waste yours and mine time.

So off she goes to talk to the ob, comes back to me and says "okay we are going to send you for bloods, today and wednesday, but we dont hold out much hope given your track record"

Im like WTF...seriously thinking about going private
]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 16:37:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15372&PID=327857&title=how-to-inspire-confidence-not#327857