OHbaby! Forums : the uncertianity of it all!! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 09 Apr 2026 08:24:58 +0000 Mon, 03 Mar 2008 12:14:46 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=14941 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : Oh Hollie, I feel for you hun! I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316428&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316428 Author: emz
Subject: 14941
Posted: 03 March 2008 at 12:14pm

Oh Hollie, I feel for you hun!

I went through the heart thing as well (twice) and then bubs came out fine. Not saying that might happen to you, but just remember it is a possibility. We had to have the growth and heart specialists in (I think 8 people in total ) as they had no idea what to expect. But with twins, oh I feel for you. They really should be giving you a definite place to birth where you and the twins don't have to be separated. That's just bad IMO. ]]> Mon, 03 Mar 2008 12:14:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316428&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316428 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : thanks ladies.... i feel so much...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316405&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316405 Author: tashzmum
Subject: 14941
Posted: 03 March 2008 at 11:42am

thanks ladies.... i feel so much better letting it all out.

i did ask about being transferred while in labour but all that was said was-we could look at that at a later date!!!

emma-thanks for the offer. i might take you up on that. im sure the gremlins cant be that scary!!!]]> Mon, 03 Mar 2008 11:42:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316405&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316405 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : from me!!!! Umm, when you are...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316316&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316316 Author: EthansMummy
Subject: 14941
Posted: 03 March 2008 at 10:01am

from me!!!!

Umm, when you are in labour go straight to Auckland???? So the want you to labour in an ambulance/car for 2 hours????

So not fair splitting you up either. ]]> Mon, 03 Mar 2008 10:01:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316316&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316316 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : from me too. ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316162&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316162 Author: caraMel
Subject: 14941
Posted: 02 March 2008 at 10:49pm

from me too.]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2008 22:49:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316162&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316162 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : Hope you get everything sorted...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316115&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316115 Author: tishy
Subject: 14941
Posted: 02 March 2008 at 9:44pm


Hope you get everything sorted at your next app in Auckland]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2008 21:44:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316115&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316115 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : dont really know what to say...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316066&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316066 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 14941
Posted: 02 March 2008 at 8:58pm



dont really know what to say but i am thinking of you]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2008 20:58:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316066&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316066 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : That does sound pretty frustrating,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316057&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316057 Author: busymum
Subject: 14941
Posted: 02 March 2008 at 8:51pm

That does sound pretty frustrating, I hope you get some answers very soon! Hopefully they can get a better look at the heart and be a bit more definite about that before birth.]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2008 20:51:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316057&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316057 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : Hugs, sounds like you are in a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316018&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316018 Author: Maya
Subject: 14941
Posted: 02 March 2008 at 8:19pm

Hugs, sounds like you are in a pretty scary (not to mention frustrating!) situation! I hope the Akl specialist can give you a more concrete game plan.

And you and Twin 2 are welcome to stay here if you do end up being stuck in Auckland, and we have plenty of room for Tash and DH if need be too. That is if the gremlins don't scare you too much!]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2008 20:19:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=316018&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#316018 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : Hugs What an awful situation...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315988&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315988 Author: Freesia
Subject: 14941
Posted: 02 March 2008 at 7:55pm

Hugs What an awful situation to be in. I think I would try and push what kebabat said about getting transferred to akld once you go into labour. All the best to you.]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2008 19:55:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315988&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315988 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : poor you - this must be such a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315938&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315938 Author: emachan
Subject: 14941
Posted: 02 March 2008 at 6:56pm

poor you - this must be such a worry for you (which you certainly don't need).
I hope that whatever happens, that it all goes smoothly and your wee one with the heart problem is fine *hugs*]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2008 18:56:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315938&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315938 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : Geez thats a horrible situation!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315929&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315929 Author: kebakat
Subject: 14941
Posted: 02 March 2008 at 6:37pm

Geez thats a horrible situation! I hope you can get some sort of plan sorted out with them soon.

Can they transfer you by ambulance up to auck when/if you go into labour so you are all in the same place?]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2008 18:37:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315929&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315929 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : Awww Hollie how annoying. I so...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315907&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315907 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 14941
Posted: 02 March 2008 at 6:15pm

Awww Hollie how annoying.

I so hope you can get things sorted out before April.

]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2008 18:15:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315907&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315907 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : Oh sweetheart.. I&#039;m really...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315895&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315895 Author: Snickerdoodle
Subject: 14941
Posted: 02 March 2008 at 5:52pm

Oh sweetheart..
I'm really sorry to hear of your plight.
I really hope everything gets sorted before it gets too out of hand.
And they call these people Medical "Professionals"???

]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2008 17:52:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315895&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315895 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : OMGosh, Big hugs Luv!!! I cannot...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315849&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315849 Author: Kels
Subject: 14941
Posted: 02 March 2008 at 4:30pm

OMGosh, Big hugs Luv!!! I cannot begin to imagine how horrible this all is for you. I hope it all gets sorted at the next appt in Akld. Fingers crossed baby A's heart condition is minor and not requiring surgery... Again big hugs girl!!

]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2008 16:30:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315849&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315849 <![CDATA[the uncertianity of it all!! : hey ladies just need to have a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315831&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315831 Author: tashzmum
Subject: 14941
Posted: 02 March 2008 at 4:21pm

hey ladies just need to have a bit of a rant as the uncertainity of every thing is starting to get to me. especially as the ob at waikato was soo rude and horrible last thursday.

-first we find out we are having twins and i will have to deliver at waikato,
-then we find out that one twin is bigger then the other so i also go under the care of an ob at waikato and have regular scans,
-then at one of the scans at waikato they say twin A MAY have a heart problem,
-after a trip to auckland hosp we find out that she does infact have a heart problem but as no-one can get a clear enough view of her heart to actually get a good look they dont know how bad it is and if she will need surgery in the few days after she is born and they would like me to deliver in akl hosp, but also said if i go into labour natrually to go to waikato and then transfer up to auckland,i go under the care of another ob, a cardiac specialist dude, a cardiac nurse and another midwife(who i am yet to meet),
-then at my appt on thursday at waikato the ob pretty much says that they dont want me delivering up there and i should go straight to auckland if i go into labour. if i do deliver in waikato they will transfer twin A to akl and then twin B and i can follow up at a later date.which means being seperated for who knows how long!!

so not only do i have no idea when, where, or even how i am delivering i have a team of 2 midwives(i still see my first one), 2 obs,a nurse, a peadiatric cardiology specialist and 2 hospitals.
and then once they are born its the question of will she need surgery or can her problem be fixed with out, how long will she be in hospital for, where will twin B and i stay, what about df and tash!!!!

argh there is so much to think about and try to figure out. i have another scan and appt in auckland on the 13th so hopefully i can sit down with someone and just sort everything out as best as can be done]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2008 16:21:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14941&PID=315831&title=the-uncertianity-of-it-all#315831