OHbaby! Forums : weirdness about sex..lol https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Wed, 08 Apr 2026 09:57:56 +0000 Mon, 05 Nov 2007 09:02:18 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=12021 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : We don&#039;t have sex as much...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241300&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241300 Author: LittleBug
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Posted: 05 November 2007 at 9:02am

We don't have sex as much as we used to either, but DH doesn't complain... think he's just glad he's still getting some I feel funny when my tummy rubs on him but he said he doesn't mind it at all, he said he likes my tummy. I'm always the one to initiate it atm because he says he doesn't want to put pressure on me when I'm tired and feeling sick etc.

In saying that, we didn't do anything for about the first 3 months cos I was throwing up about 10 times a day, so neither of us really wanted to (not attractive, lol). But now it's at least weekly... lol]]> Mon, 05 Nov 2007 09:02:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241300&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241300 <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : ladyluck wrote:. We stopped...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241298&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241298 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 12021
Posted: 05 November 2007 at 9:01am

Originally posted by ladyluck ladyluck wrote:

. We stopped missionary a couple of months ago, due to bubs kicking (ie. belly to belly)... that freaked us both out.


Haha yeah we stopped that for the same reason. DH wasn't impressed when he got booted at the vital moment

We still do it fairly often - not as often as we used to but my libido hasn't really dropped which is cool. It is getting a bit harder to find positions though.

I think my DH was a bit weirded out for about a month after I started showing but he got over that. Didn't help that the first time we did it after I got pregnant I ended up in the emergency department of NSH. (It was unrelated but DH obviously associated it negatively)

Edited by Bobbie]]> Mon, 05 Nov 2007 09:01:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241298&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241298 <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : My DP never complains even though...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241292&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241292 Author: BellaBoo
Subject: 12021
Posted: 05 November 2007 at 8:50am

My DP never complains even though we dont have as much sex as we used to. I just dont feel like it at all. When we do have sex I initiate it (but usually only cos I feel bad he aint gettin any!). We dont really find the whole thing weired as it is natural and also how we got into the position we are now ]]> Mon, 05 Nov 2007 08:50:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241292&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241292 <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : Yep my was last time. Not this...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241284&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241284 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 12021
Posted: 05 November 2007 at 8:31am

Yep my was last time. Not this time tho! ]]> Mon, 05 Nov 2007 08:31:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241284&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241284 <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : I just haven&#039;t felt like...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241271&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241271 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 12021
Posted: 05 November 2007 at 7:37am

I just haven't felt like it since getting pregnant..he still gets some but not as much(1st tri was too scared) but we do other stuff...

he, to his credit , has been really really great about it.. don't worry Megan I do know heaps of men who were the same as your DH..you aren't alone:) ]]> Mon, 05 Nov 2007 07:37:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241271&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241271 <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : Can i have all your DF&#039;s!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241269&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241269 Author: MissCandice
Subject: 12021
Posted: 05 November 2007 at 7:29am

Can i have all your DF's! Mine complained the whole time that he wasnt getting any, i could only manage once a week! And to this day he still complains that i didnt give him enough while pregnant.]]> Mon, 05 Nov 2007 07:29:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241269&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241269 <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : My DF and I did last week but...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241232&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241232 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 12021
Posted: 04 November 2007 at 10:26pm

My DF and I did last week but I felt uncomfy and it stung a bit, we hadnt done it since before my BFP, just cos I was so so scared about having another m/c. My DF is totally fine about the sex thing, he said to me if I want to and Im happy and comfy with it then he will do it, if Im not then it doesnt bother him, he said he just wants me to be happy etc



Edited by Sheza]]> Sun, 04 Nov 2007 22:26:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241232&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241232 <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : I think the last time we had sex...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241194&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241194 Author: NovemberMum
Subject: 12021
Posted: 04 November 2007 at 9:42pm

I think the last time we had sex I was around 25 weeks it just got too uncomfy for me.

I have been wanting to try again but hubby said it would be kind of weird..lol]]> Sun, 04 Nov 2007 21:42:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241194&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241194 <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : I think mine was concerned that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241193&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241193 Author: busymum
Subject: 12021
Posted: 04 November 2007 at 9:41pm

I think mine was concerned that he'd flip on the labour switch.... but then knowing that after labour was gonna be a long wait he managed to put all those feelings aside hehe ]]> Sun, 04 Nov 2007 21:41:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241193&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241193 <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : We haven&#039;t slowed down our...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241189&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241189 Author: bookwyrm
Subject: 12021
Posted: 04 November 2007 at 9:39pm

We haven't slowed down our sex life at all since becoming pregnant. I know DP wishes I could climb on top more often, but we have been limited to the side cuddle position. Sometimes he freaks and wants to check that he isn't hurting bubs. Earlier on, he asked me whether bubs is bothered by him... I giggled. We stopped missionary a couple of months ago, due to bubs kicking (ie. belly to belly)... that freaked us both out.

Sorry if this was TMI. Haha.]]> Sun, 04 Nov 2007 21:39:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241189&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241189 <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : Umm, NO! Things were still happening...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241179&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241179 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 12021
Posted: 04 November 2007 at 9:33pm

Umm, NO! Things were still happening right until the night I went into labour! ]]> Sun, 04 Nov 2007 21:33:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241179&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241179 <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : Yeah my DH wasn&#039;t overly...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241176&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241176 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 12021
Posted: 04 November 2007 at 9:30pm

Yeah my DH wasn't overly keen, which was fine by me, I was too fat and uncomfortable and then had leaking waters and was in and out of hospital from 35 weeks on, and I can assure that is not much of a turn on.]]> Sun, 04 Nov 2007 21:30:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241176&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241176 <![CDATA[weirdness about sex..lol : anyone elses dh/dp think it was...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241170&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241170 Author: NovemberMum
Subject: 12021
Posted: 04 November 2007 at 9:27pm

anyone elses dh/dp think it was weird to have sex in the later stages of pregnancy.]]> Sun, 04 Nov 2007 21:27:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12021&PID=241170&title=weirdness-about-sex-lol#241170